Kuch pal sukoon ke - Page 3

And a few other random thoughts about where we currently are.....

a) The story is totally focused on the baby from every angle.....every character in the story only talks about M as a carrier of the child and nothing more.

b) All this talk of "legal" and "illegal" wife seems moot to me.....no one in T house is considering M any kind of wife - legal or illegal. They are only talking about her in terms of the kid.

Adi-Imlie are also not considering that to be a factor in any of this.....they talk about their own marriage ke issues aapas mein, not on whether Malini ka legal status is a factor for their future.....lol

c) The story isn't going to touch on the long term aspects of M's stay in T house yet - everyone is more fixated on the immediate concern for the baby since uski Maa ko khud nahin padi hai.....lol

And I think this is deliberate.....cuz everyone knows that Adi will never consider her his wife, so she is hanging around like an imposition and no one wants to poke the bear. If they actually bring it to a head, Adi will clearly tell M then also that she can live in the house however she wants to but wife toh nahin banegi woh😆. But right now they want to still keep building up the angle of M neglecting the baby so long term questions are not being addressed yet.

d) M thinks she can drive Adilie apart by never letting them start their life as husband-wife in that house.....lol but woh dono mahaan aatmaayein toh alag alag corners mein rehkar bhi ek dusre ko hi husband wife maanenge.....Malini is the one who ultimately won't be able to bear living in that house without getting Adi ki wife ka darjaa.

e) No one is going to discuss the divorce in the current circumstances and I think that has more to do with how they are scared of M's psychotic episodes and hyperness about everything.....no one is giving her the regard ki baccha paida kar rahi hai toh rehne do legal wife on paper.....no, I don't think that's really it.....they are just avoiding giving her any ammo to throw hysterical fits.

But yeah if M tries to use the legal wife card to demand that Adi play husband to her, tab isko mil jaayega saaf saaf jawaab😆......the Adi who didn't even accept that he is her husband for the purpose of a random fake pooja, woh kahin baahar bhi nahin accept karega even if she tries to coerce him. Waise bhi he's publicly declared Imlie his wife everywhere so dunno what M thinks she can extract from him on that front either.

He will max only agree to the title of bacche ka pitaa....but M doesn't even care about that.....lol so sadti rahegi ki wife ka darjaa abhi bhi nahin milaa.

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

I doesn’t feel anything wrong in Adhi saying I am not been able to happy that I am going to a father.

This sentence have multiple layers I think. He just upset the way baby have come into picture , that is a constant remainder of his mistakes he believes to be done to imlie. Even if 1000 times imlie says she considers him as nirdosh he may not been able to forgive himself even he doesn’t have any knowledge of what had happened that night. And yes he can connect to child & be happy to be a father when it’s mother is imlie.

This all facts have conveyed by that sentence & imlie got right him that he again dwindling between her & his responsibility. Actually this dialogue was most need of the time. Apart from a plain sentence I think that sentence have more meaning.

@bold: Yes, I also agree with this. The line about pita hone ki khushi nahin manaa sakte was essentially him acknowledging that the circumstances of the way this baby came about will always be traumatizing for him and he will never be able to feel like an actual would be father would for a regular baby. He can't be expected to totally turn away from the baby given that he has been made to believe the baby is his....but he is still struggling to connect with the child given the situation, so he's feeling confused about what he's supposed to feel.

That is what he is struggling with....the constant self-loathing about being a "gira hua pati" who ended up giving "dhoka" to Imlie whatever the events of that night were and then now having this baby to deal with that he can't really feel happy about either.....toh dono taraf se woh bante huye hone ki feeling hi hai.....and he's sharing it all candidly with Imlie rather than trying to be like haan sab theek hai - I'm ok with how everything is happening. No, he's not.....he's feeling tormented and confused and it's good that he shared that with Imlie. Once again, Imlie is understanding him in a circumstance no one else would.....she has the capacity to find compassion for him in this situation despite her own hurt and anger.....that is why their relationship is special.

