Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #105|Disha Ne Badli Shiva ki Dasha - Page 30

Shiva was enjoying when rishitha was crushing disha with that hug and questioning her..😆

Originally posted by: Anu_V

I really really really hope not. Shiva and Raavi have so much to discover about each other first. I hope this 3rd angle nonsense drama begins when the show actually has no story to tell.

I hope it begins never. So many of these shows begin on woman empowerment. This show started with how Dhara made a positive impact on Gaumbi's life. Her education turned the fate of the store, and her outlook on life caused the brothers to look up to her as an older sister/second mother. She was an independent woman who was versatile and accomplished. Yet, now she is being reduced to being nothing more than a "wife" for Gautam. Instead of focusing on the positive aspects/hardships of pregnancy, they focus on Anita being a third wheel in GauRa's relationship. Now, I can't relate to GauRa or Dhara, but no woman deserves that!

And now Disha... instead of focusing on Raavi's education and her goals of becoming an independent woman, they decide to make her as someone who is jealous, someone who compares her skin color to others, someone who drinks another's half empty glass of juice... I understand, she is jealous of Disha since Disha is so well loved by Suman... but couldn't the CVs have done something a little different here? Instead of introducing Disha as a 2nd wife for Shiva, why couldn't the CVs introduce Disha as a childhood friend of Shiva's who had a deep crush on him (kind of like Rakhi who changed majors because of him and kind of like Zoe in Sara's fic?). Why do women have to always serve the role of being a man's potential significant other? Why can't Disha just be a friend who tells Shiva and Raavi to stop being so prideful?

We joke all the time about Shiva and Raavi getting together at the last episode... but does this really make them an exemplary couple if they do? Shiva could love Raavi as much as he wants, Raavi could love Shiva as much as she wants, but if they are unwilling to sit down and talk, then what does it even matter if Shiva hides from Disha or if Raavi drinks Disha's juice?

They have so many parts to a relationship left to uncover. They need to address Shiva's education, they need to address Raavi's education. They need to address Raavi's trauma of being an orphan, or Shiva's trauma of being known as a gawar by many people. They need to address Shiva and Raavi's silent understanding of each other, how they will be each other's greatest support even if the rest of the world doesn't believe in them. They need to unravel Shiva and Raavi as chachu and chachi. So many different plotlines that could have equal amounts of drama and depth... introducing a third angle, no matter how innocent, does absolutely nothing to promote how "amazing" their relationship is.

I could go on, but I'll end my rant here before I hurt anyone.

Pandyas are not normal the clownery they did when disha was introduced to everyone n then taken towards Shiva🤣🤣...dhara toh bich mein khadi hogayiirishita trying to hug crush her..Ioved how krish said byee🤣....so instead of doing this stupid harkatein they could have just introduced Raavi as still Shiva's wife..or all of them could have stopped Suman

Shiva didn't shake hands n ran away🤣he looked cute also raavi checking out disha🤣

Raavi's continuous glares to Shiva Disha🔥...death glares 🤪🤣

Also..raavi Shiva k dil mein ghuskar naachne lagi thi reception time pe n now disha ko dekhkar shiva ka dil karra hai dandiyaa se apna sar phod du🤣

Boi is cutayy❤️sirf raavi ka hai❤️

You know...actually this does happen in small towns and villages....girls and woman are quick to judge based on skin colour...I have been on receiving end for quiet long.Just yesterday my maami goes my daughter is fair so her not putting powder is understandable but Maya you are a bit on the darker side...so put powder and lipstick everyday.Even guys be like if you a bit fairer you would have been soo beautiful....and this came from the guy who I had kissed! Thank goodness I was confident in myself...I loved model with dusky skin tone and never judged them or myself ....Also many Indian goddess were dark...Thats why I was like I am dark like the darkest night...fcuk you! But the point is anyone would have been self conscious and their self esteem would have broken down.

I found the episode comical and light-hearted until Raavi compared her skin color - I don't understand why the writers felt the need to include this part. I'm so disappointed.

Todays episode was disturbing. It was the nail on the coffin. I just cannot get the show watch anymore. My heart was sinking! Im I being too dramatic? Maybe. But i think I'm done with the show. After a long day, i watch shoes for entertainment. This had me feeling sick.

I keep my stance. I hate Suman. I mean she's a mother, and i kind of melted when she prayed and said she doesnt want a girl who breaks her sons confidence and makes him feel worthless. But can't she see it even speak to her son and ask him what she wants? Isnt she making the same mistake Dhara made?? Why dont these people communicate when required ? I really wanted Dhara to tell Suman, your son? I had a huge part in his upbringing!! When you were down and unable I did it. So you shouldn't even be telling me this crap

Dhara is so dumb. How can she trust someone like Anita. Did she not feel weird for her husband to be saving a girl from falling and tbey being all over each other?

Shiva is dumb. He's a twerp. He cannot stand for himself. Whether it's infront of Raavi, Dhara or his mother.

This Disha seems overconfident and full of herself. Where is her family? Why is she not concerned about who Raavi is, or the FACT that Shiva is a divorcee? I mean does that not matter ???

I HATE THAT KANTA KAAKI. i hope she and Suman suffer.

