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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Aswini deliberately interfered because she knew why Sai left and why Virat did not stop her. Both have their own reasons and both will still be at the same point and chose not to force the other. As the elder person Aswini played with Sai’s emotion to make her stay. A good move indeed.

I think this makes sense. The truth is Ashwini is elder than both Virat and Sai not only in relation but age as well. She has more experience than them. Just imagine if Ashwini had left everything and gone her separate way what would have happened to Virat? Who would have instilled good values in him? So, I guess through this experience she played with her emotions. Her intention was to make Sai stay back and nothing else.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I feel you're correct. Whatever Virat will do be it for the betterment of Sai or not he'll be bashed. She's so confused. She herself doesn't know whether she wants Virat or not. I guess it would be better if Sai stays alone at Gadchiroli and Virat takes his transfer. Let her stay away from Virat and see for herself his it is difficult to live alone, the importance of having a family and a spouse who supported her throughout. If she's so sad then why was she fussing for Virat to take care of her? Why was she time and again holding on to him whenever he spoke about going away?

Purple - Though the show #1 they might not take any risks because one mistake and Ghum will definitely take over. It had happened a few months back where Ghum had been at the top, so they might not take unnecessary risk.

I hope Virat doesn't try and do anything TBH. Betterment? Sai can think for her own betterment now. She made her choice. What has changed? She smiled at Virat? Held him back? Do we have a guarantee that after she is better we won't go back on the same rounds of "yeh shaadi ek deal hai; main sirf aapki zimmedari hoon. Main apne khud ke pairon pe khadi ho jaungi toh chali jaungi".

I understand that marriages are not broken that easily. However, those marriages are not "this marriage is a deal" are they?

I don't know what Sai wants. The makers now seem confused because if they suddenly show a change of heart for Sai it will seem like whatever she said to Sunny and Shivi bua was all bollocks...however in order to show an organic progression of love and heart warming scenes like during Virat's convalescence the writers will actually have to use their writing skills....which again makes me wonder where these writing skills were all this while?

As for Ghum taking over - that was temporary. Ghum and Anu aunty are 2 completely different shows with 2 completely different writing teams. Lets see what happens.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

I hope Virat doesn't try and do anything TBH. Betterment? Sai can think for her own betterment now. She made her choice. What has changed? She smiled at Virat? Held him back? Do we have a guarantee that after she is better we won't go back on the same rounds of "yeh shaadi ek deal hai; main sirf aapki zimmedari hoon. Main apne khud ke pairon pe khadi ho jaungi toh chali jaungi".

I understand that marriages are not broken that easily. However, those marriages are not "this marriage is a deal" are they?

I don't know what Sai wants. The makers now seem confused because if they suddenly show a change of heart for Sai it will seem like whatever she said to Sunny and Shivi bua was all bollocks...however in order to show an organic progression of love and heart warming scenes like during Virat's convalescence the writers will actually have to use their writing skills....which again makes me wonder where these writing skills were all this while?

As for Ghum taking over - that was temporary. Ghum and Anu aunty are 2 completely different shows with 2 completely different writing teams. Lets see what happens.

You're 110% correct. Sai is very unpredictable. I had mentioned this earlier too that it will be better if Virat takes the transfer. He shouldn't bow down to Sai's demand and stay back. Let her figure out what she wants during his absence.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

You're 110% correct. Sai is very unpredictable. I had mentioned this earlier too that it will be better if Virat takes the transfer. He shouldn't bow down to Sai's demand and stay back. Let her figure out what she wants during his absence.

She needs to figure out what she wants. I hope she doesn't start her broken record of "yeh shaadi ek deal hai" as soon as she goes home. I feel she still wants to go to GC because as of yet she has not figured out her love.

Ashwini should not have interfered and said they need to stay together so that they are both safe.

Sai should figure this out on her own. There should be nothing to influence her decision.

Some might enjoy the never ending fights; I do not.

I think as per the original show, Virat will leave and she will try to stop him.

However if he leaves then he will be accused of abandoning her even if that is what she wants. He can never win.

I am tired of this show.

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Originally posted by: Stardust91

She needs to figure out what she wants. I hope she doesn't start her broken record of "yeh shaadi ek deal hai" as soon as she goes home. I feel she still wants to go to GC because as of yet she has not figured out her love.

Ashwini should not have interfered and said they need to stay together so that they are both safe.

Sai should figure this out on her own. There should be nothing to influence her decision.

Some might enjoy the never ending fights; I do not.

I think as per the original show, Virat will leave and she will try to stop him.

However if he leaves then he will be accused of abandoning her even if that is what she wants. He can never win.

I am tired of this show.

I guess she will go to Gadchiroli and Virat will take a transfer. I too read that she begs and falls on his feet but still he will go ahead. Naysayers will accuse him whatever he will do,but I would be very glad if he stays away from him.

