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Badle me mujhe kya mila?

This is what Virat said and a storm has been created out of this statement. Posts are made claiming his love to be conditional.

So does unconditional love exist anywhere?

Yes in fiction. Not in reality.

A couple will have expectation from each other even in deal marriage,

Is Sai’s love unconditional? No. She wouldn’t have left the house if she loves him unconditionally. She would have chosen to hear his version before believing something else regarding Pakhi.

So why is Virat blamed for not having unconditional love?

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

No matter what the track is and who is at fault Virat is held responsible for it . Nothing new and most of the time they do this to protect their favorite character from being blamed . I am tired of reading expert analysis from Self proclaimed neutrals .

Anyway more than the blind fans I am more irritated with the makers . They are trying to show Virat as the culprit even when he is wronged . Few examples are

Virat questions Sai’s character then Virat is held responsible.Fair enough but when Sai repeatedly calls him two timer Virat is called out for ignoring Sai . It’s makers who are not being fair

The truth is the whole forum is pro Sai so whatever she does or says is always right,she has a heart of gold and she's a victim whereas Virat's heart is made of stone,he's characterless and he's the worst husband anyone can have. I'm sick and tired listening to these kind of dialogues.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Hypocrisy at the peak but no one will question Devyani and her husband because they are from Sai’s team .

Devyani is blaming Virat for not stopping Sai . She was the one who helped Sai leave without letting anyone know and her husband knew everything but he didn’t care to check on Sai’s well being . Why didn’t a Pulkit or Devyani inform the family instead of helping her leave without letting anyone know . Despite all this Virat is blamed for the accident . If Virat wants to give Sai the freedom to stay or leave then how can he be responsible for the accident which was an unfortunate event.

This is one thing I dislike about Sai and now even her supporters love washing dirty linen in public . Devyani is getting on my nerves these days . Too much screen space to this character .

Can the dialogue writer give some dialogues to Virat and I guess i can only dream of Virat showing mirror to these hypocrites . What’s with her friends stopping him . What do they know to comment on their relationship. What a mockery these makers have made . Anyway Virat is blamed unnecessarily so I feel Virat should use his power and teach these college students a lesson for creating nuisance in the hospital .

Exactly. I hate Devyani. If both Pulkit and Devyani support Sai it's fine since she was the one who helped them get married but wasn't Virat there with her? The moment he got to know he was innocent he went to his place to apologised and asked the family to stay away from Devyani's life.

What's wrong if Virat wants Sai to lead her own life? He's setting her free without keeping any grudge. If he sets her free then Virat is blamed, if he forces her to stay in this marraige then too he's blamed? Virat's love is unconditional and that's why he's letting her do what she wants.

And, Sai's friends have no right whatsoever to comment on their relationship. Who are they? And,who gave them permission to reprimand Virat from meeting Sai?

As I said before both Pulkit and Devyani are good for nothing. The less said the better.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Just saw the precap and I am irritated to the core seeing it . What’s with Samrat questioning Virat’s character again and again ? If Virat wanted to be happy with Samrat’s wife he wouldn’t have married Sai and would have had affair with his wife when he ran away like a coward . Now when he is back why will he send his wife away for someone else wife .

Are they mature enough to realize Sairat can have issues in their relationship and it’s not necessary that one of them is into EMA . I am sure there will be no dialogues given to Virat . Such a selfish bunch of people . Virat leave this place it’s not worth it . I am sure he can get police quarters and can live a peaceful life

Is Samrat truly Virat's cousin who grew up with him? How come he's only supporting Sai who he came know recently? Why can't he give him the benefit of doubt? Who's he to question Virat's character? I just hope Mihit and Sunny put some sense into Samrat. I want to see how he reacts when he comes to know what a big issue Sai made during the honeymoon trip ,what's the real reason Virat is hurt and why he's behaving rudely with her. But, I know the makers love Sai more than Virat so they'll make him apologise and there'll be no apology from Sai once again.

Please Virat,just leave this horrible place and family. They're not worth it.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Badle me mujhe kya mila?

This is what Virat said and a storm has been created out of this statement. Posts are made claiming his love to be conditional.

So does unconditional love exist anywhere?

Yes in fiction. Not in reality.

A couple will have expectation from each other even in deal marriage,

Is Sai’s love unconditional? No. She wouldn’t have left the house if she loves him unconditionally. She would have chosen to hear his version before believing something else regarding Pakhi.

So why is Virat blamed for not having unconditional love?

Well, you know only Sai has the right to complain about this and not Virat. If Sai had said the same thing the very same people would have applauded her and would have said things like she as the right to expect from him since he's her husband. Unconditional love don't exist anywhere. If Sai's love is unconditional why does she expect Virat to give her so much importance, expects him to explain his past and even expected him to stop her from leaving?

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

The truth is the whole forum is pro Sai so whatever she does or says is always right,she has a heart of gold and she's a victim whereas Virat's heart is made of stone,he's characterless and he's the worst husband anyone can have. I'm sick and tired listening to these kind of dialogues.

You know what....

