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Originally posted by: laughingmonkey

Now I’m having FOMO. I had missed it but I kind of assumed what it would be. I still want to know whether I was right. So pls sent me the PM for educational purposes 😂

You can send me what you think and how about I confirm?

Originally posted by: Owia

Originally posted by: rubys07

Aah gotcha😆

He needs to feel helpless. Will it make me extremely sad? Yes, but he deserves it if he's not able to share the truth with Pallavi on his own.

Ren, I've become so cautious about the MF and SM. Some people just love to spread negativity for no reason. Some of us are trying so hard to stay positive and not let this track affect our mental peace as much but unn logon ka bas chale apne paise kharch karke humare ghar pe aake toxicity spread karenge. I remember I took a short break from the forum/SM during Mandar track because I was already upset over the track but the bashing and negativity was completely ruining the show for me. R is being labelled as a two-timer, fraud, cheater, liar whatnot, and being compared to P from Mandar track constantly. It's so hard to even look at these.

Yeah there's too much toxicity. I'm here only because we have this safe space here n in the AT. I like our vibes because we discuss the show like mature people and try to understand different perspectives. The track is too polarizing and people who aren't strong enough should back out. It's increasing my anxiety levels till I get to the reaction of Pallavi. I wish the day comes soon enough. It's getting harder to defend this man coz he's being stupid beyond wits.

Gayu arnagaar is Arpita. Anoptimist is gunjan.

hey all - back after a busy weekend - saw all the tags and things. I tried to summarize my points here LOL:

@Sahu: the clown emoji is used when you recognize that whatever you're saying/thinking is foolish. "we're clowns" "clowning ourselves" etc.

@Lyiah:

People are always going to feel some type of way about the show.

If they are starting to dislike the show, they should be allowed to express their dislike, but in a respectful way.

TBH MF negativity doesn't bother me because we're not tagging the cast/crew here and people need a place to vent / discuss what they don't like. I just ignore what I don't feel like dealing with that day and keep it moving. It is just a show, so if I'm not being dragged into it, then idk, why do I care if there's too much negativity, etc ., anyway? What's it got to do with me, you know?

I'm of the opinion of let people vent as long as they're not coming after real people or being derogatory or calling real people out.

I'm in the UD forum on/off - we literally just sit there and troll the episodes and hate on half the leads. No had any issues with negative posts there - we were all there to complain about the show because they weren't showing anything good.

MOST people can only come with positivity if there's actual something positive to discuss. So if the overall episode is negative - then thats all people are going to discuss and they're going to talk about their negative feelings bc that's the reaction the episode brought out in them.

My only issue is with the people who completely write off characters but are still on the MF lol - that just doesn't make sense to me and I don't understand why they're still around. If I had to guess I think they're just being passionate and dramatic in their comments but don't actually feel that way or have some inner hope that keeps them watching the show.

I think SS & co don't know how to follow plot lines well. No one is asking for romance 24/7 - the issue is there's a HUGE imbalance between drama & romance. Mandar track was actually better at the balance. No one is expecting romance in this track - but they're now showing us scenes FD always wanted in a way where we can't even enjoy them now. The purpose of seeing P seduce R is not just to see Shivi move around in a sexy saree - it's to see P + R interacting in that intimate way. But look at what they're giving us. They sideline the easy romantic/intimate moments too much in this show that it's hard for people to tolerate what they're showing now. And when you bring in a 3rd angle like this, but you had previously failed to show any of the intimacy of the lead couple in your show - that's whats going to create the uproar by fans. No one is watching this show as a drama show. It's a romance show. They botched the pacing & balance of this show since beginning of M track and haven't recovered fully since.

I'm just taking it episode by episode at this time. I have a feeling this is the one track they're going to drag out.

