Kuch pal sukoon ke - Page 11

Originally posted by: GaramTawa

Exactly this is Adi’s baseline lol and upar se like you said being chidhchidha that he has to deal with a brainless boss to now coming home and seeing that yeh ghatiya aurat phir se shuru ho gayi....agar context chahiye tha that he was already in an irritated mood toh woh bhi diya with him refusing the juice and recounting everything to Aparna......question Imlie se hi puchega na since idk they discussed it like a few hours ago lol..and usi se puchega na whom he trusts to deal with this unhinged woman.....and this is high stakes....iss nuclear reactor ke maintenance mein cross-checking toh banta hai

So ab end mein har dialogue kaisa hona chahiye?....Adi’s now supposed to forever bow down and hate himself?...,..basic personality and characterisation hi change karna hai kya that if he’s not in utter dejection and self-loathing for even a second then he’s committing a sin.......the one person jiske saath he can and wants be himself, feels safe with uske saath bhi zindagi bhar yehi mode mein jeena hai kya......aisa nahi ki iske har action ko justify karna but at the same time har action can be viewed given the context and circumstances

And just to add to the trust issue...like you guys were discussing a couple of threads back woh bruised vishwaas ek maamle mein hai...and jab Adi-Imlie themselves have that perspective...toh phir har scenario mein ab khoj khoj ke trust issue kyun imagine karna I dont get😆

And just cuz I love using yours and AY's gifs:

@bold: Short answer seems to be yes, Adi should forever be drowning in dejection/self-loathing in every scene, otherwise he doesn't trust Imlie, otherwise he is imposing dusri aurat ka baccha on her, Imlie deserves a new ML, Adi needs to be jealous etc. etc. 😆

Ek scene mein uska viewpoint itna clearly dikhaya, but ab har scene mein wohi baat repeat karna zaroori hai?😆

See I understand that ideally everyone would like a resolution of the situation ki yeh sab baggage na ho over Adilie's marriage and their relationship.....but the story doesn't seem to be in the mood to clear out that baggage as of now - we have a mega shameless character in the name of Malini who will continue to impose herself on people who find it difficult to wiggle away from her manipulations - toh phir aise workarounds hi chalenge.

I still find it strange daily to read all the complaints people have from Adi ki usne abhi tak M ka truth nahin samjha, baby ki care kyun dikhaa di but I barely read anyone wondering why a woman is still living in his house like a pampered guest when he has openly told her a 100 times he doesn't consider her his wife and this baby did not have his consent? Those who want to draw strange bullshit parallels ki Imlie also lived in that house when Adi didn't accept her as his wife forget that Imlie wasn't living there as a pampered guest imposing herself on others - ghar mein kaam kar ke apne aap ko sustain karti thi without trying to get in anyone's way.

Malini se zyada ghatiya aur besharam insaan is story mein hai nahin is waqt, but still people somehow are only on Adi's case daily for not being able to disentangle himself from the clutches of such a cheap woman? lol ismein bhi saari galti sirf Adi ki hai rather than the woman who is so shameless and depraved? Waah bhai.

And the issue of the rape isn't going to get discussed beyond this in the story as of now so roz us baat pe lekar maatam manaane ka kya faayda? Adi is not in the frame of mind to fully accept what has happened to him but even with what he has managed to accept, Imlie remains his only anchor and he's expressed everything he feels to her - the disagreements, the regrets, as well as his guilt in failing her as a husband......so itna sab hone ke baad, why is there the expectation that Adi won't talk about the baby with her? lol jab sab baatein saaf saaf kar lete hain aapas mein toh yeh bhi kar lenge.....and jin logon ko "normalcy" ki expectation hai is story se I guess have forgotten that this story started with an Imlie who willingly handed sindoor to her own husband to put in another woman's maang😆.

Regarding the new owner of Bhaskar Times.....LOL my feel still is that it won't be anything more than a week's worth of storyline😆....that is the pattern since the last few weeks.....kidnapping/human trafficking was like this, Adi ka job loss was like this.....itna hype karne ke baad all resolved in a few epis and the larger storyline of M ki cheap tricks continued.