Virat said he doesn't look back and moves on from his past. He said this to Sai..she may not remember or she may choose to ignore selectively as always but he said this when he was giving her the ring.

How I wish they wouldn't blindly copy KD. It's OK to show that sometimes a guy might meet 2 different girls and they are both not right for him and bring out his worst.

It's OK if Sai is also not the one for Virat. Let then separate, bring a new guy for Sai and fulfil that demand but also bring a new girl for Virat. Someone who loves him for himself and is not selfish and self absorbed like bhabhi OR stubborn, rude and obnoxious like Sai. Someone who he wants to be an even better person for.

It's OK if a guy meets 2 girls and neither are for him.

However, this is an ITV show and a scene to scene screenplay to screenplay copy of KD so let's forget this and get ready to listen to how Virat is the worst, how he mistreated Sai, how her feelings are everything and his feelings are nothing, how he is lucky that she so much as agreed to be around him and breathe the same air as him, how she is wronged and misunderstood and is never wrong.

You know..It will take a lot from me to ship SaiRat again...Vanks will have to give the best reunion ever and make sure that both characters have proper redemption...but no redemption will only be for Virat because Sai is always right.

Sorry guys but like Cheeku said the other day "mere andhar bhi bahut bhara para hai"

P.S. regardless of Kaira's mistakes I never stopped shipping them...because Bhavna made sure that Kaira both accepted their mistakes.I even shipped DevAkshi despite Dev irritating me so much before the leap and pre-Suhana. I secretly (not - so - secretly) ship RaghaVi. I always shipped ShivIka. They were ❤️.

However, it remains to be seen if I will ever ship SaiRat again because I am tired of the "Virat is an ass, he doesn't deserve Sai" narrative. Fine, he doesn't. He let her go. If this was a British, Canadian or American or Australian TV show, these characters would both get someone new. Alas, we will go round in a circle and they will end up together and we will get milan- judaai x 100 until the end.

SMH

Originally posted by: Stardust91

You know what....

Virat said he doesn't look back and moves on from his past. He said this to Sai..she may not remember or she may choose to ignore selectively as always but he said this when he was giving her the ring.

How I wish they wouldn't blindly copy KD. It's OK to show that sometimes a guy might meet 2 different girls and they are both not right for him and bring out his worst.

It's OK if Sai is also not the one for Virat. Let then separate, bring a new guy for Sai and fulfil that demand but also bring a new girl for Virat. Someone who loves him for himself and is not selfish and self absorbed like bhabhi OR stubborn, rude and obnoxious like Sai. Someone who he wants to be an even better person for.

It's OK if a guy meets 2 girls and neither are for him.

However, this is an ITV show and a scene to scene screenplay to screenplay copy of KD so let's forget this and get ready to listen to how Virat is the worst, how he mistreated Sai, how her feelings are everything and his feelings are nothing, how he is lucky that she so much as agreed to be around him and breathe the same air as him, how she is wronged and misunderstood and is never wrong.

You know..It will take a lot from me to ship SaiRat again...Vanks will have to give the best reunion ever and make sure that both characters have proper redemption...but no redemption will only be for Virat because Sai is always right.

Sorry guys but like Cheeku said the other day "mere andhar bhi bahut bhara para hai"

P.S. regardless of Kaira's mistakes I never stopped shipping them...because Bhavna made sure that Kaira both accepted their mistakes.I even shipped DevAkshi despite Dev irritating me so much before the leap and pre-Suhana. I secretly (not - so - secretly) ship RaghaVi. I always shipped ShivIka. They were ❤️.

However, it remains to be seen if I will ever ship SaiRat again because I am tired of the "Virat is an ass, he doesn't deserve Sai" narrative. Fine, he doesn't. He let her go. If this was a British, Canadian or American or Australian TV show, these characters would both get someone new. Alas, we will go round in a circle and they will end up together and we will get milan- judaai x 100 until the end.

SMH

Virat has told her million times that he doesn't choose to look back but Sai always remembers what she wants to and the rest she chooses to forget. It's not only Virat's words or actions but what she says and does. She likes to remember only those things in which she can belittle Virat and taunt him. And, that's why whenever she hurts him by his words or actions she conveniently forgets and doesn't aplogise and makes she that Virat doesn't forget his mistakes by reminding him over and over again and make him feel guilty. And,regarding redemption I replied to a post where I've mentioned that since Sai is always she won't need to apologise whereas Virat has done so many bad things that he will need to apologise. According to Sai he's a two timer,has been rude to her, locked her in the room but Sai the queen has not done a single thing. It's fine to shout at him for taking her for a honeymoon trip and blame him for an extra marital affair, stop his transfer and call him a two timer not once but million times. But, still she's flawless😡. If people want another man for Sai then Virat too should move on with another woman. Why should he live alone?