@Ren:

I don't have the same view of the eye lock scene as you - I didn't see it as an awkward eye lock. IMO you don't eye lock with people when you feel awkward of all things LOL. I think it was them getting caught up in the moment and their old bond. That's why I didn't like it bc it showed a hint that R could waver if he let himself. I disliked it bc it showed that E could still capture his attention and I didn't like the implication of that (and tbh the BGM they use makes the scene worse)

But at the same time, it didn't turn me away from the story. Tbh I don't care too much of R has residual feelings for E anymore, if that's what the writers intended (who knows really lol). I may have at the initial intro of this track but now I don't. I personally don't think he does but I think he just gets caught up in the past when he is with her and that's what that eye-lock was.

I just want to see what happens after P knows the truth. THATs what I'm here for. Don't hate the show or the characters but tbh any other show- I would've dropped it by now and come back later. LOL I'm holding on for Saishi and the acting of these two is too good to pass up LOL.

me every time i play a new ep of MHRW these days:

@Ru: GIRL. HIGHKEY CRINGE. HIGHKEY 2nd hand embarrassment when I see people tagging SaiShi on a clearly shipping type of vm etc. It's just too much blurring of lines, and not in a good way. We all think what we want, discuss it here/PMs - I think that's fine. They're public figures and are displaying things on a public platform - things will always be talked about. But at least none of us here are including them in the convo

Sai and Shivi are all kinds of adorable and genuine in their IVs - thats why they're so likable. Love them to bits and at this point only sticking to show for them and their hardwork. I despise when people can't separate reel from real. I just. It boggles my mind how people think they're one in the same or they have the right to bash an actor for the role they are playing.

Also, I never watched KHKT & the way ya'll say it turned into a botch fest - I'm glad I never did LOL.

Originally posted by: fria319

hey all - back after a busy weekend - saw all the tags and things. I tried to summarize my points here LOL:

@Sahu: the clown emoji is used when you recognize that whatever you're saying/thinking is foolish. "we're clowns" "clowning ourselves" etc.

@Lyiah:

People are always going to feel some type of way about the show.

If they are starting to dislike the show, they should be allowed to express their dislike, but in a respectful way.

TBH MF negativity doesn't bother me because we're not tagging the cast/crew here and people need a place to vent / discuss what they don't like. I just ignore what I don't feel like dealing with that day and keep it moving. It is just a show, so if I'm not being dragged into it, then idk, why do I care if there's too much negativity, etc ., anyway? What's it got to do with me, you know?

I'm of the opinion of let people vent as long as they're not coming after real people or being derogatory or calling real people out.

I'm in the UD forum on/off - we literally just sit there and troll the episodes and hate on half the leads. No had any issues with negative posts there - we were all there to complain about the show because they weren't showing anything good.

MOST people can only come with positivity if there's actual something positive to discuss. So if the overall episode is negative - then thats all people are going to discuss and they're going to talk about their negative feelings bc that's the reaction the episode brought out in them.

My only issue is with the people who completely write off characters but are still on the MF lol - that just doesn't make sense to me and I don't understand why they're still around. If I had to guess I think they're just being passionate and dramatic in their comments but don't actually feel that way or have some inner hope that keeps them watching the show.

I think SS & co don't know how to follow plot lines well. No one is asking for romance 24/7 - the issue is there's a HUGE imbalance between drama & romance. Mandar track was actually better at the balance. No one is expecting romance in this track - but they're now showing us scenes FD always wanted in a way where we can't even enjoy them now. The purpose of seeing P seduce R is not just to see Shivi move around in a sexy saree - it's to see P + R interacting in that intimate way. But look at what they're giving us. They sideline the easy romantic/intimate moments too much in this show that it's hard for people to tolerate what they're showing now. And when you bring in a 3rd angle like this, but you had previously failed to show any of the intimacy of the lead couple in your show - that's whats going to create the uproar by fans. No one is watching this show as a drama show. It's a romance show. They botched the pacing & balance of this show since beginning of M track and haven't recovered fully since.

I'm just taking it episode by episode at this time. I have a feeling this is the one track they're going to drag out.