Here also, the pregnancy (real or fake) seems to be the main plot as of now - baaki bas sideplots hain.....so whatever part this new owner/Imlie's internship may play will only be looped into M's schemes somehow cuz uski cheapster-giri non stop chalegi....but whatever she plots will continue to fail and Adilie will still manage to discover new layers of understanding between themselves long term 😆.

All said and done, I had to laugh that Adi did work on Imlie ki human trafficking waali story to publish in his paper, and he STILL did not discover AC's connection to that incident at all🤔😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Regarding the new owner of Bhaskar Times.....LOL my feel still is that it won't be anything more than a week's worth of storyline😆....that is the pattern since the last few weeks.....kidnapping/human trafficking was like this, Adi ka job loss was like this.....itna hype karne ke baad all resolved in a few epis and the larger storyline of M ki cheap tricks continued.

Here also, the pregnancy (real or fake) seems to be the main plot as of now - baaki bas sideplots hain.....so whatever part this new owner/Imlie's internship may play will only be looped into M's schemes somehow cuz uski cheapster-giri non stop chalegi....but whatever she plots will continue to fail and Adilie will still manage to discover new layers of understanding between themselves long term 😆.

All said and done, I had to laugh that Adi did work on Imlie ki human trafficking waali story to publish in his paper, and he STILL did not discover AC's connection to that incident at all🤔😆

So much for self claimed ache patrakar ji🤣 bechare kaash imlie ko Zikar kar dete shayad woh kuch keh deti bilkul eeni meeni chance but haha yeah yeh gharelu maamle are chatooing his dimaag like Deemak too.. again solo didi manages to eat every person from inside just by her mere presence

And yes would reserve my opinion over the owner just yet.. as it is chances are imlie usko sabak sikhayegi ke bikao nahi ho.content matters and once again be the means for adi's success as in be the major part of his achievement over the story..since she came Into his life all his stories have been big success thanks to Imlie's Contribution to them

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

I do not agree with it..there is nothing wrong in adi asking imlie to take care given that he can only trust imlie and he knows she will do that job..what does this has to do with the age when he clearly knows that imlie is mentally stronger one and is capable of handling this aurat and iske tantrums.. again may we rewind a bit to him not trusting malini in this regard and being she is unstable ..how can he leave that duty to an unstable woman..there is nobody else he can trust beside imlie as she told him that the kid Is important to her too they both share the love for the kid and would do anything to make sure it is OK.. imlie isn't worrying for Malini hut the kid.. it was perfectly OK IMO.. i mean I know people want to bash adi for everything but this ain't one valid reason to bash him for given that that have both established that malini cannot handle herself. And is volatile this is not just the first time even after her multiple suicides imlie has taken it upon herself to make sure she heals 🤷‍♀️

Also regarding trust... how is trust so selective. Malni's care is concerned then trust on Imlie ; Exposing Malini is concerned then trust on Malini...

Saying this i understand what you are saying coz of @bold.. But Adi asking her about M med was bit concern for me.... I am not dwelling on it though as this is actually minor thing among the bigger ones

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I read so much hoopla about this before I got around to watching the epi and when I watched the actual scene, I was like seriously?!😆.....This is what everyone ranted about all weekend as Adi taking Imlie for granted?😆......I feel like I watched a whole other scene then😆.

Scene#1 - the phone convo.....Adi didn't call Imlie to ask about M ka haalchaal😆. He called her to ask how her pampering session is going at home with the ladies....Imlie pitched that whole thing to him as a day of relaxation at home for all the ladies - it is Aparna who said arey haan isi bahaane Malini bhi rest kar legi....lol obviously Imlie orchestrated the whole thing to make M rest but that is not how she pitched it to Adi. And when Adi called her from the office, he called to talk to IMLIE first and was indulgently asking her about how the pampering was going.....he only asked about M and her meds in the flow of the convo and again, this is no longer an awkward subject between him and Imlie cuz they are both on the same page regarding the care of the baby being a priority for both of them.....the fact that they are able to put aside their disagreement about M and still have the maturity to focus on the innocent child in all this shows the depth in their relationship. Adi is not taking Imlie for granted - he is treating her as someone he can rely on as a partner.

