Originally posted by: subbuappu
He is not angry on Pallavi... He is angry on himself.. what will he say to remove her hands from him?? He is not angry also to say when shooing her hands... He is more behaving like don't touch me ... I am in deep sh*t... And I don't think at that time he has that much compose on himself to tell her with love to remove her hands.. else he would have told her about the deed itself
Yes I know he was angry at himself and he pushed her away in that state of anger and guilt. He physically pushed her away. It wasn’t just a removal of her hands. And what wife wants to hear “don’t touch me” after worrying about him for 24 hrs. She doesn’t know what’s going on inside his brain if he doesn’t tell her. This is all the more reason why he should have practiced more control over his emotions.
Saying he can’t control himself is not a good enough excuse. Pallavi always has to bear the brunt of his emotional instability/ his lack of control over his emotions. This is the one situation where he should have controlled himself from hurting her.
I get why he was uncomfortable. I get that he’s swimming in guilt. I feel bad for him bc he was violated but he’s not even thinking like that bc that’s now how the writers are approaching this situation.
But there were other ways to handle his discomfort. Him slowly prying his wife’s hands off him would’ve sent the same message.