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Originally posted by: Smiley3262017

Me too, KV also should do something then people will understand.. KV’s aunt or Deba’s mom , they might not even understand what the post they might have thought something about their kids and liked a post , not all elders are in SM for a long time , even though KV is in industry for long he didn’t get this kind of exposure so his aunt might not have realized what shippers are doing..

Who will tag parents in shipping 🤦‍♀️

Whenever you join an industry where you are the centre of attention, you need to learn to deal with pressure from fans, work, etc. A support system should be in place. Mixing your personal and professional events on social media makes it public hence people not seeing the barriers.

If you value your privacy, do not put it in the public domain.

Originally posted by: black.snowflake

Backlashes toh are there atleast on twitter.

But i honestly felt something pushed her off the edge. And with Barun and Sanaya, SM was not so toxic back then..there was no twitter, hardly any IG. Here the point is that people targeted her mother! Who knows what they said?

Yes, you are right, she will have to deal with the fallout of some fans. But i think this will also pass. If people can forget a certain actress for insulting fans on sm and having a boycott trend against her and still be in a show without tending a public apology, this was still self defense.

About advice, dont know , because she was way too emotional and broke down after. Maybe even advice would not have worked because of her emotional state. As you said, she is new and inexperienced.

That is why one should never respond when in anger/distress. Always take time to calm down, breathe, sit, reflect and the same content would come out differently.

Originally posted by: black.snowflake

Backlashes toh are there atleast on twitter.

But i honestly felt something pushed her off the edge. And with Barun and Sanaya, SM was not so toxic back then..there was no twitter, hardly any IG. Here the point is that people targeted her mother! Who knows what they said?

Yes, you are right, she will have to deal with the fallout of some fans. But i think this will also pass. If people can forget a certain actress for insulting fans on sm and having a boycott trend against her and still be in a show without tending a public apology, this was still self defense.

About advice, dont know , because she was way too emotional and broke down after. Maybe even advice would not have worked because of her emotional state. As you said, she is new and inexperienced.

She is yet to learn a lot of things about showbiz. Eventually she will.

Originally posted by: kiranpri

Whenever you join an industry where you are the centre of attention, you need to learn to deal with pressure from fans, work, etc. A support system should be in place. Mixing your personal and professional events on social media makes it public hence people not seeing the barriers.

If you value your privacy, do not put it in the public domain.

But people get judged for that too. It turns into a game of 'hiding your life/reality' and ends up with questioning the character of the person. I guess there is no winning with some 'fans'.🤪

But i did get your point on the attention and pressure dynamic and how people dont see the barrier.

The world envies living the celebrity life, looking at all this, i wold never wish to.

Originally posted by: kiranpri

Whenever you join an industry where you are the centre of attention, you need to learn to deal with pressure from fans, work, etc. A support system should be in place. Mixing your personal and professional events on social media makes it public hence people not seeing the barriers.

If you value your privacy, do not put it in the public domain.

As she venting out her anger was goid atleast she mi8 have managed to set boundaries but again she has to explain herself.Thats why SM is so toxic.😡

Originally posted by: black.snowflake

Honestly, nothing is above your mental health and self respect. If she chooses not to do this, no one can say its wrong or foolish or anything.This is what obsessive shipping and toxic obsession leads you to, you end up destroying what was once beautiful and what you loved (i.e. shakhi)

Exactly, no one can force her into anything. If she chooses not to work together, it will entirely be her choice. But what I think , if she does that she will give more fuels to the toxic so called fans.

Originally posted by: Dumpling

100% you need to be mindful of putting your personal life on SM when you are a celebrity .Because people are... very judgemental.and they can assume a lot of things from what you post on SM and make an assumption about you your character....and a lot of things.Although you know assumption made by followers are not true n it hurts then better keep your near n dear ones away from SM.or else be thick skinned to take it as it comes.✌

As she venting out her anger was goid atleast she mi8 have managed to set boundaries but again she has to explain herself.Thats why SM is so toxic.😡

Originally posted by: Shakhi.devir

aaj jab se deba live ai hai her instagram followers are decreasing....are fans unfollowing deba???plz any one reply?

Originally posted by: Dumpling

are dont worry true fans will stay .

They can think about keeping different SM for work and personal life stuff.....I think fans said something about her outing with guy friends.....I feel even new generation are also like saas bahu drama aunties.....seriously....are we going backward in time....🤢

No wonder certain ITV drama's are top on trp charts....🤪