As for why no one calls out that M as a supposed grown woman can't take care of herself or her baby......lol well that's the baseline underscoring all this as it's getting proven how immature and petty she actually is while trying to manipulate everyone with fake sweetness. That is why the writers are showing all these situations.

Scene#2 was clearly set up to show another round of manipulative Malini.....she saw that Adi came home from stressed from work and decided to USE it for her advantage rather than being genuinely bothered about his stress.....they clearly showed how fake all her concern for Adi is too since she was mouthing fake sympathy about how she knows how important his work is to him and simultaneously decided to use his temper against Imlie......but she still failed.....because Imlie figured out what she was trying to do and found a workaround in advance by putting the medicine in the juice - displaying her quick wit and samajhdaari both in the face of an obvious psychotic manipulator. Adi was half distracted anyways when he asked Imlie if she gave the meds to M.....again, none of this is stemming from any real concern for M....he barely looked at M even after coming back from work - lol he was in his own head.....M had to draw his attention to her again by faking that fainting spell and tab bhi it was his usual general token concern, after which bas thoda sa Imlie ko puchh kar he also moved on from the issue ki sab sorted hai, yeh sab baatein chhodo.....lol

The writers are still in that very subtle zone showing everyone reacting as per their character. The baby angle is here to stay for however long and Adi-Imlie have managed to find their routine even in the midst of all of that.....lol Malini still remains peripheral and irrelevant despite thinking she is being "pampered".....lol she continues to remain a cheap woman stewing in her bitterness and pettiness.

It is obvious that Adi doesn't trust her to be careful with the kid so he will shown concern from his side for the child as will Imlie - heck Imlie is already 10 steps ahead of him in showing concern for the child....lol so I dunno why people only jump over Adi showing concern for the kid. Malini is a pathetic loser and anyone who has to deal with her for more than a day ends up working around her basically to think about what actually matters.....both Adi and Imlie are shown to have more humanity in wanting to think about an innocent child rather than sit all day thinking about a childish/unstable woman.....lol.....yeah no matter how gross the backdrop is for this pregnancy, in the here and now, M is just being proven more and more pathetic and failing in all her attempts no matter how much she thinks to herself that she's succeeding in breaking Adilie apart.....lol

Why will anyone ask M if she took her meds? LOL they are all treating her like some "delicate half-wit" who's so spaced out all the time like pregnancy is also another in her long list of endless ailments.....lol.....Imlie as usual takes on responsibility on her own when she sees everyone else being a loser😆

Hallelujah🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️

I was starting to judge my own judgement about what is it that am not seeing.. you have verbalized what I felt but couldn't place it out beautiful ❤

idk how it is being treated like adi is ordering imlie and treating her as a lesser person and like she is their maid when he casually added on ke haan theek hai after their own talk was done and as I think lodestar or sandy mentioned the fact that didi is envious about this very fact that they are able to work through that adi trusts her so much to talk about anything with her.. so much word at bold as it is ..they have never let their own differences come in way to hurt any soul till now and they will not aage bhi..the kid has done nothing they have established that.. with imlie assuring him.that there is noway she will ever hate the kid for what happened they have established that confidence and faith yet again not like it wasn't there but he was unsure about what to expect before that part as in regards to Imlie's hurt and reaction..and to prevent her now he knows that they are on same page again it is about that understanding about being an equal partner.. about sharing the zimmedari and burden..where does it says that only one has to deal with percussions and problems? Isn't that the base of any relationship being able to walk as an equal?

If he has to do everything on his own alone than what is the difference between him and imlie and him and super dependable psycho rapist?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

This bit was just so natural and sweet😆.....they are literally in their own domesticated sa routine - waise wasn't Imlie claiming she's still naaraaz with him as of this morning? 😛😆.....Yeh dekh lo naraazgi😆.....aaraam se bol rahi hai aap apna kaam sambhaalo, main yahaan sab sambhaal rahi hoon😆......lol tag team kar rahe hain as partners to sambhaalo the psycho unstable aurat ka bojh😆. Cuz Imlie samajh gayi hai without Adi even asking her for help that Adi se akele nahin sambhala jaayega unstable bojh carrying an innocent baby.....lol.....so she's stepped up on her own for the baby's sake.