I feel when it comes to Virat all Sai's selflessness goes away. She becomes very selfish. She wants Virat when she's in pain. She wants his attention, his care and concern, but doesn't want to accept the relation. Then, it becomes a deal. Even today she told the psychiatrist that Virat should be like her Aaba. How can your spouse be like your parent? How can these two relations be compared? This is proof that she only wants Virat to give her attention,show his care and concern and nothing beyond that and the moment he stops doing all this her ego gets hurt. I guess she knows that if she gets hurt he will forget his grudge and come running towards her and that's exactly what happened. She always took him for granted and today it was no different.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I guess she will go to Gadchiroli and Virat will take a transfer. I too read that she begs and falls on his feet but still he will go ahead. Naysayers will accuse him whatever he will do,but I would be very glad if he stays away from him.

I feel when it comes to Virat all Sai's selflessness goes away. She becomes very selfish. She wants Virat when she's in pain. She wants his attention, his care and concern, but doesn't want to accept the relation. Then, it becomes a deal. Even today she told the psychiatrist that Virat should be like her Aaba. How can your spouse be like your parent? How can these two relations be compared? This is proof that she only wants Virat to give her attention,show his care and concern and nothing beyond that and the moment he stops doing all this her ego gets hurt. I guess she knows that if she gets hurt he will forget his grudge and come running towards her and that's exactly what happened. She always took him for granted and today it was no different.

Exactly. However, her selfish behaviour is not considered wrong. It's OK for her to be selfish when it comes to him; it's OK for her to want his attention, his care and his concern. However, what about his feelings? What about him needing love and care? Why must he be tied in a loveless marriage? So for 5 years he should give her all the care, concern and attention? Expect nothing? And if she falls in love then fine or else tough and once she leaves him he can move on? Is it so so easy? He should stay unloved for 5 years? Is that what Kamal Joshi really wanted for Virat? Oh come on!!!

Better yet let him say that dialogue from Ae dil hai mushkil about ek tarfa pyaar ki taqaat and be done with it.

This is just not fair. Plus I am super irritated with the writers for prolonging this and still going round in circles.

Also I am annoyed with myself for even watching this show because literally I was like at least NOW we will get a monologue and a realisation BUT NOOOOOO.....gol gol rani kitna kitna pani

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Exactly. However, her selfish behaviour is not considered wrong. It's OK for her to be selfish when it comes to him; it's OK for her to want his attention, his care and his concern. However, what about his feelings? What about him needing love and care? Why must he be tied in a loveless marriage? So for 5 years he should give her all the care, concern and attention? Expect nothing? And if she falls in love then fine or else tough and once she leaves him he can move on? Is it so so easy? He should stay unloved for 5 years? Is that what Kamal Joshi really wanted for Virat? Oh come on!!!

Better yet let him say that dialogue from Ae dil hai mushkil about ek tarfa pyaar ki taqaat and be done with it.

This is just not fair. Plus I am super irritated with the writers for prolonging this and still going round in circles.

Also I am annoyed with myself for even watching this show because literally I was like at least NOW we will get a monologue and a realisation BUT NOOOOOO.....gol gol rani kitna kitna pani

People justify saying Virat deserves the bashing as how could he be rude to her after anniversary track . The girl accused him of infidelity and called him names and yet people want him to be just indifferent but show tons of care , trust on her when he throws a tantrum of not attending pooja or family trip . I don’t support locking up but everything else he did was because of her behavior on anniversary day .

The accident happened at a wrong time . Just because she was hurt doesn’t change the fact that she disrespected Virat and insulted him on anniversary day . That’s why I find these CN clowns to be biased . They no nothing about Sairat yet they take sides and expect Virat to not react .

I will be happy if Virat takes the transfer because it’s very much needed . Even after seeing his care and concern when she was hurt and him claiming to like her she cannot get get rid of her mental block . It’s better if she stays in CN now that everyone loves her and people like Devi , Shivani and Samrat can be at peace . Virat can get away and get some space away from the selfish people . It will give them the time to introspect

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I feel you're correct. Whatever Virat will do be it for the betterment of Sai or not he'll be bashed. She's so confused. She herself doesn't know whether she wants Virat or not. I guess it would be better if Sai stays alone at Gadchiroli and Virat takes his transfer. Let her stay away from Virat and see for herself his it is difficult to live alone, the importance of having a family and a spouse who supported her throughout. If she's so sad then why was she fussing for Virat to take care of her? Why was she time and again holding on to him whenever he spoke about going away?

Purple - Though the show #1 they might not take any risks because one mistake and Ghum will definitely take over. It had happened a few months back where Ghum had been at the top, so they might not take unnecessary risk.

That’s also the reason why I don’t want Ashwini to stop her . Let her go and if she really misses Virat then she can be back to him . I feel this track will show Virat realizing that Sai doesn’t want him and it’s best for her career and otherwise if she stays at Nagpur in CN niwas hence he decided to go ahead with the transfer .