Most fans are young kids, who dont understand the difference between real and reel life.
I was and am an Arjun Bijlani fan. During MJHT, I was one of the normal fangirls with loads of FB pages and groups.
When ARjun was getting married, these pages were flooded with messages from young girls asking me to contact Arjun and ask him to marry RAti instead of his GF, cause the fangirls thought Arjun rAti looked good together.
I tried to make a few of them understand the difference between reel and real, but gave up as lost cases. Didnt even bother replying to other messages once I saw the content.
So, jasfa fans are similar.
I havent come across any demeaning posts for jasfa, so I can only assume that fatejo fans are more mature.