Mujhe toh sab kuch funny hi lag raha hai filhaal that ek taraf Imlie Adi ko saamne se bol rahi hai he doesn't trust her about Malini and that's a lingering issue between them......dusri taraf psycho Malini ne khud se soch liya hai that Adi blindly trusts Imlie🤣, so she is claiming woh trust tod ke rahegi.....ROFL sab apne apne trips pe hain😆. Meanwhile Adi-Imlie continue to have that husband-wife wala taal-mel and partnership despite the strange situation they've been trapped in yet again😆.

M is just an object hanging around that house.....baaki actual rishte apne aap se chal rahe hain...lol Adi only treats Imlie like his wife, Aparna-Radha have started smiling at Imlie's antics again.....Rupi is clearly seeing M ki two-faced tricks.....Imlie is trying to multi-task by taking care of the baby as well as outsmarting M ke manipulative lies.....lol.....so basically sab logon ne unstable Bojhini ka workaround dhunda hua hai to try to keep doing important tasks while she wastes her life away in cheap planning/plotting.....lol jo actually productive log hain, woh apne productive kaam kar rahe hain.

Also, I don't get why people think Imlie taking one day off from college (that too when it wasn't some important event going on) means she's sacrificed her studies to take care of the baccha.....lol it was one day ka trope to prove that Imlie can wear many hats and successfully handle situations unlike psycho Beemarini.

Beemarini 🤣 girl you are in a roll with the titles hahah at this rate we would need a separate glossary of all these and golden shabdon main likhne padenge😆 But that aside word about one day ka chutti and everyone making it as if they have never ever taken a day off from their classes /jobs ainvayein caz they know that nothing important is happening and it will be a useless activity to do jaana Aana..heck the didi ji who was making bahana of oh so important kaam just so she can get a jhula on bike ( and I say that caz that is what it is for her..like I swear this is what back home everybody does to distract kids ke car/bike pe galli ka xhakkar lagwa do cranky babies ko nd they will be fine ) 🤣 jaise hi usse pata chala ke pamper jona hai bhaith gayi

Haha at the confusion them having the damn trust issue as their dukhti rag now but delhnlo kitna acha taal Mel as you said and woh rishte ka bhram rakhna hai ke kisi ko pata nahi chalne de rahe and khudse have reached an agreement unlike didi who used too and still makes a scene even of adi sneezes without her permission 🤷‍♀️ this just subtly showed many aspects of their relationship and why they work..

The naarzgi toh subah hi phur ho gayi thi again kaunse naraaz patni ji itna smiling karte hiye apna grand plan batayi hain of pampering and in her happy zone 😆 she legit sent him to work with an all is well wala feel again it just shows why she is that partner who knows how how lift stress and make sure he doesn't go to work in a distressed mood esp given ke he was so disturbed the night before toh kar lia banter usko ek yakeen dila dia ke sabtheek hai je can relax that he will always find her there for him jaise bhi..mood acha karke ke ab jao let us enjoy then bhi he can't be focused caz imlie ki chinta hai ..again people keep saying he was ordering her but on the contrary to ne it looked more like he was still thinking about the fact that if she is ok doing all this since he was feeling guilty ke humse na ho Paata to reassurance chahiye tha and then ofcourse casual hubby wife communication.. again idk what is the big deal if one would put an add on... why is the important line like how can she do it is ignored

Haha yeah seeing radha aparna smile at imlie ke antics was ek dum refreshing I hope it grows more in coming days

As well I want to add that aparna did try to cut malini but she didn't gave her the chance she did say a protesting Arre in between when she was like imlie ne poocha nahi and all .

