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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I am with you both . Sai becomes selfish when it comes to Virat . She remembers him when she is in trouble otherwise she is either sarcastic or rude to him . Let’s take a small example . During college feast , she was showing her attitude when he gifted her a ruby pendant and even refused to invite him because she assumed he won’t come . She denied inviting him despite him asking her to but in the green room when things were out of control the first person she remembered was Virat and was all sweet and nice to him . She takes him for granted and expects him to understand her even when she is rude and taunting .

People justify saying Virat deserves the bashing as how could he be rude to her after anniversary track . The girl accused him of infidelity and called him names and yet people want him to be just indifferent but show tons of care , trust on her when he throws a tantrum of not attending pooja or family trip . I don’t support locking up but everything else he did was because of her behavior on anniversary day .

The accident happened at a wrong time . Just because she was hurt doesn’t change the fact that she disrespected Virat and insulted him on anniversary day . That’s why I find these CN clowns to be biased . They no nothing about Sairat yet they take sides and expect Virat to not react .

I will be happy if Virat takes the transfer because it’s very much needed . Even after seeing his care and concern when she was hurt and him claiming to like her she cannot get get rid of her mental block . It’s better if she stays in CN now that everyone loves her and people like Devi , Shivani and Samrat can be at peace . Virat can get away and get some space away from the selfish people . It will give them the time to introspect

Sai will never introspect. She has been stuck here from the wedding and according to her their relationship has moved nowhere even though its been more than 12 months on the show now and even the viewers have been watching the show for more than 12 months.

Her rudeness, sarcasm, arrogance and childish behaviour are always brushed under the carpet and everything is made out to be Virat's fault. Plus when Rono uncle's aatma enters Virat, its as if Virat is having an out of body experience. He loses his mind and does stupid things. I blame the writers for that.

Sai is supported under the guise of being inexperienced and young and that is why her mental block and her lack of introspection is hailed. The reason the TRPs increased this week is because people wanted to know how Virat would react and if there would be similar realisations compared to when Virat was in hospital. People.also wanted to know if Sai would forgive Virat and whether she would say she didn't want to go.

Let her go back to her old ways and there will be a section of the audience that will tire and stop watching.

I honestly support their separation because Virat deserves someone who loves him for his care, concern, not someone who takes him for granted and is selfish with her expectations and drives him to his worst. Its not fair to expect him to not get bitter, frustrated or angry. He is HUMAN.

Perhaps a partner who loves him back is also what he deserves. Perhaps this isn't the relationship it is meant to be. I am TIRED of the circles they keep going around in.

I watch with the hope that they will make progress in their relationship BUT Sai will never get there so what's the point?

Let them introduce new partners for both. Some 20 year old guy for Sai and she can live through crushes, infatuation, dating and someone else for Virat who he can potentially have a love story with.

I cannot be told one fine day that Sai decided she loved Virat, there is no introspection or self realisation and Sai goes and confesses. What is this? Makes no sense.

There needs to be a build up to Sai's love with Virat. Scenes where we see her infatuation, crush, filmy style songs playing even not let's confess out of the blue.

I need to be DONE with this show

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Exactly. However, her selfish behaviour is not considered wrong. It's OK for her to be selfish when it comes to him; it's OK for her to want his attention, his care and his concern. However, what about his feelings? What about him needing love and care? Why must he be tied in a loveless marriage? So for 5 years he should give her all the care, concern and attention? Expect nothing? And if she falls in love then fine or else tough and once she leaves him he can move on? Is it so so easy? He should stay unloved for 5 years? Is that what Kamal Joshi really wanted for Virat? Oh come on!!!

Better yet let him say that dialogue from Ae dil hai mushkil about ek tarfa pyaar ki taqaat and be done with it.

This is just not fair. Plus I am super irritated with the writers for prolonging this and still going round in circles.

Also I am annoyed with myself for even watching this show because literally I was like at least NOW we will get a monologue and a realisation BUT NOOOOOO.....gol gol rani kitna kitna pani

I don't know about them but I feel suffocated when I see them😆

Am I the only one who thinks it was a missed opportunity. I mean, yeah, she spoke after 10 days. But so much could happen in those 10 days. Everybody missing her talks looking at her silent face with flashbacks. It could've left a big impact but no...🤔

Probably you all are on one page but I am not. For me love precedes everything else and binds a couple together against all odds. Sairat got that blessing called love. Marriage is not about care and concern only. It is love that keeps the chemistry intact and help the couple survive against any kind of set backs.

Yes Sai is in denial mood. She can be so for some more time. Ultimately she will submit herself before the call of her heart. I know Virat got that patience to wait for the day. They both are meant for each other ..

I feel all you people undermine Sai’s year long trauma created because of Pakhi’s unwelcome visits and forceful claim on her husband.It is not easy to cope up with another woman,Ex of her husband trying to grab her space in the filthiest manner possible.

I pray no one should get into such situation where one has to live with the EX of her husband.

Sai is mentally exhausted. All her fighting spirit got lost and she has only emptiness now. Sai left Virat to see him happy with his lost love Pakhi. She left with a heavy heart. She thought he was irritated with her and won’t bear with her anymore. Virat siding with Pakhi before she left,effected her a lot.

I support Virat completely post anniversary track since he faced the most hurtful insult hurled at him by his wife. I won’t forgive Sai till she asks forgiveness from Virat. She crossed all the lines.