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Virat has told her million times that he doesn't choose to look back but Sai always remembers what she wants to and the rest she chooses to forget. It's not only Virat's words or actions but what she says and does. She likes to remember only those things in which she can belittle Virat and taunt him. And, that's why whenever she hurts him by his words or actions she conveniently forgets and doesn't aplogise and makes she that Virat doesn't forget his mistakes by reminding him over and over again and make him feel guilty. And,regarding redemption I replied to a post where I've mentioned that since Sai is always she won't need to apologise whereas Virat has done so many bad things that he will need to apologise. According to Sai he's a two timer,has been rude to her, locked her in the room but Sai the queen has not done a single thing. It's fine to shout at him for taking her for a honeymoon trip and blame him for an extra marital affair, stop his transfer and call him a two timer not once but million times. But, still she's flawless😡. If people want another man for Sai then Virat too should move on with another woman. Why should he live alone?

Exactly, I can make a whole list of Sai's mistakes but because this is ITV and because Sai is always right and Virat is always wrong only Virat's mistakes will be highlighted.

You are right - Sai only remembers what she wants and ignores everything else. Virat tells her 1000 times that there is nothing between him and bhabhi BUT still she refuses to believe until one day she repeats that statement back and then oh yes so she did HEAR him say that...if only she listened. Just an example.

And she insults Virat every step of the way, that he tolerated it and didn't say anything and indulged her has been conveniently forgotten. What you have stated about shouting at him, misunderstanding his surprise¡ telling him over and over and over every single day how "yeh shaadi bas ek deal hai...ek deal..." etc etc and telling him he isn't even worth her father's toenail and whatever else rubbish.

Toh agar yeh shaadi bas ek deal hai, agar he is nothing like Kamal Joshi, agar he is so bad then why is she sad to leave such a horrible person snd a deal wali shaadi. She should be happy. She shouldn't have cried. This was her freedom. But no...she wants to have her cake and eat it too.

A relationship is about 2 people. The guy that people want for Sai, because Anupama got Anuj, would that guy tolerate Sai's rudeness? Would he tolerate her interference in his career? Would he tolerate it if she got his sister married against the family's wish? If she accused him of EMA? Let Sai not change at all because she is a gem and perfection so why should she change, and let her see if any other guy would stand for her misbehaving like she does and then we will see....

It is only Virat who in his love put up with her rudeness and obnoxious ways. However, he doesn't deserve her. I can't even.

As for them wanting the equivalent of Anuj for Sai, then even Sai has to be like Anu aunty. That's all I will say...no point in elaborating because the writers and creative team are different but I brought this up because Anuj coming has been mentioned many times in numerous places.

P.S. Virat is NOT Vanraaj.

I don’t care if people chose not to ship Sairat or root for a new lead for Sai and Virat. I chose to eternally ship for Sairat as they are the reason for me to watch the show. I completely watched IPKKND and Kuch Rang because there were no new ML or FL that would break the lead pair. For me Sairat are made for each other .

They love each other so fiercely and with dedication.

It has been only one year since they got married and they have a long journey ahead. They will clear their MU s and unite together as per KD.

Like all Sairatians I am eagerly waiting for their union. It will be memorable,I am sure.

I don’t doubt Sai ‘s love for Virat. Ayeshu successfully portrayed that deep love which is spotless and implicit.

I never doubt Virat’s love either. For him,it is Sai or no one ever in life.

They both are strong in their love and that is why they will bounce back always and confess love for each other.

Finally the moment is fast approaching and I am looking forward to feel it with bated breath.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Exactly, I can make a whole list of Sai's mistakes but because this is ITV and because Sai is always right and Virat is always wrong only Virat's mistakes will be highlighted.

You are right - Sai only remembers what she wants and ignores everything else. Virat tells her 1000 times that there is nothing between him and bhabhi BUT still she refuses to believe until one day she repeats that statement back and then oh yes so she did HEAR him say that...if only she listened. Just an example.

And she insults Virat every step of the way, that he tolerated it and didn't say anything and indulged her has been conveniently forgotten. What you have stated about shouting at him, misunderstanding his surprise¡ telling him over and over and over every single day how "yeh shaadi bas ek deal hai...ek deal..." etc etc and telling him he isn't even worth her father's toenail and whatever else rubbish.

Toh agar yeh shaadi bas ek deal hai, agar he is nothing like Kamal Joshi, agar he is so bad then why is she sad to leave such a horrible person snd a deal wali shaadi. She should be happy. She shouldn't have cried. This was her freedom. But no...she wants to have her cake and eat it too.

A relationship is about 2 people. The guy that people want for Sai, because Anupama got Anuj, would that guy tolerate Sai's rudeness? Would he tolerate her interference in his career? Would he tolerate it if she got his sister married against the family's wish? If she accused him of EMA? Let Sai not change at all because she is a gem and perfection so why should she change, and let her see if any other guy would stand for her misbehaving like she does and then we will see....

It is only Virat who in his love put up with her rudeness and obnoxious ways. However, he doesn't deserve her. I can't even.

As for them wanting the equivalent of Anuj for Sai, then even Sai has to be like Anu aunty. That's all I will say...no point in elaborating because the writers and creative team are different but I brought this up because Anuj coming has been mentioned many times in numerous places.

P.S. Virat is NOT Vanraaj.

Anuj ko barbaad karna hai kya ? Big no I will not let sai anywhere Anuj. Pls spare him.