@Ren:

I don't have the same view of the eye lock scene as you - I didn't see it as an awkward eye lock. IMO you don't eye lock with people when you feel awkward of all things LOL. I think it was them getting caught up in the moment and their old bond. That's why I didn't like it bc it showed a hint that R could waver if he let himself. I disliked it bc it showed that E could still capture his attention and I didn't like the implication of that (and tbh the BGM they use makes the scene worse)

But at the same time, it didn't turn me away from the story. Tbh I don't care too much of R has residual feelings for E anymore, if that's what the writers intended (who knows really lol). I may have at the initial intro of this track but now I don't. I personally don't think he does but I think he just gets caught up in the past when he is with her and that's what that eye-lock was.

I just want to see what happens after P knows the truth. THATs what I'm here for. Don't hate the show or the characters but tbh any other show- I would've dropped it by now and come back later. LOL I'm holding on for Saishi and the acting of these two is too good to pass up LOL.

me every time i play a new ep of MHRW these days:

@Ru: GIRL. HIGHKEY CRINGE. HIGHKEY 2nd hand embarrassment when I see people tagging SaiShi on a clearly shipping type of vm etc. It's just too much blurring of lines, and not in a good way. We all think what we want, discuss it here/PMs - I think that's fine. They're public figures and are displaying things on a public platform - things will always be talked about. But at least none of us here are including them in the convo

Sai and Shivi are all kinds of adorable and genuine in their IVs - thats why they're so likable. Love them to bits and at this point only sticking to show for them and their hardwork. I despise when people can't separate reel from real. I just. It boggles my mind how people think they're one in the same or they have the right to bash an actor for the role they are playing.

Also, I never watched KHKT & the way ya'll say it turned into a botch fest - I'm glad I never did LOL.

I love the way you add gifs to complement your words😂

Originally posted by: rubys07

Some people will go out of their way to prove to you that SaiShi is all about PR. This one person shared with me a gossip article on IMMJ2's leads saying how these two were thick as thieves but now everything seems to be over between them. I'm like, okay what do you want me to do?🤣🤣

Here are my thoughts -

SaiShi know everything about the crazy shipping that's going on in the fandom. They are well aware of dating questions being a constant from now on and sab ko pata hain ki Sai se yeh sab handle nehi hota. This is their first Hindi show, they definitely wanna get more work in this industry but if they admit their prendship already, then it'll be difficult for fans to accept their pairs with their respective future costars. That's a huge disadvantage (especially for Shivi*) they don't want to face. Iss liye they are smartly dodging the questions without neither accepting now denying.

*because I think PHs don't like already committed FLs. I remember reading in TT that Paridhi (Chicko show lead) was told to hide her marital status during her debut show by the PH.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Yeah there's too much toxicity. I'm here only because we have this safe space here n in the AT. I like our vibes because we discuss the show like mature people and try to understand different perspectives. The track is too polarizing and people who aren't strong enough should back out. It's increasing my anxiety levels till I get to the reaction of Pallavi. I wish the day comes soon enough. It's getting harder to defend this man coz he's being stupid beyond wits.

Gayu arnagaar is Arpita. Anoptimist is gunjan.

Amma in the last episode legit reflected how I feel towards Raghav these days🤣 She was ready to give him a solid beating that day as Keerthi struggled to stop her. Half the fandom is abusing Raghav like he killed their kitties and puppies, half just left because how could he do this with Pallavi, and there're us minorities who are trying SO hard here. Ren, I don't mind opposing views as long as they're rational and makes sense to me in some way, and I'm so glad I get to have that with all you folks. I don't even talk about Raghav at other places because people might just label me as Raghav ki deewani😆 Raghav give us something you gadha

Originally posted by: Owia

I love the way you add gifs to complement your words😂

gifs are like my love language 🤣

Originally posted by: MsPrez

Here are my thoughts -

SaiShi know everything about the crazy shipping that's going on in the fandom. They are well aware of dating questions being a constant from now on and sab ko pata hain ki Sai se yeh sab handle nehi hota. This is their first Hindi show, they definitely wanna get more work in this industry but if they admit their prendship already, then it'll be difficult for fans to accept their pairs with their respective future costars. That's a huge disadvantage (especially for Shivi*) they don't want to face. Iss liye they are smartly dodging the questions without neither accepting now denying.