Wait wait wait, Raavi compared her skin color to Disha? Wow! PS such progressive movements👏 You do know that FairN'Lovely has become GlowN'lovely and why... Hat off to the PS makers for such progressive thoughts. 🤪

Yeh Dhara Ghajini kab ban gayi? Why is she like what happened to Anitha and Raavi?😆

Once again, Suman , if you want the best for your best son, then TALK TO HIM! LISTEN TO HIM! Just because ur the mother doesn't mean you can control and manipulate him. You are such a toxic woman, omg, reminds me of one of my relative😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

You are welcome, Shruti!

I hope so too, could be a minor scare, just some false pain that happens with pregnancy, you know that.

But there is a BTS after the days' events, next morning I think. Dhara seems fine. So keeping fingers crossed for Tara.

Light spotting is common during pregnancy. I hope kuch aisa hi hua ho.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I hope it begins never. So many of these shows begin on woman empowerment. This show started with how Dhara made a positive impact on Gaumbi's life. Her education turned the fate of the store, and her outlook on life caused the brothers to look up to her as an older sister/second mother. She was an independent woman who was versatile and accomplished. Yet, now she is being reduced to being nothing more than a "wife" for Gautam. Instead of focusing on the positive aspects/hardships of pregnancy, they focus on Anita being a third wheel in GauRa's relationship. Now, I can't relate to GauRa or Dhara, but no woman deserves that!

And now Disha... instead of focusing on Raavi's education and her goals of becoming an independent woman, they decide to make her as someone who is jealous, someone who compares her skin color to others, someone who drinks another's half empty glass of juice... I understand, she is jealous of Disha since Disha is so well loved by Suman... but couldn't the CVs have done something a little different here? Instead of introducing Disha as a 2nd wife for Shiva, why couldn't the CVs introduce Disha as a childhood friend of Shiva's who had a deep crush on him (kind of like Rakhi who changed majors because of him and kind of like Zoe in Sara's fic?). Why do women have to always serve the role of being a man's potential significant other? Why can't Disha just be a friend who tells Shiva and Raavi to stop being so prideful?

We joke all the time about Shiva and Raavi getting together at the last episode... but does this really make them an exemplary couple if they do? Shiva could love Raavi as much as he wants, Raavi could love Shiva as much as she wants, but if they are unwilling to sit down and talk, then what does it even matter if Shiva hides from Disha or if Raavi drinks Disha's juice?

They have so many parts to a relationship left to uncover. They need to address Shiva's education, they need to address Raavi's education. They need to address Raavi's trauma of being an orphan, or Shiva's trauma of being known as a gawar by many people. They need to address Shiva and Raavi's silent understanding of each other, how they will be each other's greatest support even if the rest of the world doesn't believe in them. They need to unravel Shiva and Raavi as chachu and chachi. So many different plotlines that could have equal amounts of drama and depth... introducing a third angle, no matter how innocent, does absolutely nothing to promote how "amazing" their relationship is.

I could go on, but I'll end my rant here before I hurt anyone.

Thanks for calling me out here Avi!! But yes. Unfortunately drama wise they will bring it up.

I love ALL the points you made.

I’ve stopped looking at ITV with a feminist and a social justice lens. It will just lead to me pulling my hair.

Raavi comparing skin tones?

These desi shows run in Indian households daily and a lot of young girls watch with their moms

At least that’s how I began watching. Imagine the impact this has on young minds

I’m in an environment where discussion about skin tone does not happen but in India it still happens.

They could have show raavis insecurity in any any other way

Sadly, I somehow wish ITV tackled these things sensitively. Entertainment is a great way to shape thoughts and opinions, sadly ITV reinforces the regressive ones

Like the black lives movement came into the forefront in America last year and most shows that dealt with cops or police (Brooklyn 99 and Lucifer) handled it so well.

Originally posted by: ZaaraBB

Todays episode was disturbing. It was the nail on the coffin. I just cannot get the show watch anymore. My heart was sinking! Im I being too dramatic? Maybe. But i think I'm done with the show. After a long day, i watch shoes for entertainment. This had me feeling sick.

I keep my stance. I hate Suman. I mean she's a mother, and i kind of melted when she prayed and said she doesnt want a girl who breaks her sons confidence and makes him feel worthless. But can't she see it even speak to her son and ask him what she wants? Isnt she making the same mistake Dhara made?? Why dont these people communicate when required ? I really wanted Dhara to tell Suman, your son? I had a huge part in his upbringing!! When you were down and unable I did it. So you shouldn't even be telling me this crap

Dhara is so dumb. How can she trust someone like Anita. Did she not feel weird for her husband to be saving a girl from falling and tbey being all over each other?

Shiva is dumb. He's a twerp. He cannot stand for himself. Whether it's infront of Raavi, Dhara or his mother.

This Disha seems overconfident and full of herself. Where is her family? Why is she not concerned about who Raavi is, or the FACT that Shiva is a divorcee? I mean does that not matter ???

I HATE THAT KANTA KAAKI. i hope she and Suman suffer.

Shiva is not even a divorcee yet .He is a MARRIED Man. And does this Disha even know that he is still staying with his wife and if she knows and still ok with it then I don't know what to say