Unpopular opinion 😪

Most people think that cvs are trying to whitewash vanraj but I have a different opinion on this😃

I don't feel that cvs are trying to whitewash him(if they wanted to do so they would never give devika dialogues like "vanraj jaise log kabhi nhi sudharte" in today's episode)

Infact the cvs are trying to show that if you act like an emotional fool (which anupama does) then people like vanraj ,kavya and baaaa (who master the art of emotional manipulation)will keep taking advantage of you

Here cvs are portraying anupamaa as an example of "what not to be in life"

That's why they give dialogues like "anu Mahanta ki murat hai aur dukhi hai par Anuj tu normal insan hi reh aur use khush rakh" to devika

They are trying to give the message that we should know how much we should give to anyone because takers don't have any limits...they will suck your blood and still not be satisfied

Also Cvs want to show that our children learn from us.Pakhi treats her father like a hero because she has been taught to do so.

Even after all that vanraj did in the past anupama still thinks that he is a good father then how can we expect pakhi to behave differently.

For me anupamaa is the main culprit here as she is allowing vanraj to manipulate her.She is as regressive as progressive (or may be more regressive than progressive😆)

Bhai 26 saal me itna bhi samajh nhi aaya kya ki vanraj is a chameleon. It's his character trait.Cvs are not whitwashing him but instead trying to show what a dramebaaz insaan he is and what a fool anupamaa is to believe him again and again.

Dekho bhai seedhi si baat hai ki saanp ka kaam hota hai dasna to aap ko bach k rehna chahiye apni safety k liye.....you can't blame the snake later if it was you actually who was being careless

(I guess everyone knows who is the 🐍 here)

I read the precap from the update ....all I need to say is practice what u preach...she is advising ladies something which she herself doesn't follow....I m sorry but Anupama is just hypocrite n vanraj n baa r taking advantage of that....achai aur bewakoofi mein farak hota hai...n Anupama is Bewakoof not achi ...n she never learns her lesson. Toh uske saath snakes hi toh rahenge

Anupama ki life ki hero wahi aur heroine wahi makers forget idhar uski khud ki khushiyon ki villian bhi woh khud hain hero heroine villian sab wahi

May be par mujhe yeh kyun lagta devika ko lolipop bana ke maaan fans ke liye daal rahe taki hum log tike rahe 🤣 aur woh log dekhate rahe jo dekhana

Frankly now I am tired of Anupama Mahanta as long as she stick to that circus I am happy with anuj gk devika scenes anuj Anupama also will give more pain to anuj in future Anupama khud hi kisi aur ko zarurat nahi padegi 😆

Anupama had been raised and lived all her life as a giver. She has treated Babayaga as her own even though she is treated as a lesser mortal.

She has always looked upon Vanraj as a provider and protector. She has denied him that place in her life but does not want to come as the reason forbad relationship between father and son. Vanraj haswarned he can get nasty if Anuj interferes in his right as father. We have heard P1 blame Samar is the reason they have to ensure Anuj. Samar maybe comfortable with sharing details with Anuj but as a mother she cannot allow Samar to ignore his father.

A singed vanraj can be very venomous. At this point of time Anupama does want the interaction between father and son to worsen,

i dont deny as a mother she is wrong but what samar father did to him he needs mental attention not lecture his father is good when he see how se treated her whole life and him because he supported her mother if you realise you mistake to forgive for your own good and move ahead with such toxic relationship if you have such a father i have seen in real life also they loose respect bas naam ke liye reh jate hain kids cant relate of you do so much discrmination and so much taunts rather than telling to understand samar they should understand what that child has went through pakhee has problem mother father fighting she never had problem when her mother was thrown out oh the house this is shown very bad way of parenting and just ignoring kids feelings and give lolipops we are happy family when you dont know when you husband father again get worst

he is scared of anuj loosing his family as he knows very well how he is how anuj is worst person and good human being difference

vanraj insecurities all are paying for it how good it is and how long anywasy whatever give them trps they will show but bigger issues are raised and deal in very dissapointing way

Wasn't she thr one who said she won't become doormat and she is happily becoming one .

I understand the point what makers are trying to make that's why today's episode I rather enjoyed without complaints.

Anu was always in the thought that v is a good son and good papa but she couldn't analyse him this much that he's good only when things are favourable for him else he changes colour.

And he can emotionally manipulate anyone to get what he wants or showcase him a victim he had already done that to kavya and toshu

During sanan engagement how they made a fuss over the fact that nandu can't brcome a mom and how the heck anu beleive ki now they will help sanan. Sanan were right in their pov more

Anu is in denial or rather she is blind to the obvious truth and should be shoven to reality

There is a saying

U can wake up someone who is asleep but never someone who's pretending to sleep . And here anu is thr someone btw

I agree 💯 and maybe thays why she didn't want to involve Anuj also she might feel Anuj might unnecessarily get into trouble or be humiliated as a result

Originally posted by: moonwearer

but as a mother she cannot allow Samar to ignore his father.

A singed vanraj can be very venomous. At this point of time Anupama does want the interaction between father and son to worsen,

i agree with you dear...she is right in not involving Anuj here because we as a audience know that he loves her but anupamaa herself has no idea of this so she has no reason to involve Anuj in her family matters.For her Anuj is only a newly found friend and a business partner so anyone will feel hesitant in sharing such matters. Also she doesn't want to burden Anuj with her daily problems

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Anupama had been raised and lived all her life as a giver. She has treated Babayaga as her own even though she is treated as a lesser mortal.

She has always looked upon Vanraj as a provider and protector. She has denied him that place in her life but does not want to come as the reason forbad relationship between father and son. Vanraj haswarned he can get nasty if Anuj interferes in his right as father. We have heard P1 blame Samar is the reason they have to ensure Anuj. Samar maybe comfortable with sharing details with Anuj but as a mother she cannot allow Samar to ignore his father.

A singed vanraj can be very venomous. At this point of time Anupama does want the interaction between father and son to worsen,

You are right about the upbringing of Anu as most of the girls are in the shelter of father of brother. Therefore, she look at Vanraaj as the family protector. Due to all this she is asking Samar to share every problem with Vanraaj his father and not any other Man (Anuj).

But here Samar she comfortable with Anuj in sharing the problems as he has seen him respecting his mother and providing all the good opportunity to her that she never got. Samar thinks that when Anuj can save him once without knowing who he is then he will definetly protect him when he knows that he is his lady love's son. Believe me, yahi hoga bhi. Makers will make sure that Anuj will be helping Samar. This is trigger Vanraaj again that Anuj is interfacing his fatherhood also.

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Anupama always tells Samar that he is his father,his right etc,why doesn't she remind Vanraj once that Samar is also his son,and that he is not supposed to be partial or is supposed to support him in his decisions.Also,does Anupama really think that Vanraj will understand Samar and Nandini and their problems,after his giri hui such he showed during their engagement?Will he not question Nandini's character?He might even ask Samar to leave Nandini,but this time if anything of that sort happens,Sanan should definitely not wait for the so called aashirvad of Baa and Vanraj,instead they should either get engaged in front of them,or have a court wedding like JalTosh.

Vanraj,who never supported or loved Samar even once,will support him now??