Originally posted by: Transference
I have always pointed out that Shiva is fast to process information and was moving at a mammoth pace in this relationship.
He is the dominant and intuitive one in this relationship of the unequal emotional attachment, and was always the first one to understand what it meant to be together. That's why we see all the undercurrents of Shiva having an unhealthy obsession with Raavi right from childhood.
If you remember, right before they met Sneha, Shiva was pulling Raavi to match his pace. He was moving fast. He crossed the journey of animosity to love quickly because of coming without any romantic baggage in the past.
They haven't walked together in a relationship. Shiva ran a marathon while Raavi was crawling.
This friction was bound to happen. They both are like fire and water; they can only create steam if the water isn't adequate. So, in short, we got Shivaβs journey first; now it's Raaviβs turn.