MHRW Episode Discussionk Thread # 71 - Page 67

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Yep therapy is beyond the scope of itv, otherwise I would advocate for Pallavi to put him in one. How long can one deal with a drunk husband 🤪

vaise last whole week he was sober and taking care of Pallavi. They have had many good days after marriage too where he’s not been drunk.

it’s just his extremely unhealthy coping mechanism- this time he got drunk because he realised 3 showrooms are tanking and felt bad that he had to fire his employees. So an issue was there. Just like before marriage. It’s all the same.

Pals is helping , I am glad.

Else trust mhrw to never touch upon significant things. I have a long list of complains.

Also, alcohol…ewww

I think the reason these things are accentuated after the marriage is because he used to be alone all those years, working like a machine, and his activities didn't have a direct impact on others. No one observed him in close quarters either. Farhad did but only up to a point. In a short time, his life has been turned upside down and his long-established equilibrium is off now. He tries to be strong through it but he's clearly overwhelmed. We make jokes about the speed at which the show is going but it must be even more hectic in Raghav's life where he doesn't get a breather for a single day.

Also the week when he was taking care of Pallavi, we don't see if he had an occasional drink or not but no he wasn't drunk. Why? Because his heart and mind were refocused on her and her health. The moment the issue with the employees came up, he was back to square one.

I also think it's unfair for society to expect spouses or even parents to be 100% responsible to fix an adult person's issues all the time, so I hate it when ITV shows have such themes! 😡 The person himself or herself has to first acknowledge that there is an issue and then try as well. Again, this is why external counseling/therapy is helpful because you go see an unbiased professional who can keep his or her emotions out of the discussions and identify the problems objectively.

Ugh... pipe dream, getting therapy tracks on this show.

Originally posted by: Amnnaa

I am not a fan of KK. So I never felt the need to watch that movie.

Please don't stop loving me Sama because of this😭😭😭

Just watch the said scene 🤣

Originally posted by: inlieu

Did I say that alcoholism was good? I have always talked about moderation for him in terms of his habits (drinking alcohol or otherwise), and her in terms of her approach.

I just want to see a balanced approach and I want him to stop drinking or reduce his drinking because he himself realizes that it's not going to do him any good when his youth is no longer on his side and not because people have to use scare tactics or twist his arm. Is that too much to ask?

Hmm.

I do agree that some of Pallavi's measures are a bit too extreme. But the thing about alcohol and other such substances is that it is usually pretty hard for the person using them to realise that they need to stop. In that case an external influence is needed. Although the external influence should be a professional and not a family member. Where Pallavi comes in is probably to convince him to go meet a professional.

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

Because i am a good friend. Hence i am preparing you for the future.

Abhi toh Esha Didi aayi hai. Abhi toh bahut sunne milega yeh flashbacks main 😂😂

Nhi I am watching only RaghVi babies now 😳

I can’t bear another bad actor after the two we already have 🥱

Originally posted by: Mysterie_girl

Just watch the said scene 🤣

Okay I will 👍🏼

Sama, I am going to watch that scene only for you. So now please don't disown me 🥺

Originally posted by: Inese_20

I watched it galti se 🤢

How can you even do such a big mistake Parul. I didn't expect this from you.

Originally posted by: Amnnaa

I am not a fan of KK. So I never felt the need to watch that movie.

Please don't stop loving me Sama because of this😭😭😭

Ofcourse not. How can i not love you!!

But just to increase that a bit please watch Jab We Met. 😳

Originally posted by: fria319

I bet we'll get SR night over meaningful conversations at this point. 🤣 Thats how much I lack confidence in the writers to show that.

They kind of had one during her recovery? But the idea of tackle years old trauma - LOL the writers would have to actually try harder to write the correct dialogue and that's not going to happen on a show where they're only 4-5 days ahead of air schedule.

It's a shame because they put a lot of effort to build his back story in and show us every facet of his suffering. They baked the replica room scene in early in the show because they always meant to address it and today it worked like a charm. But what's the point if they don't close the loop on this track, which has a potential to do well if written the right way.?

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Nhi I am watching only RaghVi babies now 😳

I can’t bear another bad actor after the two we already have 🥱

Aaj kya dekha????

Apne Just Raghvi world main

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think the reason these things are accentuated after the marriage is because he used to be alone all those years, working like a machine, and his activities didn't have a direct impact on others. No one observed him in close quarters either. Farhad did but only up to a point. In a short time, his life has been turned upside down and his long-established equilibrium is off now. He tries to be strong through it but he's clearly overwhelmed. We make jokes about the speed at which the show is going but it must be even more hectic in Raghav's life where he doesn't get a breather for a single day.

Also the week when he was taking care of Pallavi, we don't see if he had an occasional drink or not but no he wasn't drunk. Why? Because his heart and mind were refocused on her and her health. The moment the issue with the employees came up, he was back to square one.

I also think it's unfair for society to expect spouses or even parents to be 100% responsible to fix an adult person's issues all the time, so I hate it when ITV shows have such themes! 😡 The person himself or herself has to first acknowledge that there is an issue and then try as well. Again, this is why external counseling/therapy is helpful because you go see an unbiased professional who can keep his or her emotions out of the discussions and identify the problems objectively.

Ugh... pipe dream, getting therapy tracks on this show.

I don’t really think it’s been accentuated after marriage. He was always seen with a whiskey(40% alcohol) glass in his hand. We just get the drunk scenes more now because they need to show it 😌😌

Also agree that a person needs to realise themselves but I don’t trust Ragahv enough for that and anyway, family won’t ever stop helping. Therapies are more successful when familial support is there, this is also a fact.

Also almost all psychiatric issues (alcoholism included) - a married person shows better prognosis. So I am glad he has pals to look upto.

she is an absolute sweetheart anyway 😳