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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

i guess you are right . Maybe she wanted to him to take her back with haq. When he does she behaves like she was forced to stay so obviously Virat will avoid doing it this time . I think their stand is same as what was before the accident .They have kept it aside for now . It actually makes sense as to why Virat will take transfer . If everything was fine then Virat going away wouldn’t have made sense . I think they are still keeping Virat in dark about her issue with Pakhi’s interference and Sai is still confused about her feelings .

I understand both Virat and Sai.

My fiance who will become my husband tomorrow😆asks me what I am thinking or what is in my heart and he keeps asking it, and I give in after some time. I have been a super introvert all my life. But he made me open up to him. That's why, I feel so connected to him. But a few days ago, I had something in my mind and he asked me multiple times, I told him that I won't be able to tell this, it's super awkward for me. But he didn't give up and finally I had to give in. But I felt I was forced into telling him, like I had no say in this. I was in tears. So he promised me not to force me, if I said no, he won't ask again. He's keeping that promise. But it made me aloof again.

I understand both him and me.

There are times when I want to stay quiet about some matter. And if he forces me to speak up, I feel bad.

There are times, I want to open up but I'm unable to do so, in those times, I want him to compel me to speak otherwise I won't and I would become lonely again.

So in his mind, he's making me happy by not asking me again about what's bothering me. But I'm not happy😆

I'll have to tell him, "Look man, these are the times I want you to pressurise me to speak up. And in instances like this, don't ask me again."😆

Virat thinks, by giving Sai the freedom to choose where she wants to stay, he's making her happy. But Sai is not happy. There are times, she wants Virat to assert his right as her husband to stop her from leaving, like he did when she was about to leave home the last time.

Am I making sense or am I just blabbering🤣

Edited by JoonaMohalla - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

The Episode is good. The psychiatrist for me always speaks sensible stuff. I liked her interaction with Sai and today with Aswini. Sairat has a lot of baggage individually to even think of being a couple in true sense. They both definitely care for each other,the longing is there but insecurities and misunderstandings harm their progress.

Now Aswini asking them to live separately is a good move. They will be in the same house but they would think properly and analyse the importance of each other by being alone which is much needed for them.

Sai as always wanted him to take her by right but Virat has his reasons and fears for not asking her to come immediately. I agree Sai is not shettlecock. No one asked her to leave the house. She did. She should decide whether to go back or not. I wished she should not expect Virat to plead with her to return but this girl won’t change.

Samrat did show mirror to Pakhi. His lines were good . Pakhi should understand that she can not manipulate Samrat. But Samrat again is fickle. One day he stands firm and the other day he looks besotted with his wife and believe her.

Only help needed from him is this...he should control Pakhi from visiting Sairat at night. That much he should do.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: JoonaMohalla

I understand both Virat and Sai.

My fiance who will become my husband tomorrow😆asks me what I am thinking or what is in my heart and he keeps asking it, and I give in after some time. I have been a super introvert all my life. But he made me open up to him. That's why, I feel so connected to him. But a few days ago, I had something in my mind and he asked me multiple times, I told him that I won't be able to tell this, it's super awkward for me. But he didn't give up and finally I had to give in. But I felt I was forced into telling him, like I had no say in this. I was in tears. So he promised me not to force me, if I said no, he won't ask again. He's keeping that promise. But it made me aloof again.

I understand both him and me.

There are times when I want to stay quiet about some matter. And if he forces me to speak up, I feel bad.

There are times, I want to open up but I'm unable to do so, in those times, I want him to compel me to speak otherwise I won't and I would become lonely again.

So in his mind, he's making me happy by not asking me again about what's bothering me. But I'm not happy😆

I'll have to tell him, "Look man, these are the times I want you to pressurise me to speak up. And in instances like this, don't ask me again."😆

Virat thinks, by giving Sai the freedom to choose where she wants to stay, he's making her happy. But Sai is not happy. There are times, she wants Virat to assert his right as her husband to stop her from leaving, like he did when she was about to leave home the last time.

Am I making sense or am I just blabbering🤣

Haha …you make sense . I agree women sometimes are complicated . It’s true Sai likes her freedom but at the same time she wants Virat to assert his rights for two reasons one she doesn’t have to say loud that she wants to stay back and second it shows that he cares . I totally understand her but it’s quite confusing for a man because they are wired differently.



Cheeku , have you read men are from Mars and women are from Venus . It’s a awesome book and it talks about these things . The book aptly describes how women and men behave . Women when they need some help in some chores they won’t ask men to help them out but expect men to understand that they needs help and expects them to volunteer themselves but men don’t think that way . For them you need to ask because they can’t think the way women does .

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

The Episode is good. The psychiatrist for me always speaks sensible stuff. I liked her interaction with Sai and today with Aswini. Sairat has a lot of baggage individually to even think of being a couple in true sense. They both definitely care for each other,the longing is there but insecurities and misunderstandings harm their progress.

Now Aswini asking them to live separately is a good move. They will be in the same house but they would think properly and analyse the importance of each other by being alone which is much needed for them.

Sai as always wanted him to take her by right but Virat has his reasons and fears for not asking her to come immediately. I agree Sai is not shettlecock. No one asked her to leave the house. She did. She should decide whether to go back or not. I wished she should not expect Virat to plead with her to return but this girl won’t change.

Samrat did show mirror to Pakhi. His lines were good . Pakhi should understand that she can not manipulate Samrat. But Samrat again is fickle. One day he stands firm and the other day he looks besotted with his wife and believe her.

Only help needed from him is this...he should control Pakhi from visiting Sairat at night. That much he should do.

you echo my thoughts.


Do you think it’s a prank that Ashwini is playing with Sairat or she is serious when she asks them to stay apart . It makes lot of sense if she does that so Sairat can reflect and it sets stage for the temporary separation and confession

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Posted: 4 years ago
I agree this is much needed . He has bottled up everything until now . It’s time he speaks up and I don’t want any blind supporters of CN when he does because they are ready to judge . Agree Sunny is the only person who can help him
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

you echo my thoughts.


Do you think it’s a prank that Ashwini is playing with Sairat or she is serious when she asks them to stay apart . It makes lot of sense if she does that so Sairat can reflect and it sets stage for the temporary separation and confession

I think seriously Aswini will make them live separate. She understood they need space to reflect but at the same time she can not take the risk of sending Sai to GC.

Read posts where Aswini is blamed for not allowing Sai to go to GC. I think Aswini did the right thing because Sai if left alone will again fall in danger and Virat only has to help her out. So all this feministic ( pseudo) ideas of separation provides nothing beneficial.

Edited by ltelidevara - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Most loved scene today..His imitation in his husky voice..,OMG


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I think seriously Aswini will make them live separate. She understood they need space to reflect but at the same time she can not take the risk of sending Sai to GC.

Read posts where Aswini is blamed for not allowing Sai to go to GC. I think Aswini did the right thing because Sai if left alone will again fall in danger and Virat only has to help her out. So all this feministic ( pseudo) ideas of separation provides nothing beneficial.

I hope they do show them staying apart from each other under the same roof . It’s interesting to see how they will react . Will they sneak out to meet each other in the night ? Until now Sai has said millions times that they don’t share husband and wife relationship so this can be used against them this time . Sai was chanting deal marriage jaap and people like Aai were saying it’s more than that but with role reversal will Sai be ok if it’s treated as a deal marriage by everyone. When Virat started treating like one she didn’t like it now when the family will insist them not to behave like husband and wife how will Sairat react ? That would be interesting to watch
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