I feel like we saw two sides of Adi in this episode.....the date showed that he's yearning to want to make it up to Imlie for causing her all this hurt so he's trying in small small ways cuz overall situation feels too complicated to him to figure out a solution.....then in the later scene, we saw an Adi openly talking about his dilemma and self-loathing about this situation ki har kisi ke saath nainsaafi hi kar raha hai somehow - he isn't being able to do right by Imlie and not being able to feel connected to the child fully either.

I don't know if Malini is capable of course correcting her baccha related plotting after showing everyone so openly that she doesn't care about the baby.....I suppose she is still counting on Aparna ki blind support....lol but I don't think she's seeing that Aparna isn't supporting her as fiercely as she used to before....sab kuch bas bacche se related hi bol rahi hai Aparna bhi.

Rupi so openly calling out Malini ki two-facedness in front of everyone did feel like a very telling moment.....but then jaate huye Nishu was still like, "Take care, Malini"🤔😆.....so dunno if Rupi will continue to call out Malini aage bhi ya phir bas aaj ek scene ki baat thi.

I also found it very telling ki Adi is literally standing in the back of the room and as far away from M as possible anytime they are all crowded around her to show concern😆.....the man literally wants to shrink into himself at this point kaise bhi karke jitna door reh sake is psycho aurat se but feels compelled to hang around cuz of worry over the baby's health.

They are all very clearly treating her like a VESSEL carrying the baby and they are trying to protect/show concern for the vessel since the baby is inside it.....lol.....but Malini isn't seeing that is all she is to them now.....usko bas seva karvaake lagta hai uski importance ho gayi.....what a loser.....lol

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

imlie was totally in normal naraaz biwi zone ke kitna fikar karta hai meri also i do think her happiness was also to see him being his normal slef around his mother kidding around throwing a tantrrum regarding food.. she was just ahppy seeing him ok the next morning in his element i assume and on top of that she was tocuhed by his conern for her and again his desie to make their date real by dropping her t college for real.. i guess must ahve been the deja vu of the imagienry date.. now i know i know am just extrapolating more but she just seemed amused by the thought ke waise main naaraz hoon and he knows that too but he still is makign effort matlab i think that was it ke he is still keepign the effort going to make her happy to manao her by doing the husband wala regular things requesting maa for her dabbaa and dropping her to college she was just melting over the fact ke he is beign such a caring hubby for her

LOL arey yeh extrapolation nahin hai....this is exactly what she was amused and touched by😆. Ki despite the complicated situation they are in and him knowing ki Imlie is overall still naaraaz with him, phir bhi isko Imlie ke tiffin and Imlie ko college drop karne ki chinta hai😆.....and it's not just to make Imlie happy - yeh khud kahaan reh sakta hai Imlie ki fikar kiye binaa? It's hard wired into his nature now😆

And phir wohi funny irony bhi ho gayi ki Imlie ke tiffin ki fikar mein apna khud ka tiffin bhool gaya😆.....or maybe he dumped it cuz it was tasteless ubla hua khaana being forced on him just like a certain tasteless someone is also being forced onto him😆

Imlie ab us zone mein aa gayi hai where she can see Adi is feeling overwhelmed by the situation toh yeh phir se khud pe hi legi to find a way out.....wohi sense hai na ki she can feel his love for her in these small small gestures jo ki woh dikhaave ke liye nahin karta, uske mann se aate hain naturally.....so how can she help but love him when his love for her is so obviously pure?

Vishwaas ka matter parallel mein resolve hota rahega jaise bhi....but woh pyar toh apne aap se express hota rahega in small or big ways......there is an inevitability to their love that prevails in the face of any storm.....lol itna sab hone ke baad bhi they can feel this kind of simple affection for each other over small things - toh kya hilaa paayenge evil logon ke iraade.

TGIF!!! Finally 🙆.

Work has been a b*tch with constant travel & non stop work to meet the deadline😡.

Absolutely hate it when clients prepone deadline for some kind of their own submission😡.

Anyways doesn't look like I missed much other than 1 day in Imlie universe wherein the pooja & date happened with no hosh of din ya raat😆. I will catch it up tomorrow after a well deserved sleep in😎.

