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Originally posted by: laughingmonkey

Yesterday was my Epiphany that Raghvi AT is supposed to be appreciation right. Toh phir yahaan pe gaali dene kyun aate hai log. Point out karo galtiyaan. But just to make a negative statement or comment. Wahaan pe rules nahi hai kya about only appreciation to be dine. I think I’ve read something like that in Pallavi AT rules.

The walls of texts are the crowd pulling factor!!! 😂😂😂

Liyah, Raghvi AT is still tolerable.

I am quite surprised that few people make sure to make a post on mf everyday so that they can bash Raghav and give him all sorts of profane words.

Sahu I dropped u a text in the EDT. I Just want to tell you that you're more mature than people who are so much older than you.

Khamakha I used to baby u 🤣

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Is it the same for gifs also?

Yes babe.. i use this only for both GIF and Images..

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Ru I think they live in an idealistic world. They don't understand how it takes work to committ and stay in a relationship. You can't just stay till the sun shines and run before the storm. Aadhe time toh gender issue bana dete hai.

Would Raghav forgive her ufffffffff

It's sad that so many people use the terms 'feminism' and 'gender equality' so casually that these have lost their weight and significance. Half the time you can't hold a conversation with the opposite sex on these without their faces saying "oh you're one of those types who turn everything into a gender issue". Well I'm not. I know what things I want to fight for and what to let go of but they're not wrong to assume I am because many people are. Feminism ko badnaam karke rakha hain aise logon ne, itna ke now things that actually make a difference get overlooked or brushed off by the system.

Aur yeh kya logic hain bey. Let's assume the roles are reversed--how do we know Raghav wouldn't forgive Pallavi? Unko kaise pata? Why shouldn't he forgive Pallavi? Because he is a man? The very fact that they are assuming ke Raghav won't extend the same grace to Pallavi (because he a man) proves that these people are also prone to gender stereotyping. The irony.

Again, at the eod, these are all fictional characters, written by people who have their own sets of beliefs and prejudices and gender ideas--people who are flawed themselves. If I create something today, I'm sure it would reflect some of my own prejudices too no matter how hard I try to do otherwise. We can like or not like something they show but why look for social justice issues in the wrong place?

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Sahu I dropped u a text in the EDT. I Just want to tell you that you're more mature than people who are so much older than you.

Khamakha I used to baby u 🤣

Ren , I love that you baby me😁

Originally posted by: moon.child

Yes babe.. i use this only for both GIF and Images..

Wapas explain pls I'm tech disabled

Originally posted by: rubys07

What is this raag on Raghav being a habitual cheater? I remember this coming up yday too, was it you Ren or Fria who explained why he wasn't? I'm seeing the same thing today as well. Kya hain matlab😆

I said he was a habitual liar but not a habitual cheater. Loooool. It was in the AT.

Originally posted by: rubys07

It's sad that so many people use the terms 'feminism' and 'gender equality' so casually that these have lost their weight and significance. Half the time you can't hold a conversation with the opposite sex on these without their faces saying "oh you're one of those types who turn everything into a gender issue". Well I'm not. I know what things I want to fight for and what to let go of but they're not wrong to assume I am because many people are. Feminism ko badnaam karke rakha hain aise logon ne, itna ke now things that actually make a difference get overlooked or brushed off by the system.

Aur yeh kya logic hain bey. Let's assume the roles are reversed--how do we know Raghav wouldn't forgive Pallavi? Unko kaise pata? Why shouldn't he forgive Pallavi? Because he is a man? The very fact that they are assuming ke Raghav won't extend the same grace to Pallavi (because he a man) proves that these people are also prone to gender stereotyping. The irony.

Again, at the eod, these are all fictional characters, written by people who have their own sets of beliefs and prejudices and gender ideas--people who are flawed themselves. If I create something today, I'm sure it would reflect some of my own prejudices too no matter how hard I try to do otherwise. We can like or not like something they show but why look for social justice issues in the wrong place?

If roles are reversed, I am 100 percent sure Raghav will forgive Pallavi.

Originally posted by: rubys07

I don't mean to be rude. I just wonder if 60%-70% of these people who are calling Raghav out on his supposed infidelity and "habitual cheating" even know what real relationships are like, and have they or their partners always done the morally right thing. Are we watching a show or Aesop's Fables?

Knowledge of relationships is questionable.

About they themselves or their partner doing the morally right thing, leave that aside. They live on this planet right, must have associated with people. Must Have seen people in problems and difficulties and confusions? Do you cancel every one out?

I can write a whole thesis on habitual cheaters and emotional fidelity but kyun time waste karna when we have tazbus to keep us occupied.

I’m honestly sad that Raghav’s character is going through this in the show but I think watching itv has made me so immune that I am like dekha jaayega. But for most people, it burst their bubble (including mine) and for a good number, a good chance to get back at Raghav 😂

Aesop Fables😂😂

Reality bhi chahiye, flawed characters bhi chahiye, lekin galtiyaan nahi dekh sakti. Galtiyaan ke maafi bhi nahi hoti even if people repent.

I think I ran around in circles and finally came back to your question itself, are we perfect, are we invincible that we’ll never fall? Do we want to be shown forgiveness and understanding them??

Originally posted by: rubys07

It's sad that so many people use the terms 'feminism' and 'gender equality' so casually that these have lost their weight and significance. Half the time you can't hold a conversation with the opposite sex on these without their faces saying "oh you're one of those types who turn everything into a gender issue". Well I'm not. I know what things I want to fight for and what to let go of but they're not wrong to assume I am because many people are. Feminism ko badnaam karke rakha hain aise logon ne, itna ke now things that actually make a difference get overlooked or brushed off by the system.

Aur yeh kya logic hain bey. Let's assume the roles are reversed--how do we know Raghav wouldn't forgive Pallavi? Unko kaise pata? Why shouldn't he forgive Pallavi? Because he is a man? The very fact that they are assuming ke Raghav won't extend the same grace to Pallavi (because he a man) proves that these people are also prone to gender stereotyping. The irony.

Again, at the eod, these are all fictional characters, written by people who have their own sets of beliefs and prejudices and gender ideas--people who are flawed themselves. If I create something today, I'm sure it would reflect some of my own prejudices too no matter how hard I try to do otherwise. We can like or not like something they show but why look for social justice issues in the wrong place?

Yes feminism is too overused that it has lost significance in things that actually matter.

Actually I've been literally saying this in most posts cheating isn't gender specific and gender ka mudda math banao.

Trust me now that I am watching this track I can draw clear parallels with Mandar track and I cna really point out how R is going wrong the same way P was. Only difference is tadka times 10 and the fact that P was honest to R (R ka stand is also not conflicted nor was P).

But I don't want to make it a he did vs she did thing. It really doesn't matter. And to address the would Raghav forgive, heck yes he would. Woh Pallavi se itna pyar karta hai that he would forgive 100 murders that she would do. P is the one that holds to more idealistic morals, Raghav doesn't. He was willing to once drink lota pani which basically meant he was willing to kill his self-respect for her. He didn't love her then (or may be he did). Forgiving a cheating spouse is nothing. As long as there is remorse and repentance and penance.