Originally posted by: spdp
I am gong to put down some thoughts on various points :
Watched maami's Ravan tie up.. Hardikbhai is back- hope as a savior!
Few points:
There are 3 parental figuers:
Suman
Maami
Jaanu
All three are vile, abusive. Have control freak attitudes in varying degrees .
Jaanu gets called names by all brothers, with zero respect even by his own son-in-law. He dispice her daughter's relations but hasnot forced another allianc eon her while she is still married.
Maami gets called names by all brothers esp. Shiva & Krish. They have reasons, but they do go overboard. Maami has her reasons & selfish ones most of the time, but she does really love raavi. And once Raavi said no- She hasnot forced anyone on her.
Suman- She is the most abusive of them all to be honest. because alongwith verbal- she has a tendency of emotional blackmailing+ physical abuse. She was nasty to Dhara pre leap.
Both daughters- Rishita & Raavi speak up for their parents- feel bad for their parents , and also speak up TO them when they go overboard.
Though None of the brothers- NONE speaks up to Suman. Gombi sometimes, when things go way overboard as an aftertalk. But never stops her tirades when it is unleashing on wives. Dev is mum. Shiva is becoming mum+ indifferent+ accomplice to an extent now.
When Suman ousted Dhara - devars took the jimmedari to convince suman.
Why is Gautam & Dev not speaking up to support Raavi? She is their childhood constant. I loved Gombi's big brotherly relation with Raavi. why doesn't he stop Suman with this Disha nonesnse?
Other thing:
Sibling figures:
We have Hardik, Anita, GauRa.
Hardik has been Gem through out. Miss his & Gombi's friend-bhai relation. He always stood by Dhara. Dhara has someone to fall back to.
Anita, was good- was supportive - until Oily conversion with this 2nd round of madness attack. She still was supportive of Raavi & even Shiva. Now nomore.
GauRa: Gautam needs to be more than just a background brother to Shiva- he has disappointed in his indifferent attitude throughout. consistent follies. too many to count. What happened to Gombim who cheer & supported Raaavi at return? Why he is not giving her a shoulder?
Dhara: she is the one who got ShiVi together & instead of providing nurturing background- she dumped them in the pit. With added chaos now- and by draging disha in kitchen politics- She is adding more burden on Raavi- where as her adbhut Shiva goes on undifferent enjoying adultery.
I SO HOPE: Hardikbhai stands up to this 2nd shadi & prospect dating before divorce. It is adultery and someone needs to point that loud & clear. Hope Hardik supports Raavi & shows Pandyas mirror.