But it is absolutely hilarious how Rapist Bojhini (naamkaran courtesy AY😆) & her Amma Bojhini Sr. were trying to prevent Adi-Imlie from going to one single date as if it was equivalent to Thanos decimating half the universe with a snap of infinity gauntlet🤣. Matlab kuch bhi😛.

I think the only result of this entire week was to give some clarity to Adi-Imlie's thoughts about the situation ie. baccha & their relationship.

Also giving a heart attack to viewers by making it seem Rapist Bojhini is really pregnant on Monday to now once again her faking the pregnancy on Friday🤪. Yeh log aise hi pendulum ki tarah iss baat ko ghumate rahenge😆.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

TGIF!!! Finally 🙆.

Work has been a b*tch with constant travel & non stop work to meet the deadline😡.

Absolutely hate it when clients prepone deadline for some kind of their own submission😡.

Anyways doesn't look like I missed much other than 1 day in Imlie universe wherein the pooja & date happened with no hosh of din ya raat😆. I will catch it up tomorrow after a well deserved sleep in😎.

But it is absolutely hilarious how Rapist Bojhini (naamkaran courtesy AY😆) & her Amma Bojhini Sr. were trying to prevent Adi-Imlie from going to one single date as if it was equivalent to Thanos decimating half the universe with a snap of infinity gauntlet🤣. Matlab kuch bhi😛.

I think the only result of this entire week was to give some clarity to Adi-Imlie's thoughts about the situation ie. baccha & their relationship.

Also giving a heart attack to viewers by making it seem Rapist Bojhini is really pregnant on Monday to now once again her faking the pregnancy on Friday🤪. Yeh log aise hi pendulum ki tarah iss baat ko ghumate rahenge😆.

@bold: LMAO at the Thanos parallel🤣.....So true, man....itna OTT tamasha simply to stop ONE date like Adilie getting ONE date is the end of the world😕😆.....jitna big deal M was making out of it, she should have then sat and cried for 10 days over this date happening....but all she did was resume her usual beached whale impression by laying on the bed like a dead weight😕😆. Pathetic aurat.

Sorry to hear about your work trouble....chalo good you're finally getting a break :) Haha you absolutely didn't miss out on much.....things hardly move in Imlie-land these days and yeah only this Friday epi had some noteworthy convos.....baaki is uploaded on the drive if you want to watch relevant snippets.

LOL@ the week starting on all of us being convinced the baby is real and then now again doubting it based on this Friday epi.....lol makers are clearly enjoying keeping the ambiguity going and kheechenge jab tak kheenchna hai.....phir hum bhi chikne ghade bante rahenge that we'll stop caring about real or fake after a point😆....

Anyways, for now they seem to be moving towards some lighter scenes....precap mein bhi it's more of regular Imlie creating a positive atmosphere in the house....puraani Imlie ki yaad aayi especially seeing Aparna-Radha also no longer making hateful faces at Imlie and smiling over her antics again😆

M se nahin bardaasht hona yeh ki Imlie has managed to become the cause for light and positivity in the house again and Aparna/Radha are gravitating back to her over that😆...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I don't know if Malini is capable of course correcting her baccha related plotting after showing everyone so openly that she doesn't care about the baby.....I suppose she is still counting on Aparna ki blind support....lol but I don't think she's seeing that Aparna isn't supporting her as fiercely as she used to before....sab kuch bas bacche se related hi bol rahi hai Aparna bhi.

Rupi so openly calling out Malini ki two-facedness in front of everyone did feel like a very telling moment.....but then jaate huye Nishu was still like, "Take care, Malini"🤔😆.....so dunno if Rupi will continue to call out Malini aage bhi ya phir bas aaj ek scene ki baat thi.

I also found it very telling ki Adi is literally standing in the back of the room and as far away from M as possible anytime they are all crowded around her to show concern😆.....the man literally wants to shrink into himself at this point kaise bhi karke jitna door reh sake is psycho aurat se but feels compelled to hang around cuz of worry over the baby's health.

