MHRW Episode Discussion Thread #73 - Page 43

Originally posted by: subbuappu

What I liked in today's episode is he didn't let Pallavi touch him... He himself feels he is dirty... I don't understand why few people have problem with him shooing Pallavi away when she tried to touch him today or going to seduce him tomorrow... That's how he should be right?? Not telling her truth is a different thing and I agree that he should resolve and tell this to Pallavi but him responding to her advances is actually cheating on her... It might make her feel pathetic when rejected but them doing the deed and later her finding out might make her more pathetic right???

@bold I said exactly that.

His reaction was perfectly fine. In fact, him being all cozy with her and hugging her would seem totally wrong considering his state of mind.

If he was all lovey dovey with her, people would curse him a 100 times more for having no shame.

Kahan jaaye woh?

Originally posted by: muktaps

he Bhagwaan yaha bhi politics

Isn't it obvious ☺️

Originally posted by: chokri

There are 3 sets of ppl in this forum...

1) Who genuinely like Raghvi 2) Who pretends to like Raghav 3) Who is biased towards Raghav since Mandaar track (me for eg and I am proud of it).

The one who pretends to like Raghav got a golden chance now. They were waiting him to do that ONE mistake now they are happy.. lol let them enjoy they been waiting for sooo long...

This really made me crack up. 🤣

Yes, a lot of people were waiting for this opportunity, especially because the resented all the bashing Pallavi got and all the sympathy Raghav got during the Mandaar track and now enjoy seeing him being in a sticky situation like this.

Originally posted by: Hopeful_Heart

He said "I thought its Pallavi". For now they have done the deeds. In future Siku might show they did not do the deed but for now they have done it as it come across like that only.

As I keep saying, men are conditioned to think of themselves as perpetrators. So when he woke up like that next to her, he automatically assumed he did it.

Originally posted by: fria319

I just didn't like the way he did it. He didn't have to push her away like that. He could have reassured her that he's fine and slowly pry her hands off him. But no, he forcefully pushed her away and was angry.

Just bc we're hurt/stressed/upset, doesn't give us the pass to hurt others.

It's surprising that in all this you're thinking about what she felt in that moment, which I get but she doesn't know what he went through. He does, he's dying every minute. His reaction is exactly what I'd expect of someone in his position. He can't even look at her in the eye.

Him assuring her that he's fine? He isn't, though and his head is all messed up. That's how his character is behaving. Just in yesterday's episode people were saying how he looked all calm driving home. No he wasn't calm, he was freaking out and totally losing it even after getting home. Keerti was overwhelmed with relief on seeing him safe and after a long time she went and hugged him but did you see how he responded? No warmth or affection there. When Pallavi hugged him it was worse because he thinks he wronged her and she is the subject of his worries and guilt right now.

This is not his regular tantrum or losing his temper. This is earth shattering for him.

Originally posted by: subbuappu

He is not angry on Pallavi... He is angry on himself.. what will he say to remove her hands from him?? He is not angry also to say when shooing her hands... He is more behaving like don't touch me ... I am in deep sh*t... And I don't think at that time he has that much compose on himself to tell her with love to remove her hands.. else he would have told her about the deed itself

Thank you for saying this! This is exactly what he's going through. He can't think straight at this point and considers him tainted so that her pure hands shouldn't touch him.

Raghav will be kill in end of this track

Sunny will shoot raghav

Originally posted by: fria319

Yes I know he was angry at himself and he pushed her away in that state of anger and guilt. He physically pushed her away. It wasn’t just a removal of her hands. And what wife wants to hear “don’t touch me” after worrying about him for 24 hrs. She doesn’t know what’s going on inside his brain if he doesn’t tell her. This is all the more reason why he should have practiced more control over his emotions.

Saying he can’t control himself is not a good enough excuse. Pallavi always has to bear the brunt of his emotional instability/ his lack of control over his emotions. This is the one situation where he should have controlled himself from hurting her.

I get why he was uncomfortable. I get that he’s swimming in guilt. I feel bad for him bc he was violated but he’s not even thinking like that bc that’s now how the writers are approaching this situation.

But there were other ways to handle his discomfort. Him slowly prying his wife’s hands off him would’ve sent the same message.

This is one situation where he can't think of measuring his actions or words or be delicate. He is totally messed up in the head.

You see his reaction at night? He was gentler and walked away because he'd had time to compose himself a bit.

And he wasn't just uncomfortable, he was full of self-loathing at that point. The more he saw her worry the worse he was feeling about what he did.

Originally posted by: subbuappu

May be you are right as you are seeing in that way. But from my pov if he acted all lovey dovey then I wouldn't have tolerated as I can understand why he behaved as such now. She have searched for him and tracked all the way to warangal in that situation and that made him more guilty.. but if he was such composed to be calm then he would have told her about the deed itself.. No matter how much a person controls his emotions at certain times there are situations where they can't hold what they feel

Totally agree. He also can't accept the fact that he did the very thing he hated in others.

Originally posted by: Ruhi.007

Does she though? She said "does not matter who you are thinking about, I am the one near you".. Something along these lines before she put her hands over a drunk raghav.

Desolation in her marriage may make her cling to him harder 🤕

She knows it that's why she overrode his words and took advantage of him, instead of approaching him the proper way or talking to him about this when sober.