Originally posted by: black.snowflake
Can we give that girl the credit for being the strong person she is irrespective of being emotional. And dealing with what comes her way in a great manner. She is young not foolish. She is emotional and yet practical. She knows her craft and has learned the ways of this world. And she does not suffer fools.
I don't hold the actors responsible for the toxicity of people. Honestly if so many people can put across disappointment or any emotion in a very respectful way, so can the people who make 'fake accounts'. They are trolls. They thrive on being anonymous and spewing hate. Tomorrow they will come on some other issue after them. Such people love finding issues. To be toxic or to accept or move on is a reflection on your thought.
If deba 'brought the hate' on herself according to intellectuals then these 'hurt fans' brought the hurt on themselves. Nothing gives anyone the right to be a bully. It's on the person who does it. As someone rightfully said in a comment above, if the fd is obsessed in love or hate, the consequences are on them.
Why should either of them lose out of work opportunities even in case with each other due to hate mongers. While 99% it won't happen because it's very rare, but it's easy to say they should not work because the hard truth is these guys get paid in daily wages. Only for the days/time on set. It's a hard career option. I though the same thing when the live happened then realised that deba is smart. She is not going to destroy her opportunities (not just working with kv like in general) for those who spew hate because if she does, it's their win. I thought that she should let go of the mv but realised why should she not get money and fame from an opportunity just because some random troll's mind is in the gutter.
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Amen sister! 🙌
I think unfortunately, obsessed shippers and toxic trolls have blown this whole thing up. Too much of anything is bad, be it love or hate. The amount of unsolicited advice and hate that both Deba and KV got is something that I can never understand. And the obsessed fans that stalk, dissect and read into every minute detai,don’t make it any easy for them either. You can ship even inanimate objects with that level of scrutiny 🤪🙄
Let’s give them all the credit they deserve for being good actors , for living Shakhi, for their sizzling on-screen chemistry and for not carrying that into their personal lives.
KV and his relationship status of has been talked about way too often. I’m glad that IF is a space that allows us to sanely discuss on it, and not gossip excessively.
It’s easy to form opinions and judge away. But we don’t know the circumstances that compelled someone to do what they did.Someone said, “ Never come between a man and his meal”. Being in any field, especially more so in the film industry, is such a constant struggle and you are forced to make some tough choices.
Deba has handled it all amazingly well! ❤️🙌 I can only hope that she comes out stronger after this and that both of them get more artistically challenging and rewarding work as artists.
We can only choose kindness above everything else. ❤️
Edited by rumi_dee - 3 years ago