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Haha this was an adorable bit.....LOL she's such a MAST MAULA, man😆......this scene also again reinforced that Imlie doesn't have the patience to sit around and do all these girl/pampering type things like the rest of the maharanis all sitting there enjoying parlour waalon ki seva😆. She's a giver who'd rather do things for others than herself.....woh khud apne liye barely sochegi - baaki sabke liye hi sochegi humesha.....this is why I think they put in that precap scene of Rupi trying to think of Imlie and wanting her to get some time to spend with Adi....ki kisi ko toh dikhaao Imlie ke liye sochte huye😆

Loved the caps of hers and Sundar's bits too.....haha again Gaurav-ST ka natural dynamic coming through in such a lively manner......such an Imlie thing ki ghar ke literally every member ko pampering karva di except herself.....lol (Papa T and Nishu were conveniently gaayab but let's presume woh hote toh unki bhi karva deti😆).

Indeed it came out nicely with her even pampering the parlor wali when she was on job and imlie was supposed to be the one getting the services but imlie puts everyone even the strangers she meet moments ago before her because that is the person she is full of kindness and compassion that even these ladies deserve the care toh let me do it when this was a day planned by her she was excitedly telling adi ke am getting pampered and everyone is enjoying wheel where was she in anynof that? She was enjoying and felt pampered just seeing others relaxed and happy it highlighted that indeed the happiness is what is enough to make her feel pampered. And again adi knows that very well too and am looping it back to champi 1.0 Here ke yehi karti rahegi sabko and he did it for her

Really praying we get champi 2.0 so I could coin this officially champi dress but I want them both to pamper each other before didi ka jo bhi kaand hai.

Originally posted by: tellyme

It's not that i don't agree with your point and i am not bashing him completely as i can understand the situation in which he himself is... he is a victim as well as confused with everything.... But still he agreeing to give responsibility to Imlie for M is something not digestible to me from Imlie POV... girl has been fighting her own fight from childhood and took all her responsibility... now instead of making her life easier he is adding his additional responsibility to her feather. I mean she is able to take it but from his side should he not ask her to and force her to just focus on her career..

Also regarding trust... how is trust so selective. Malni's care is concerned then trust on Imlie ; Exposing Malini is concerned then trust on Malini...

Saying this i understand what you are saying coz of @bold.. But Adi asking her about M med was bit concern for me.... I am not dwelling on it though as this is actually minor thing among the bigger ones

What focus on career? Hasn't Imlie already noted the fact that the past is now joined to their present? Malini is a bojh living in their house (which Imlie herself decided to keep) - Imlie khud sabse zyada uchhal uchhal ke apne aap ko bacche ka protector bol rahi hai while Ts just flutter their hands uselessly....Adi is at work all day toh jo ghar pe hoga usse hi meds ka puchhega na? He hasn't designated Imlie M's official caretaker....this one day he called home, Imlie se baat hui toh he asked Imlie about the meds since she is one of the people in the house.....I never got the sense that he expects Imlie to wait hand and foot on M for this.

Baat itni si hai ki M is a total dharti pe bojh and Adi samajh gaya hai she is incapable of managing a baby....so everyone in the house is trying to manage caring for the baby in their own way - this was Imlie's attempt today, bas.....baaki Adi also volunteered to go for doctor ke checks ups etc.....ismein kuch itna deep meaning wala baat mujhe lagaa nahin jitna issue ban gaya over Adi asking about the meds. *shrugs*

Imlie herself isn't looking at the baby as a symbol of her husband's rape - she has compartmentalized it as an innocent being in all this.....toh phir the Imlie who cares for every raaste chalta stranger also will obviously care for this kid too....isse kyun rok paayega Adi use aur kyun? He has already acknowledged his failure as a pati.....usse zyada kya bolega?

Re: trust.....lol when did Adi talk about trust in this scene? Malini was the one who claimed this shows Adi's blind trust on Imile.....to me it showed that sense of reliance he feels on Imlie as someone he can count on......and when did he really trust Malini in this situation either? He simply asked Imlie about the meds based on the info given to him.....toh jab baat resolve ho gayi toh usne bol hi diya ki achhe se manage ho gaya, end of story......

