Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #105|Disha Ne Badli Shiva ki Dasha - Page 54

Originally posted by: majoni03

Quoting you again. I totally agree with the bold part. Honestly I cannt believe that in this forum ppl want to see a married man's interaction with another girl in presence of his wife, want another girl to woo him so that he feels confident and his wife gets jealous. Really?If writers go this way then I am done with this show and Shivi.

Sorry if I offended anyone

To be honest it's very very problematic.

A woman coming to a married mans house to meet him in front of his wife for the prospect of marriage?

Nothing can justify this.

Insecurities ho, jo bhi ho.you have a commitment which you should honour. Atleast wait till the divorce.

But at the end of the day it's a tv show, they will add comic elements, raavi's dramatic dobi reactions to all this and trivialise it.

I do want shiva to interact with the new girl because I want him to come clean and tell her where he stands.

If shiva reciprocates even the slightest, then he is ruined for me too.i will take a break and continue when things get better.

Originally posted by: majoni03

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Originally posted by: VaishnaviG

I guess pehele Padhi thi lekin abhi phirse padhke aati hoon 🤗

Ab aaj keliye isse apna mann bhara🤗🐷😆

Originally posted by: deeps07

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KD has a very nice voice. He should do ASMR.🤪🐷

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

To be honest it's very very problematic.

A woman coming to a married mans house to meet him in front of his wife for the prospect of marriage?

Nothing can justify this.

Insecurities ho, jo bhi ho.you have a commitment which you should honour. Atleast wait till the divorce.

But at the end of the day it's a tv show, they will add comic elements, raavi's dramatic dobi reactions to all this and trivialise it.

I do want shiva to interact with the new girl because I want him to come clean and tell her where he stands.

If shiva reciprocates even the slightest, then he is ruined for me too.i will take a break and continue when things get better.

I want that too. I have already said before that I want Shiva to be honest with her and tell her that he loves his wife only. But anything beyond that would ruin Shiva and Shivi for me.yesterday's 10 sec scene of Shiva staring at her disgusted me.but many here were very excited about that scene😕.But I liked how he totally ignored her today .And yes I don't want Shiva to feel confident because a beautiful girl is ready to marry him

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

To be honest it's very very problematic.

A woman coming to a married mans house to meet him in front of his wife for the prospect of marriage?

Nothing can justify this.

Insecurities ho, jo bhi ho.you have a commitment which you should honour. Atleast wait till the divorce.

But at the end of the day it's a tv show, they will add comic elements, raavi's dramatic dobi reactions to all this and trivialise it.

I do want shiva to interact with the new girl because I want him to come clean and tell her where he stands.

If shiva reciprocates even the slightest, then he is ruined for me too.i will take a break and continue when things get better.

The safest thing they can do is shiva realises he wants ravi back before disha is brought back to house again for further talks..

If not happening. Just make his stand clear to disha..tell her he won't marry ..and she can leave for herself. Him analysing and assessing how disha is different from ravi .or vice versa is an insult to the genuine feelings he started having for ravi before the Sneha kaandh happened. It butchers his character..and ravi..why would she stay in a marrg where she has to prove she is better than an unknown random girl for her husband.

So the ball is in shivas court now..if he doesn't show the courage to say it to disha right away , the way he speaks with any random women when they bring rishthas for him in the store..then I don't care abt shivi anymore..becz ravi tho chodne se rahi..she will be Gopi bahu..shiva will be dev 2.0..and suman will be one of a kind dirty vaampsaas..whtvr they show it won't matter if the characters actions doesn't match with their character.

Originally posted by: Rattus_Ruhi

I agree💯

This surat--->sirat growth will be a long and gradual one and it should be too. Opinions, way of thinking of an adult can never flip 180 degrees with a particular incident/ event/ NDE.

We've seen softy Shiva when Raavi tried committing suicide and the Mukteshwar track.. He was scared to lose her and he grew softer towards her but how long did it end though? It's only after Shiva dheere dheere saw Raavi's qualities as a person that he could finally admit (although in a dream sequence) that wo sirf aur sirf Raavi ka hai.

Imo, Shiva-Disha track would end with a softy Raavi, with a seed named Shivi planted in her heart and then, gradually, she would see Shiva in a new light and start admiring him like we all do. And that seed of love would grow into a huge tree as the show progresses.

Yes, for now, Raavi needs to realize Shiva's importance in her life, and be more empathetic towards him. Character growth will happen eventually, if the writers get time from Dhara nde lol 🤪

@bold- I remember there were discussions trying to figure out how and why Shiva suddenly started liking her. I think most of us thought that it was too fast...but in hindsight, I wonder if that was just meant to be infatuation, and this is the actual "falling for her" phase.

Now that Shiva is able to see Raavi for who she is, without the lens of her being Mami ki behen ki beti, maybe its now that he's actually falling in love with her. Ab bas, Raavi needs to catch up again ❤️

Originally posted by: majoni03

I want that too. I have already said before that I want Shiva to be honest with her and tell her that he loves his wife only. But anything beyond that would ruin Shiva and Shivi for me.yesterday's 10 sec scene of Shiva staring at her disgusted me.but many here were very excited about that scene😕.But I liked how he totally ignored her today .And yes I don't want Shiva to feel confident because a beautiful girl is ready to marry him

I dnt think yesterday he was looking at her as if stunned by her beauty...it looked to me as if he just realised this kaandh is for real.😆

Idk if it's Unpopular Opinion, but I did like Today's Episode, except for Suman and her manipulation bakwaas.

I loved how the whole family was kind of shielding Shiva, and didn't want Disha there.

I found Rishita too cute today.

Also, in the last conversation, Shiva was just behind Oily, do you think he could've heard anything? I highly doubt it, but it's still a possibility.

Originally posted by: deeps07

The safest thing they can do is shiva realises he wants ravi back before disha is brought back to house again for further talks..

If not happening. Just make his stand clear to disha..tell her he won't marry ..and she can leave for herself. Him analysing and assessing how disha is different from ravi .or vice versa is an insult to the genuine feelings he started having for ravi before the Sneha kaandh happened. It butchers his character..and ravi..why would she stay in a marrg where she has to prove she is better than an unknown random girl for her husband.

So the ball is in shivas court now..if he doesn't show the courage to say it to disha right away , the way he speaks with any random women when they bring rishthas for him in the store..then I don't care abt shivi anymore..becz ravi tho chodne se rahi..she will be Gopi bahu..shiva will be dev 2.0..and suman will be one of a kind dirty vaampsaas..whtvr they show it won't matter if the characters actions doesn't match with their character.

Agreed deeps.

This will be a track for raavi's realisation.

But it will also test Shiva's morals.

Hope the makers do justice and the actions of the characters match with who they really are.