*because I think PHs don't like already committed FLs. I remember reading in TT that Paridhi (Chicko show lead) was told to hide her marital status during her debut show by the PH.

Zasha, exactly. So many people (esp on SM) are heartbroken over them not giving a straight answer but I haven't seen any TV celebs doing that. What do they expect, SaiShi sharing their relationship status to the whole world? It's their job so they have to handle certain things professionally, and there's much more at stake here for these two as newcomers in the Hindi industry. @bold: THIS. It's happened for so many other shows. PHs don't want to cast someone with that baggage because it brings bad rep for their show too.

Sai se kya handle hoga, this guy tries so hard not to hide under the table sharam se every time they're asked the dating question😆

Originally posted by: fria319

hey all - back after a busy weekend - saw all the tags and things. I tried to summarize my points here LOL: woahhhh it's a super long post you've made. God bless your fingers.

@Sahu: the clown emoji is used when you recognize that whatever you're saying/thinking is foolish. "we're clowns" "clowning ourselves" etc. Thanks I was wondering too

@Lyiah:

People are always going to feel some type of way about the show.

If they are starting to dislike the show, they should be allowed to express their dislike, but in a respectful way.

TBH MF negativity doesn't bother me because we're not tagging the cast/crew here and people need a place to vent / discuss what they don't like. I just ignore what I don't feel like dealing with that day and keep it moving. It is just a show, so if I'm not being dragged into it, then idk, why do I care if there's too much negativity, etc ., anyway? What's it got to do with me, you know?

I'm of the opinion of let people vent as long as they're not coming after real people or being derogatory or calling real people out. Yes I'm all for venting out we all do it at times but if you read some posts they are literally hating Raghav Pallavi scenes and have written off Raghav. I can't understand how can people still watch the show then. The end game is Raghvi. Koi aur nai milne wala so why torture yourself. Gracefully bow out na.

I'm in the UD forum on/off - we literally just sit there and troll the episodes and hate on half the leads. No had any issues with negative posts there - we were all there to complain about the show because they weren't showing anything good.

MOST people can only come with positivity if there's actual something positive to discuss. So if the overall episode is negative - then thats all people are going to discuss and they're going to talk about their negative feelings bc that's the reaction the episode brought out in them. Are u still watching the show. I literally stopped after the rat incident and I couldn't take them seriously anymore. The drama there keeps getting worse. I roll my eyes even watching 30 seconds of footage FB shows me daily lmao. In UD, you can only bash the characters. No one is worth praising anyway hahhah. There must be solid unity among forum members coz there seems to be a consensus.

My only issue is with the people who completely write off characters but are still on the MF lol - that just doesn't make sense to me and I don't understand why they're still around. If I had to guess I think they're just being passionate and dramatic in their comments but don't actually feel that way or have some inner hope that keeps them watching the show. There are few of those and while I'm all for freedom of speech what boggles my mind is them still watching the show and cribbing about it nonetheless