They are all very clearly treating her like a VESSEL carrying the baby and they are trying to protect/show concern for the vessel since the baby is inside it.....lol.....but Malini isn't seeing that is all she is to them now.....usko bas seva karvaake lagta hai uski importance ho gayi.....what a loser.....lol

Hahah nishu ka take care malini was just uska token do shabd today since he was audience and just caz he had nothing else to day I didn't think it was ca he was concerned.. that felt more like out of habit courtesies while leaving the room like everyone else but adi still not having kuch bhi except Goodnight and didi ji lifting her 20 kilo ka sar at tbat in shock ke yeh to ainvayein nikal gaya bina wve looking at her either so much for her naatak God knows what she was expecting ke raat bhar iske sirhane bhaith ke paoon dabaye ga 🤷‍♀️ but he didn't even lift his head up to see ..

He indeed is hidden behind people and it is intresting ke see peeche khada hota hai and first mauka milte hi bhaag leta hai imlie is the one who still takes more intrest in bacha related things too and aage khadi hoti hai while he just kinda gets hidden and camouflaged by rest of junta and is always like in am I needed here zone

Again seva bhi kya lmao she was being so badtameez to rupi not only caz her lie was caught but otherwise too and it was so enraging to see everyone just watching and not even telling her to token shut up and how dare her speak like that to didi who is age main bhi badi and rishte main bhi and was pyar se hi calling her for checkup.. but I do think it may play a role later to all aahista aahista ke kuch toh gadbad hai daya

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: LMAO at the Thanos parallel🤣.....So true, man....itna OTT tamasha simply to stop ONE date like Adilie getting ONE date is the end of the world😕😆.....jitna big deal M was making out of it, she should have then sat and cried for 10 days over this date happening....but all she did was resume her usual beached whale impression by laying on the bed like a dead weight😕😆. Pathetic aurat.

Sorry to hear about your work trouble....chalo good you're finally getting a break :) Haha you absolutely didn't miss out on much.....things hardly move in Imlie-land these days and yeah only this Friday epi had some noteworthy convos.....baaki is uploaded on the drive if you want to watch relevant snippets.

LOL@ the week starting on all of us being convinced the baby is real and then now again doubting it based on this Friday epi.....lol makers are clearly enjoying keeping the ambiguity going and kheechenge jab tak kheenchna hai.....phir hum bhi chikne ghade bante rahenge that we'll stop caring about real or fake after a point😆....

Anyways, for now they seem to be moving towards some lighter scenes....precap mein bhi it's more of regular Imlie creating a positive atmosphere in the house....puraani Imlie ki yaad aayi especially seeing Aparna-Radha also no longer making hateful faces at Imlie and smiling over her antics again😆

M se nahin bardaasht hona yeh ki Imlie has managed to become the cause for light and positivity in the house again and Aparna/Radha are gravitating back to her over that😆...

No seriously the way Rapist Bojhini & Bojhini Sr. were making the most ridiculous excuses to prevent the date was lol🤣. I am looking forward to watch their Oscar level acting....maybe this week's break might finally make me tolerate them😆.

I think Rapist Bojhini & Bojhini Sr. as villains are the main problem of the show. Because we could have appreciated all the emotional turmoil that Adi-Imlie are going through far more if the villains were not so low IQ. Their stupidity makes it difficult to digest that Adi or anyone else actually believes their flimsy excuses🤔. Their threat level is seriously in the negative but everyone in the story has to be dumbed down for their plans to work. So the overall story becomes topsy turvy🤓.

I will not believe the baby is real until I see it being born😆. The fact that Rapist Bojhini actually raped Adi & conceived a child about whom she doesn't even give a damn is too heartbreaking for me👎🏼. The child would forever be used as a pawn if it actually comes into the world & I would never wish any child to have the misfortune of having Rapist Bojhini as a mother. The child would be traumatised from birth. Makers will keep this mystery going as long as they can drag it, we should practice meditation to jhelo their mood swings😆.

Hopefully they do move the story towards something light with Imlie as usual being the source of all the happiness. Rapist Bojhini can lie in bed all day like a beached whale ise koi ghaas nahi dalne wala except for worrying about the baby. She has been relegated as the baby incubator by everyone. She is already out of control over one Adi-Imlie date, she will not be able to tolerate Imlie getting any kind of happiness. Her true colours will be more visible to everyone to the point that they cannot ignore it. Yeh khud hi apna pardafash karegi tabhi hi everyone will actually believe it.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Again seva bhi kya lmao she was being so badtameez to rupi not only caz her lie was caught but otherwise too and it was so enraging to see everyone just watching and not even telling her to token shut up and how dare her speak like that to didi who is age main bhi badi and rishte main bhi and was pyar se hi calling her for checkup.. but I do think it may play a role later to all aahista aahista ke kuch toh gadbad hai daya

LOL kin logon se expectation kar rahi hai tu to stand up for Rupi? These people never even stood up for Rupi when AC was talking shit about her....toh Malini toh phir bhi inki eyes mein Devi hai🤢....uske muh se koi bhi gaali/badtameezi bhi T slaves ko prasad hi lagta hai.

Anyways like Rupi gives a shit😆.....she doesn't have any expectation from her family about taking a stand for her isliye toh she clear cut said ki mujhe pata tha aap log mujhe hi dosh denge and you never see kisi aur ki galti even when Malini is avoiding her own check ups in a pregnancy.....Malini ko sab allowed hai - apne se badon se badtameezi karna bhi cuz ale le, "bechaari beemaar hone waale bacche ki Maa"🤪....matlab they must have used the word BEEMARI like TEN times in this scene and bas yehi rinse/repeat chalta hai ki beemari-rest, beemari-rest......ghar na hua hospital banaa diya Bemaarini Bojhini ne.....

Mujhe toh ab rage aana bhi kaafi hadh tak kam ho gaya hai.....like her badtameezi is a constant now and it's not like any of the Ts will ever stand up for themselves toh hum bhi apna outrage kyun waste karein😆....it's more like I'm just BORED having to hear the same rinse/repeated convos about how many beemaaris this ghatiya aurat has🥱😆

Rupi looked chirpy in the precap also toh Imlie ka jo bhi plan hoga to make Malini rest at home, usmein mazey le lenge Rupi-Imlie milkar again I guess....lol maybe the purpose of showing Rupi calling out M's neglect of the baby so clearly will end up showing her team up with Imlie more directly to gather proofs also about the plotting M is doing....let's see....waise toh makers like to keep Imlie solo on her missions only.....lol

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: LMAO at the Thanos parallel🤣.....So true, man....itna OTT tamasha simply to stop ONE date like Adilie getting ONE date is the end of the world😕😆.....jitna big deal M was making out of it, she should have then sat and cried for 10 days over this date happening....but all she did was resume her usual beached whale impression by laying on the bed like a dead weight😕😆. Pathetic aurat.

Sorry to hear about your work trouble....chalo good you're finally getting a break :) Haha you absolutely didn't miss out on much.....things hardly move in Imlie-land these days and yeah only this Friday epi had some noteworthy convos.....baaki is uploaded on the drive if you want to watch relevant snippets.

LOL@ the week starting on all of us being convinced the baby is real and then now again doubting it based on this Friday epi.....lol makers are clearly enjoying keeping the ambiguity going and kheechenge jab tak kheenchna hai.....phir hum bhi chikne ghade bante rahenge that we'll stop caring about real or fake after a point😆....

Anyways, for now they seem to be moving towards some lighter scenes....precap mein bhi it's more of regular Imlie creating a positive atmosphere in the house....puraani Imlie ki yaad aayi especially seeing Aparna-Radha also no longer making hateful faces at Imlie and smiling over her antics again😆

M se nahin bardaasht hona yeh ki Imlie has managed to become the cause for light and positivity in the house again and Aparna/Radha are gravitating back to her over that😆...

Areyaar.. if it’s ok would u mind sharing this drive with only Adilie clips ?