Originally posted by: laughingmonkey
Anjali, Iâm still on the fence regarding this lady. And you already know my biggest contention with her. I need to watch more before coming to some conclusion.
Being in a difficult situation, she can ask for help. But forcefully trying to inject herself into a married manâs life even ex lover, even after being told that she has no place there is not right (taking drunken mistake also into account)
Pls donât think Iâm blaming only her and not Raghav. If the mistake happened, then they both are responsible.
She looked sober enough to know that Raghav was calling out for Pallavi while he didnât know that, so there is a higher blame on her.
Iâm talking about the current scenario where she is forcing herself into his life when heâs telling her that his life is with Pallavi alone.
Now weâll know what else it is, whether she trapped him or will trap him or will she emotionally manipulate or manipulate him in other ways.
Anyway, any angle, sheâs looking to get back to his life.
I agree with the heart broken lover and maybe not an obsession yet but still now that she is in a sober state, she needs to know where to draw the line.
The choice to leave him (even if forced to) was hers. As far as we know, if she hadnât met him 2 days ago, her life was still the same, his life was on another path, to believe that she deserves to be loved by him now suddenly doesnât make sense to me.
I can maybe understand if she sees Raghav unhappy with Pallavi and she feels that she can keep him happier. But this guy is repeatedly telling her that she is his past and has no place in his present or future and even the drunken thing was a mistake and that happened because he thought it was Pallavi.
So to believe that she deserves him ( she can definitely choose to believe) but it doesnât make it right or make me feel sorry for her.
I feel sorry that she had to give up Raghav, I feel sorry that she had to face a difficult and abusive marriage. I feel sorry that her life has been terrible. I feel sorry that she had to face Raghavâs anger. But I donât feel sorry that she continued whatever it was with Raghav knowing that it was Pallavi that he was calling out.
I feel sorry that sheâs still facing difficulties and she can ask for help. But to ask him to take her with him is not something that I can understand.
I donât know. Thereâs more to see. Maybe Iâll change my thoughts. But for now, this is what I think.
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