I feel like jitna hum log is scene ko parse kar rahe hain, utna iska koi deep meaning tha bhi nahin epi mein😆.....it was just a setup to show that Adi-Imlie have an understanding that rises above Malini's cheap tricks and pettiness......Malini tried to manipulate Adi's temper against Imlie and it backfired on her - not just cuz of how Imlie handled it but also cuz Adi himself wasn't making that big of a deal of it that M was expecting him to - jitna woh temper temper bol rahi thi, utna gussa toh mujhe lagaa bhi nahin......lol

Originally posted by: tellyme

It's not that i don't agree with your point and i am not bashing him completely as i can understand the situation in which he himself is... he is a victim as well as confused with everything.... But still he agreeing to give responsibility to Imlie for M is something not digestible to me from Imlie POV... girl has been fighting her own fight from childhood and took all her responsibility... now instead of making her life easier he is adding his additional responsibility to her feather. I mean she is able to take it but from his side should he not ask her to and force her to just focus on her career..

Also regarding trust... how is trust so selective. Malni's care is concerned then trust on Imlie ; Exposing Malini is concerned then trust on Malini...

Saying this i understand what you are saying coz of @bold.. But Adi asking her about M med was bit concern for me.... I am not dwelling on it though as this is actually minor thing among the bigger ones

Uhhh I have a simple question when and where in which marriage is it about flying solo? Where is it to not navigate through various struggles and deal with multiple things... why is it being always said ke jitna zindagi jeena hai shaadi se pehle jee lo phir phans jaate ho? While I do not agree with this statement but the major point comes back to it is never a solo journey. I totally disagree that adi is hampering her studies or burdening her not at all. Just caz he asked her about one tablet means he is hampering it..I would say that if he would say ke bas college jaana chod do and ghar bhaith ke mera bacha mera ghar sambhlao did he ever? Nope.. Infact if you Notice it was adi "QUESTIONING" her about her day off too that why is she not ready and is she OK that she is talking about skipping school?

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Hallelujah🙇‍♂️🙇‍♂️

I was starting to judge my own judgement about what is it that am not seeing.. you have verbalized what I felt but couldn't place it out beautiful ❤

idk how it is being treated like adi is ordering imlie and treating her as a lesser person and like she is their maid when he casually added on ke haan theek hai after their own talk was done and as I think lodestar or sandy mentioned the fact that didi is envious about this very fact that they are able to work through that adi trusts her so much to talk about anything with her.. so much word at bold as it is ..they have never let their own differences come in way to hurt any soul till now and they will not aage bhi..the kid has done nothing they have established that.. with imlie assuring him.that there is noway she will ever hate the kid for what happened they have established that confidence and faith yet again not like it wasn't there but he was unsure about what to expect before that part as in regards to Imlie's hurt and reaction..and to prevent her now he knows that they are on same page again it is about that understanding about being an equal partner.. about sharing the zimmedari and burden..where does it says that only one has to deal with percussions and problems? Isn't that the base of any relationship being able to walk as an equal?

If he has to do everything on his own alone than what is the difference between him and imlie and him and super dependable psycho rapist?

Wohi toh.....agar Adi ne akele rehkar hi sab karna hai toh phir it's like three disparate lives diverging rather than proving the point that Adi-Imlie are meant to become a unit in EVERY scenario. M devised this pregnancy to tear Adi-Imlie apart and expected that Adi would gravitate to her for the baby's sake. Instead, Adi-Imlie have managed to find a whole other balance of their own where they are able to seperate their personal issues from the concern for the child and focus as a unit on caring for that child instead. Adi se akele nahin manage ho raha tha given the psycho he's dealing with and waise bhi gharelu maamle defeat him😆. So Imlie stepped in per her own capacity jaise bhi and again, if Adi asks her a question - it's as per his general way of talking.....I toh didn't hear him say anything about tumne responsibility li bacche ki aur sambhala nahin blah blah......so why is that the interpretation taken from this scene?😕

Again, mujhe toh bas yehi sense aaya ki Adi-Imlie are managing to find their sync even regarding this baby and M apni hi so called pregnancy mein irrelevant banti jaa rahi hai.....along with already being irrelevant to Adi😆.......He's still only busy thinking about Imlie, his job, the baby.....in more or less that order.....lol baaki sab token hain.