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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Anushka_31

I don't know how many of u will agree with me but I want to say this from a very long time

That why dhara and gautam always address their unborn baby as girl. I understand that they are wishing for a girl to be born but.... still If any how they address their baby as a boy then many people will come and rant about the gender discrimination.

But this is also a gender discrimination only.

Mtlb they are so desperate for a baby girl to born that I think if by any chances dhara will birth to a boy then probably they will not happy that much.

It hurts me like whenever I think ki agar future me dhara ek boy ko birth deti hai then. Maybe both dhara and gautam will not able to love that baby that much as they will love the girl.

Like agar koi kehde ki ' beta hoga' ya 'beta chaiye' to log gender equality ki baatein lekar aa jaate hai but agr koi kehde ki 'beti hogi' ya ' beti chaiye' to everyone will go like awww they r so sweet.

Similar thing is going on the 9.30 pm wala show udhar bhi everyone expecting a girl to be born. Like hr waqt they were like "chotti sister aayegi, meri beti ko kuch nhi hoga and all".

Mtlb unborn baby ka pehle se hi gender expect krke uske saath itne emotions kyu lgane hai instead of doing all this they can wish for the good health of that unborn.

According to me it's unfair ✌️

@bold : Finally someone pointed this out.

'Beti Chahiye' has as much discrimination in it as 'Beta Chahiye'.

And 2 wrongs never make a right.

This glorification needs to be stopped.

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Posted: 4 years ago

What if Shiva is actually riding the bicycle to bail out Krish from the police station and finds that Raavi had given the bike to Krish for drop off. Then they come home in Raavi’s bike together (Shiva and Krish). This is after Mami’s latest antics at the court of course.


This would be interesting as he would actually feel guilty for getting angry at Raavi outside court.


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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: sapphir



OmgOmgOMG!!!!!!!


Who is this???🤩 Where is this???😍 How amazing this???🤪😍🥳

This real??🤭


To whomsoever who posted that,

I AWARD U with ......

Besht_FF_without_Refrence

Besht_FF_with_logic

Besht_FF_from_fan (not pankha re, doosra vala)

Besht_FF_that_made_me_cry

(Mein itta roye,itnna roye , ke meri hassi(laugh) boli ke behen, "thodi saas toh lele". After all #so_emotional)


But....on a serious note, no one can probably write a better FF on today's episode, and make us laugh sooo much. Anddd thale fact that I got to read this be4 the nightmares of today's episode haunted me is just😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

Lv u, lv it

N soo glad I can sleep peacefully 🥺😍

its here as well. someone pointed out

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Anushka_31

I don't know how many of u will agree with me but I want to say this from a very long time

That why dhara and gautam always address their unborn baby as girl. I understand that they are wishing for a girl to be born but.... still If any how they address their baby as a boy then many people will come and rant about the gender discrimination.

But this is also a gender discrimination only.

Mtlb they are so desperate for a baby girl to born that I think if by any chances dhara will birth to a boy then probably they will not happy that much.

It hurts me like whenever I think ki agar future me dhara ek boy ko birth deti hai then. Maybe both dhara and gautam will not able to love that baby that much as they will love the girl.

Like agar koi kehde ki ' beta hoga' ya 'beta chaiye' to log gender equality ki baatein lekar aa jaate hai but agr koi kehde ki 'beti hogi' ya ' beti chaiye' to everyone will go like awww they r so sweet.

Similar thing is going on the 9.30 pm wala show udhar bhi everyone expecting a girl to be born. Like hr waqt they were like "chotti sister aayegi, meri beti ko kuch nhi hoga and all".

Mtlb unborn baby ka pehle se hi gender expect krke uske saath itne emotions kyu lgane hai instead of doing all this they can wish for the good health of that unborn.

According to me it's unfair ✌️

you know in ITV its always been highlighted that somehow Indian Parents already had a guess about the gender identity of the child…just to prepare the audience beforehand…so can’t complain there


now completely unrelated to your post and my personal rant… feel free to ignore…

my issue is suddenly every serial is promoting a girl child… I can understand the girl child movement and all… I am all for it but every single serial had this obsession to have a girl child … it’s becoming borderline annoying… very few male child are seen… and I am so bored that in my head I have imagined that whenever I get married I will have two baby boys (opinions can and will change when the situation comes) …it has nothing to do with girl child … its just I am bored seeing girl child everywhere on screen …

If I hurt anybody’s sentiments… I apologize and feel free to ignore my rant…

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Anushka_31

I don't know how many of u will agree with me but I want to say this from a very long time

That why dhara and gautam always address their unborn baby as girl. I understand that they are wishing for a girl to be born but.... still If any how they address their baby as a boy then many people will come and rant about the gender discrimination.