I think SS & co don't know how to follow plot lines well. No one is asking for romance 24/7 - the issue is there's a HUGE imbalance between drama & romance. Mandar track was actually better at the balance. No one is expecting romance in this track - but they're now showing us scenes FD always wanted in a way where we can't even enjoy them now. The purpose of seeing P seduce R is not just to see Shivi move around in a sexy saree - it's to see P + R interacting in that intimate way. But look at what they're giving us. They sideline the easy romantic/intimate moments too much in this show that it's hard for people to tolerate what they're showing now. And when you bring in a 3rd angle like this, but you had previously failed to show any of the intimacy of the lead couple in your show - that's whats going to create the uproar by fans. No one is watching this show as a drama show. It's a romance show. They botched the pacing & balance of this show since beginning of M track and haven't recovered fully since. Yes I've been telling this to Soni that there was a good balance during M track. You can still go back and watch those episodes and fast forward the M scenes that creep you out. Trust me in this track there's no respite. Only the night scene of day before (because he cried a tear) and yesterday baby talk scene was something I could watch again. It's not even a drop in the ocean considering how negative and toxic the rest of the scenes are. They should have outed Esha's motives to the audience so that the bashing would reduce but the tadka won't be there na. I heard our show trended non stop for 30 hrs unplanned ufff....

I'm just taking it episode by episode at this time. I have a feeling this is the one track they're going to drag out. That's a nice approach. Otherwise it can get unpalatable

@Ren:

I don't have the same view of the eye lock scene as you - I didn't see it as an awkward eye lock. IMO you don't eye lock with people when you feel awkward of all things LOL. I think it was them getting caught up in the moment and their old bond. That's why I didn't like it bc it showed a hint that R could waver if he let himself. I disliked it bc it showed that E could still capture his attention and I didn't like the implication of that (and tbh the BGM they use makes the scene worse) Honestly I'm not reading too much into his actions coz I know he would never falter. Not specially when it's Pallavi. He's made it quite clear to Esha that he loves Pallavi and was even hallucinating Pallavi. In any case the situation is quite complex and may be a sober R would never do it. Idk, since I didn't get bothered much about the eyelock it was easier for me to pass this. This is all extra tadka to make the audience question Raghav and in the end we are going to find how he was trapped and nothing really happened. But despite all of this I'm glad we'll have a showdown of Pallavi coz she had been taking some of his shit for quite sometime. It's time the balance in their relationship is also restored.

But at the same time, it didn't turn me away from the story. Tbh I don't care too much of R has residual feelings for E anymore, if that's what the writers intended (who knows really lol). I may have at the initial intro of this track but now I don't. I personally don't think he does but I think he just gets caught up in the past when he is with her and that's what that eye-lock was.

I just want to see what happens after P knows the truth. THATs what I'm here for. Don't hate the show or the characters but tbh any other show- I would've dropped it by now and come back later. LOL I'm holding on for Saishi and the acting of these two is too good to pass up LOL. Yes I'm waiting for the showdown like anything. Can next week end come sooner pls. My patience is wearing thin by each passing day. Saishi are why everyone is sticking by coz I've been unhappy with the execution of all tracks after the accident one. Build up is good but then they butcher the characters, make them do extreme things etc.

me every time i play a new ep of MHRW these days: I can understand fria

@Ru: GIRL. HIGHKEY CRINGE. HIGHKEY 2nd hand embarrassment when I see people tagging SaiShi on a clearly shipping type of vm etc. It's just too much blurring of lines, and not in a good way. We all think what we want, discuss it here/PMs - I think that's fine. They're public figures and are displaying things on a public platform - things will always be talked about. But at least none of us here are including them in the convo

Sai and Shivi are all kinds of adorable and genuine in their IVs - thats why they're so likable. Love them to bits and at this point only sticking to show for them and their hardwork. I despise when people can't separate reel from real. I just. It boggles my mind how people think they're one in the same or they have the right to bash an actor for the role they are playing.

Also, I never watched KHKT & the way ya'll say it turned into a botch fest - I'm glad I never did LOL.

Re saishi shipping on twitter generally go overboard. I'm glad we are a sensible bunch that we respect their privacy ,adore their bond and friendship and limit excessive stuff to PMs. Just because they are in this profession, it's not right to bash or make them uncomfortable.

Khth was good till confession. You can watch it coz it's highly logical and unlike OTT dramas. No wonder it didn't work long enough.