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Posted: 4 years ago

Devi is behaving so hypocritical in the Precap. She's the one who was harping how Sai did good by leaving the house and in Precap she's Crying how they're made for each other. Lol

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Posted: 4 years ago
She has let Virat down many times . She was bearable today . She wanted people to focus on Sai instead of making it Sai vs Virat
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Devi is behaving so hypocritical in the Precap. She's the one who was harping how Sai did good by leaving the house and in Precap she's Crying how they're made for each other. Lol

Excatly . If she knew something bad is gonna happen then why didn’t she inform the family ? Man everyone is sounding like a hypocrite . It’s like she changes her version depending on the situation. If she eas fit and fine then she would go around jumping saying Sai win now Sai met an accident it’s a bad omen . Man I can’t with this character.
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Posted: 4 years ago

Makers should stop showing stopping transfer as a heroic act. I'm so tired of hearing Sai did great by stopping transfer. The more they're making Sai some Devi, the more I am hating her

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Makers should stop showing stopping transfer as a heroic act. I'm so tired of hearing Sai did great by stopping transfer. The more they're making Sai some Devi, the more I am hating her

My husband is in state Bank. When my daughter is three year old he took transfer to a remote area as field manager . He has to help village people get aware of loans and other provisions provided by SBI. He liked that and took it as a challenge to reach the target. I could not accompany him since I am working as lecturer ..I asked him whether he could rethink about his transfer,he said no. I can’t even think of preventing his transfer though I also am familiar with his higher officials.


He worked two years there and after that he got promotion and a lot of incentives.

No sane person will allow the spouse to meddle in his career..that is my opinion. I never support what Sai did. She took undue liberty that also after claiming no love for the man.

I feel so bad for Virat. My heart broke for him.. these tweets are result of my pain and anguish over his state.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

My husband is in state Bank. When my daughter is three year old he took transfer to a remote area as field manager . He has to help village people get aware of loans and other provisions provided by SBI. He liked that and took it as a challenge to reach the target. I could not accompany him since I am working as lecturer ..I asked him whether he could rethink about his transfer,he said no. I can’t even think of preventing his transfer though I also am familiar with his higher officials.


He worked two years there and after that he got promotion and a lot of incentives.

No sane person will allow the spouse to meddle in his career..that is my opinion. I never support what Sai did. She took undue liberty that also after claiming no love for the man.

I feel so bad for Virat. My heart broke for him.. these tweets are result of my pain and anguish over his state.

Well said Lakshmi. What Sai did was not something to be proud of but the way they ate showing in the serial as if she made a such sacrifice is so wrong . One cannot meddle with spouse career . Let’s say there was a role reversal , if Virat had meddled in her career then it would be termed as domestic abuse but when it’s other way around it’s treated as some big achievement. The problem is with the makers .
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Posted: 4 years ago

I feel terrible for the way Virat is treated by the family . I am frustrated with the makers for not giving him dialogues .

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Posted: 4 years ago

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Well said Lakshmi. What Sai did was not something to be proud of but the way they ate showing in the serial as if she made a such sacrifice is so wrong . One cannot meddle with spouse career . Let’s say there was a role reversal , if Virat had meddled in her career then it would be termed as domestic abuse but when it’s other way around it’s treated as some big achievement. The problem is with the makers .

Nitu,

It has become a trend to support only FL and bash ML without reason.

Are these people ok if Virat meddles in her career decisions ? Then they will gang up against him.

Pseudo feminists all around.

Sonakshi era is past. Sai Joshi era is present but

Mindset of people remained the same. I wonder why!

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Nitu,

It has become a trend to support only FL and bash ML without reason.

Are these people ok if Virat meddles in her career decisions ? Then they will gang up against him.

Pseudo feminists all around.

Sonakshi era is past. Sai Joshi era is present but

Mindset of people remained the same. I wonder why!

The problem is with the way it’s presented in the show . If the makers themselves are not calling it out then the audiences will not analyze the wrong message that is sent across


These serials are made for women mostly for lower and middle class women who want to watch their dreams being fulfilled through these characters . Generally in our society , women are oppressed and most want to see women being the super women doing everything right and being called perfect . Just like how movies are made for men serials to fulfill their fantasies serials are made for women .


Now coming to online audiences, it’s not a straightforward thing here . The love for the character is based on so many things not just characterization. The actor playing the role and his online activities , his personal life equations and his equation with previous show co stars make a huge impact. The love for Sai Joshi and Sonakshi got from the pseudo feminist was mostly because of the dislike for the actor playing ML . Shaheer was at the radar back then for his involvement with Indonesian projects and his association with Ayu ting ting . The disappointment Soumya fans felt for sinking their ship was shown on Shaheer . For Virat , it’s because of his personal life and his association with the actress who is paying a vamp and her real life personality. I am telling you if Neil was single or married before the show the situation would be different. That’s one part of it but again even online audiences think they are very intellectual and they want to view everything with a tinted pseudo feminist glass to make them look themselves as progressive .


Then there a small portion of online audiences who lack brains and blindly follow all the controversial theory haters come up with and then they team up with them to bash the characters. Sometimes though they don’t feel it they just nod their heads to stay in good books of these online friends .


It’s a sin to expect fair treatment for ML and being those in the minority group is a curse because we need to face disappointments in every track

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