Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #105|Disha Ne Badli Shiva ki Dasha - Page 7

Originally posted by: Transference

Human beings are often touted to be the strangest creatures, and we all seem validation, acceptance and love amongst our peer groups.

As per Maslow’s hierarchy of needs (a psychology theory), esteem and love/belonging are indispensable segments of human behaviour.

Esteem requires extreme validation, appreciation, acknowledgement and acceptance, especially from those whom we love.

Relying on superficial assurance or validation often makes us anxious, angry or revolted against the person whom we seek validation from. A lack of self-confidence creeps up when you don't get such acceptance snf may cause us to behave rather inappropriately and have trouble seeking self-esteem. The disapproval, criticism and rejection of Someone whom Your heart Craves for Becomes especially Painful because We put So much Stock into That person’s opinions.

For Shiva, it's always been Raavi. He is caught in a vicious loop of seeking validation from her, which further weakens his self-esteem.

It isn't Raavi’s fault, but somehow, she has rejected him every time he is caught on a thread. To understand where they stand today, it's essential to see them from the start.

They are stuck in a quagmire of deep-rooted issues—Will talking help, maybe not. A simple validation, acceptance will work like magic! It will.

The minuscule seconds of a strange expressive Shiva with a deep breath says it all. Maybe he is worthy too!

Disha entering and Shiva glancing is just so raw, honest and layered. Honestly, I love the subtle nuances.

Every word is carved so beautifully.

I never thought Maslow could be quoted w.r.t ITV show. Kudos truly. ❤️

Guys.... I had an idea. What if anita wants to harm dhara but because dhara sits out half way because of whatever reason raavi gets hurt. Or even better janardan takes her or does something?

Synopsis for episode# 225 is out in Hulu, Here it is

Dhara makes a request

After Disha is introduced to the family, Dhara and Rishita try to avoid Disha’s meeting with Shiva. Further Dhara requests Suman to reconsider Shiva’s remarriage

Looks like episode will be out in Hulu at 8:30 pm ET.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Synopsis for episode# 225 is out in Hulu, Here it is

Dhara makes a request

After Disha us introduced to the family, Dhara and Rishita try to avoid Disha’s meeting with Shiva. Further Dhara requests Suman to reconsider Shiva’s remarriage

Looks like episode will be out in Hulu at 8:30 pm ET.

Thanks Prema🤗

Are we going to get a LU from you?

Originally posted by: mpks1

Aaliya, there is a prediction that BhabiMa faints, Raavi decides to become Sita. What if Gautam goes to attend to Dhara and Shiva becomes Ram. I want this to happen

I know it’s my wishful thinking😆

I want this too Prema!! I would love to see Shiva and Raavi as Ram and Sita

So many moments between them can be recreated and issues can be resolved, including the agni pariksha one if the writers decide to go that route!

I just don't want raavi as sita to be shiva's dream 😆

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

Thanks Prema🤗

Are we going to get a LU from you?

We’ll see. Daughter’s class gets over at 9 pm but I can ask my husband to pick her up and he will most likely do it for me, now that he knows episodes are back up again at 8:30 pm ET😆

It will be great if Hails or Aaliya join me during LU❤️

Originally posted by: mpks1

Janu and Gundajis are back 😆 abb Ramleela mein dhamaka honewala hai

Jaanu my Jaan is back! I can't wait for him to take revenge on Shiva.. Shiva hit him so badly the last time 😈

And Gautam maligned his character too by accusing him of tadofying girls 😈

Go Jaanu! 🥳

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

I want this too Prema!! I would love to see Shiva and Raavi as Ram and Sita

So many moments between them can be recreated and issues can be resolved, including the agni pariksha one if the writers decide to go that route!

I just don't want raavi as sita to be shiva's dream 😆

Why would shiva dream of Raavi as sita lol.. is there a spoiler?

Originally posted by: Transference

Human beings are often touted to be the strangest creatures, and we all seem validation, acceptance and love amongst our peer groups.

As per Maslow’s hierarchy of needs (a psychology theory), esteem and love/belonging are indispensable segments of human behaviour.

Esteem requires extreme validation, appreciation, acknowledgement and acceptance, especially from those whom we love.

Relying on superficial assurance or validation often makes us anxious, angry or revolted against the person whom we seek validation from. A lack of self-confidence creeps up when you don't get such acceptance snf may cause us to behave rather inappropriately and have trouble seeking self-esteem. The disapproval, criticism and rejection of Someone whom Your heart Craves for Becomes especially Painful because We put So much Stock into That person’s opinions.

For Shiva, it's always been Raavi. He is caught in a vicious loop of seeking validation from her, which further weakens his self-esteem.

It isn't Raavi’s fault, but somehow, she has rejected him every time he is caught on a thread. To understand where they stand today, it's essential to see them from the start.

They are stuck in a quagmire of deep-rooted issues—Will talking help, maybe not. A simple validation, acceptance will work like magic! It will.

The minuscule seconds of a strange expressive Shiva with a deep breath says it all. Maybe he is worthy too!

Disha entering and Shiva glancing is just so raw, honest and layered. Honestly, I love the subtle nuances.

The last cap.. the wonder on shiva's face that he might be worthy of a beautiful, educated girl too

You captured it beautifully!

Originally posted by: mpks1

Synopsis for episode# 225 is out in Hulu, Here it is

Dhara makes a request

After Disha is introduced to the family, Dhara and Rishita try to avoid Disha’s meeting with Shiva. Further Dhara requests Suman to reconsider Shiva’s remarriage

Looks like episode will be out in Hulu at 8:30 pm ET.

Woah.. didn't expect synopsis to be out so soon! Looks like Hulu is being of some use after all 😆