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The issue here is not that WE I.e. myself or Latha or @fatssrilanka want Anuj for Sai. Anuj is only for Anupama and TBH I don't think Bhavna will butcher his character because she has V to butcher. Also we don't want Anuj on this show. DKP will treat him very well and not sideline him so he can stay there.

We are just saying that people want another guy for Sai BECAUSE Anupama got Anuj. People are busy comparing Virat to Vanraaj and to Fateh. Virat is NOT Vanraaj and neither is he Fateh. I just don't understand why he is always compared to these two.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I too find this statement very wierd. Don't we come across such people in real life too? This is not just limited to spouses but sometimes our friends or collegues too can be poles apart. It doesn't mean we leave our jobs or friends. Both me and my husband are aleo poles apart. But, it doesn't mean I would break my relationship with him and move on with someone else. Over the years I have learnt to accept him with his flaws. This is so ridiculous. Just because right now Virat and Sai are going through a rough patch doesn't mean Sai should divorce him.

Emotional affair ya cheating, domestic violence ka jo blame lagta hai virat unhe Anupama dekhna chaiye pata chal jaye kya hota emotional affair coz vanraj is desperately want to have with Anupama currently as he is used to have anu & kavya both from 9 yrs , so currently badly haressing & mentally torturing Anupama .

Originally posted by: Stardust91

The issue here is not that WE I.e. myself or Latha or @fatssrilanka want Anuj for Sai. Anuj is only for Anupama and TBH I don't think Bhavna will butcher his character because she has V to butcher. Also we don't want Anuj on this show. DKP will treat him very well and not sideline him so he can stay there.

We are just saying that people want another guy for Sai BECAUSE Anupama got Anuj. People are busy comparing Virat to Vanraaj and to Fateh. Virat is NOT Vanraaj and neither is he Fateh. I just don't understand why he is always compared to these two.

Kyunki unke acc Virat is in love with pakhi isliye vo usse compare karte hai vanraj or fateh se.

They think virat is only physical interested in sai as she is denying him so he is chasing her .

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Kyunki unke acc Virat is in love with pakhi isliye vo usse compare karte hai vanraj or fateh se.

They think virat is only physical interested in sai as she is denying him so he is chasing her .

Bold : It's so wrong!! Except woh andhere mein kiss, he never wanted to kiss her without her consent. Even he said sorry after that holi wala Aashiqui kiss, though waha Sai bhi interested thi. Harini ke bday party, Mission se jaane wale, even Mahabaleshwar ke hotel room, saare scenes mein she was interested. How only he's interested in physical pleasure? Infact he never breaches the pillow wall aur jaise Sai ne kaha ki she prefers to sleep with a pillow wall on, he himself made one even when Sai was asleep. It's so wrong in many grounds to accuse him of being interested in Sai only in physical

For that andhere wala kiss miss, he should literally thank Pakhi for saving his life or else Sai would have been made a soup 🍲 out of him that night. 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I understand Latha and I second your statement. Only Virat could handle Sai and that may not be possible for even a perfectionist like your Anuj.

So I find it wierd when people wish to have an Anuj for Sai because the very second day he will chose to separate.

Barring that Sai and Virat both are not the type to find happiness somewhere else. When they love,they love till eternity.

My irritation is towards those who think it is too easy to break up and move on. Not at all simple. They should know it. They want Sai to remove Mangal sutr,ring and hand over divorce papers and then marry a replica of Anuj.

I don't have much attachment with fictional characters Lakshmi. I watch it if they are relatable or positive, I will continue till I can tolerate the drama. That's it. Kuch rang was the last show where I have invested myself emotionally. After that now recently started watching ghum because of Virat's character, now Anupama for Anuj's character. My tolerance level is too low when it comes to ITV OTT drama. So till it's relatable or positive, I will watch the show. After that TATA bye bye.😊

Originally posted by: LiveLife321

Relax Lakshmi... Go easy... 🤗

No one is perfect and perfection is a myth. Sai may have many good qualities in her but the way Virat tolerated her with extreme level of patience, no one can handle her. Whether it's Samrat or pulkit or Devi, they only saw the positive side of her because she was always polite towards them and never misbehaved like the way she did with Virat. Many are painting Virat like a demon now because he stopped babysitting her by tolerating all her tantrums and arrogance. She needs to grow up and stop belittling him and he needs to understand her insecurities wrt Pakhi, only then there is hope for their relationship or else this separation and coming together saga will go forever. Even though they both love each other, without trust and respect their love won't stay for so long. ❤️

Coming to Anuj, it's a newly introduced character with utmost perfection. Ofcourse who will not fall for that kind of guy. But it's ITV, it's impossible to not ruin such character for the sake of OTT drama. So till he is the way he is, it's impossible to not love that guy. Coming to Anuj and Sai pairing, other than Virat no one on this earth can tolerate Sai. Period. ❤️

That's the thing, before people say they want someone like Anuj for Sai, they need to realise that Anuj fell for Anupama because she is polite, kind, and sees the good in everyone. She is a typical ITV lead and it amazes me when people on SM say they want someone like Anuj for Sai. Then in the next moment say they don't like Anu aunty's bashan. It's like that's what Anuj likes so he won't really be able to handle Sai's rudeness, brashness, truths that she says but when stated back to her become "Oh Virat sir aapne mujhse aise kaise baat ki"...Haan behen aab tak tum toh unse bade pyaar se baat kar rahi thi..haina!

The family might be rude to her but has she ever tried to be kind regardless. Just because Kaku and Omi's nature is to be mean, Sai's nature is to be rude, stubborn. I am not saying she needs to be a doormat. I am saying she needs to be diplomatic. She can speak her mind but with a tad of diplomacy which sadly Kamal Joshu failed to instill into her.

So yes Sai, please go...go be independent, go be your own person and go be this rude, this arrogant, this brash and this "honest" in your new surroundings and in your new world. Let Virat spend some time alone and pick up the pieces.

How I wish this show wasn't a copy and there was a 4 year leap where Virat had withdrawn further into himself so people would realise being quiet and keeping it all in is in his nature. How I wish those 4 years happened and would change Sai and she would grow up and be more mature and learn tact and diplomacy. But alas....

Vanks needs to give Virat this song as the current BG: saach hai ke dil toh dhuka hai, humne magaar socha hai, dil ko.hai ghum kyun, aankh hai naam kyun hona hi that jo hua hai..uss baat ko jaane hi do jiska nishaan kal ho naa ho.

Then 4 years later...

How I wish this was an EK show....the responses the Balaji CVs would give.....

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Kyunki unke acc Virat is in love with pakhi isliye vo usse compare karte hai vanraj or fateh se.

They think virat is only physical interested in sai as she is denying him so he is chasing her .

He has said 3637383839392 times that he is NOT in love with Pakhi.

So according to people, he should also turn into an argumentative person who has nothing else to do but argue and fight at every opportunity? That is how he will be able to prove that he is worthy of Sai? So Sai won't be diplomatic or.polite for him, he has to stand up and fight for her every 5s because use toh ladne aur argue karne se fursaat nahin hai, haina?!!

I dont even understand this.

Nobody understands or tries to understand Virat.

The whole family is divided into three parts:

1. For Sai.

2. Against Sai.

3. Neutral.

Nobody gives a damn to Virat's feelings, not even his own parents. And not CVs😆

I made a mistake by watching a clip on insta

I know Sai is in pain. But at least she has people who think about her, cry for her. She has people who ask her what's wrong.

Virat is literally alone. He's going to understand his mistake and regret. For sure. But no one else is going to regret leaving him alone, or not trying to understand him🤔