But this is also a gender discrimination only.

Mtlb they are so desperate for a baby girl to born that I think if by any chances dhara will birth to a boy then probably they will not happy that much.

It hurts me like whenever I think ki agar future me dhara ek boy ko birth deti hai then. Maybe both dhara and gautam will not able to love that baby that much as they will love the girl.

Like agar koi kehde ki ' beta hoga' ya 'beta chaiye' to log gender equality ki baatein lekar aa jaate hai but agr koi kehde ki 'beti hogi' ya ' beti chaiye' to everyone will go like awww they r so sweet.

Similar thing is going on the 9.30 pm wala show udhar bhi everyone expecting a girl to be born. Like hr waqt they were like "chotti sister aayegi, meri beti ko kuch nhi hoga and all".

Mtlb unborn baby ka pehle se hi gender expect krke uske saath itne emotions kyu lgane hai instead of doing all this they can wish for the good health of that unborn.

According to me it's unfair ✌️


Agree! Gender discrimination works both ways, whether we wish for a boy or wish for a girl. However, I don't know how the Pandyas will feel if a boy is born, so I won't say they are discriminating just yet.

Maybe they will feel equally happy. Their house has only sons so far, so that's why they're probably looking forward to a girl child now

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Makes sense maahi ❤️❤️

The content is not even worth trolling 😂😂


I think today we might get more content to troll..😆

yesterday was truly the second worst episode in PS history, after the danda kaand

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: seja

What if Shiva is actually riding the bicycle to bail out Krish from the police station and finds that Raavi had given the bike to Krish for drop off. Then they come home in Raavi’s bike together (Shiva and Krish). This is after Mami’s latest antics at the court of course.


This would be interesting as he would actually feel guilty for getting angry at Raavi outside court.



Shiva is merely angry at maami for demanding an unreasonable amount as alimony. If at all he's angry at Raavi there it might be because she is not speaking up against that. And in such a situation his anger is fair 🤷

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: sapphir

Alsooo not gudging anyone, or disrespecting any1

But PS writers. uhh.. female sports women ,athletes Legit play in their games on international level with a child in their womb

And They Ace IT!!!!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👑


, And give inspiration to soo many for not giving up and promote to the GenZ that having a child is not a hinderance to ur life

women with child in their belly, are learning freaking "handstand" in their 30's ,


And I know complications are a thing, a serious thing , but really for them to have Dora faint every 2 min. Is soo ...(just no words to describe this)

Get a life , or better yet , get a IG account 🤦🏻‍♀️


Damn I'm soo addicted to PS , I'm posting this @ 12:55

🤣🤣🤣

can I add one more to the list? in a generation where we are personally encouraging women for equality… higher studies… more presence in all fields … and more women ceo… saying that 30 is the age where she has a last chance to have a baby is downright offending… your education itself completes by 22 (if post grad or professional courses are done) and

in modern era, then you have to settle in your career then you may fall in love and enjoy some dating years and then get married .. some even get married around 30 and after marriage also nobody wants a child immediately…they want to enjoy and travel… (it’s totally subjective.. I just took one case)

These shows are watched by young impressionable girls too ..putting these narrow boundaries is forcing people to get married early without giving a thought about career… trust me I had a personal experience…

I have an elder sister she rushed and got married at the age of 28 to a guy she found on matrimonial site and barely known for a month.. and immediately tried for a child.. later on I asked her what was the rush and she replied she thought she can’t become a mother post 30 .. and I was like what? 😲

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese


Agree! Gender discrimination works both ways, whether we wish for a boy or wish for a girl. However, I don't know how the Pandyas will feel if a boy is born, so I won't say they are discriminating just yet.

Maybe they will feel equally happy. Their house has only sons so far, so that's why they're probably looking forward to a girl child now

But see if pandyas are having 4 girls instead of boys and then if someone is expecting a boy to be born because they have girls only so far in the family then also would u agree with them?

I tell u no one will agree everyone will like ki kya hogya agar pehle 4 girls hai or agar ek or aa jayegi why they are expecting a boy now it's so wrong who thinks like that in this generation. Girls kya kisi se km thodi hai they can also do this do that and bla bla bla.....

Who they are to expect. Whatever the gender of the child will there they shoul be happy .......


So this difference will never stop.

People still glorify the idea of expecting girl over boy.✌️

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