Having said that I don’t accept Virat’s lenient behaviour towards Pakhi. He crossed every limit there by tolerating her nonsense . Yes . Devi is not looking at the complete picture when she came to tell him that Sai is leaving but Virat not thrashing Pakhi for insulting his sister..I would say another wrong committed by him.

In the very next scene Pakhi made Sai cry by calling her names because she refused to join family trip and Virat stood by her. I don’t support him for that. He may have differences with his wife but that doesn’t mean he should support his vile ,crooked Ex.

On the whole I feel Aswini did the right thing by bringing Sai home. Any elder will do so after the severe accident which almost took her life away. She is the Bahu of the house.,she has every right to live there.

Aswini knew both of them will again do the same if it is left to them. In the name of sentiment Aswini did what should be done in such situation.

Finally I never wish a new ML for Sai and another girl for Virat. People got this kind of wish just because Anupama got Anuj.

Sai doesn’t need an Anuj since she has very loving husband for her who got eyes only to look at her. Virat is a one woman man. So unfortunately the wish to see Sairat go separate ways never happen in this show. Sincere advice to those to move on since Sairat always stand united.

I for one don't want them to separate permanently. I haven't forgotten her trauma. And I do understand her pain of seeing Patralekha in her husband's life. I also understand Virat's pain after anniversary track. Exactly why I feel suffocated when I see them. I do understand that suffocation.

What I wish for them is a breathing space where they can empty their minds of all that happened. So that they can think clearly and decide well. Once they get that breathing space, they will realise each other's worth in their lives and also the love they have for each other.

Originally posted by: JoonaMohalla

I for one don't want them to separate permanently. I haven't forgotten her trauma. And I do understand her pain of seeing Patralekha in her husband's life. I also understand Virat's pain after anniversary track. Exactly why I feel suffocated when I see them. I do understand that suffocation.

What I wish for them is a breathing space where they can empty their minds of all that happened. So that they can think clearly and decide well. Once they get that breathing space, they will realise each other's worth in their lives and also the love they have for each other.

https://twitter.com/sairatlove/status/1449598981537861638?s=20

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I agree with you and I wish Virat leave for his place where he has to deal with naxalites. Time to watch ACP Virat in action.Sai should stay in CN since now even Bhavani also warmed up to her. Both will then ponder over the past happenings and learn the value of each other ... Hope to see it happen.

I miss them.

Bhavani and Sai sitting together and discussing past happenings would be great but I have zero expectations. Honestly this sudden warming up of Bhavani didn't give me any satisfaction but if they show them pondering over their past, having a little nok jhonk like Bhavani saying baki jo kuch bhi ho, tera naam maine sahi diya hai jungli mulgi and Sai retaliating by roaring like a lioness or something😆all in good humour of course, then it would be great.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

https://twitter.com/sairatlove/status/1449598981537861638?s=20

Did I make sense🤣

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Probably you all are on one page but I am not. For me love precedes everything else and binds a couple together against all odds. Sairat got that blessing called love. Marriage is not about care and concern only. It is love that keeps the chemistry intact and help the couple survive against any kind of set backs.

Yes Sai is in denial mood. She can be so for some more time. Ultimately she will submit herself before the call of her heart. I know Virat got that patience to wait for the day. They both are meant for each other ..

I feel all you people undermine Sai’s year long trauma created because of Pakhi’s unwelcome visits and forceful claim on her husband.It is not easy to cope up with another woman,Ex of her husband trying to grab her space in the filthiest manner possible.

I pray no one should get into such situation where one has to live with the EX of her husband.

Sai is mentally exhausted. All her fighting spirit got lost and she has only emptiness now. Sai left Virat to see him happy with his lost love Pakhi. She left with a heavy heart. She thought he was irritated with her and won’t bear with her anymore. Virat siding with Pakhi before she left,effected her a lot.

I support Virat completely post anniversary track since he faced the most hurtful insult hurled at him by his wife. I won’t forgive Sai till she asks forgiveness from Virat. She crossed all the lines.

Having said that I don’t accept Virat’s lenient behaviour towards Pakhi. He crossed every limit there by tolerating her nonsense . Yes . Devi is not looking at the complete picture when she came to tell him that Sai is leaving but Virat not thrashing Pakhi for insulting his sister..I would say another wrong committed by him.

In the very next scene Pakhi made Sai cry by calling her names because she refused to join family trip and Virat stood by her. I don’t support him for that. He may have differences with his wife but that doesn’t mean he should support his vile ,crooked Ex.

On the whole I feel Aswini did the right thing by bringing Sai home. Any elder will do so after the severe accident which almost took her life away. She is the Bahu of the house.,she has every right to live there.

Aswini knew both of them will again do the same if it is left to them. In the name of sentiment Aswini did what should be done in such situation.

Finally I never wish a new ML for Sai and another girl for Virat. People got this kind of wish just because Anupama got Anuj.

Sai doesn’t need an Anuj since she has very loving husband for her who got eyes only to look at her. Virat is a one woman man. So unfortunately the wish to see Sairat go separate ways never happen in this show. Sincere advice to those to move on since Sairat always stand united.

At the same time I want Virat to take a transfer not only for the reason stated above but also for the fact that his family doesn’t deserve him and I want him to be away from the family for sometime . More than Sai I am disappointed with CN members . I can never forgive them for hanging up against him and torturing him when he was having a breakdown . They showed zero concern when Virat spoke about the anniversary day and was talking about ending his life . None of them were bothered and later in the hospital they blamed him for something he didn’t do . Devi , Samrat and Pulkit were a big disappointed . They try to corner gim .