Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #72 ✨|Fighting For Us|✨ - Page 27

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Wallflowers

I don't know what to write about the episode and the precap🤪🤪

I am going to watch old episodes now. Saishi ka IV ayega tab I will come 🤪

Tab k liye byeee

🏃🏃🏃

Good morning 🌼

hum bhi rant hi kar rahe hain 😔

Come back later with good mood 🤗

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Wallflowers

I don't know what to write about the episode and the precap🤪🤪

I am going to watch old episodes now. Saishi ka IV ayega tab I will come 🤪

Tab tak k liye byeee

🏃🏃🏃


good morning jhanu🤗

have a good day'

bye👍🏼

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: fria319


I don't want her to forget. I want her to fight back. I don't want her to take any of this lightly and just accept it bc she knows he's angry and lashing out.


@bold : No I get that and I agree - but I just don't think these statements is enough to call it quits. Maybe I have a different opinion with how many times he's treated her like this bc I'm not counting pre marriage bc she already forgave him for that. Like I said in my other comments, marriage is not for the faint of heart. I don't want to get into it too much here bc this is Shivi's AT and I know everyone (including me) are hurting right now for her.


I'll just say this: People will disappoint you in life, people will hurt you deeply with their words. People will wound your self-respect. I just don't think that means the relationship is not salvageable. It means you fight back, you make that person see what they're doing to you - you make that person realize and atone for their actions. If they don't, and if you no longer love them like that - then that's a different story. I hope I'm making sense here. IMO its so rare to find love like that - why give up when things get tough?


I know I prob have the unpopular opinion here LOL (like always LOLOL). I hear all of what you guys are saying. I truly do. