Originally posted by: Palak2812
Aajkal ITV saas have gone better.
On Sitara itself Suman is the only bad saas.
All the other mil are goals.
If Suman is grey atleast they should make Raavi have some self respect and protect herself from insults bcoz no one else will help her.
I wanted to reply in the morning but didn't because It may turn out long and have a bit too much analysis.
When we see someone behaving a certain way from childhood we get used to their behaviour.many get a pass for using harsh words because they are termed as good from the heart or because they don't actually mean the words or people around her respect her too much to think bad about her or question her intentions.
From what I have inferred after watching the show is pandya family is pretty used to namecalling and beatings.suman, gombi and dhara must have disciplined the kids with beatings time and again.slapping by elders is something that is not considered as something to make a big deal about in this family.
Suman also slapped shiva and Krish when she came to know about their prank, she was upset with dhara not because she raised her hand on them but because she beat them with a stick miserably enough to cause marks.
Raavi has grown up watching this family.she has grown up seeing suman namecalling and taunting dhara and she has seen dhara care for her and respect her tirelessly never the less.
She is following the footsteps of dhara.we see a flick of resistance in her sometimes but that's all we will get.
Shiva casually mentions that he will reveal the alimony thing to suman and she will taunt her and make her life hell to stop her from struggling.it was supposed to be a comic scene, I laughed at that scene.but if we dwell deeper, that's very problematic.raavi was close to tears and panicking when the anaar fell down.dhara could not utter a full sentence in the haveli without stuttering in front of suman when she wanted to reveal the batwara truth.the fear the children have for their mother or mother in law is not healthy.
Sadly it's itv and as long as you add a comedy bgm and not the dhoom ta na or vampish music, the character is not wrong.đ€·
For me suman is a grey character who is very inconsistent.i just appreciate her when she gets good scenes and take her taunting self with a pinch of salt.
Edited by Pixiepadhi - 3 years ago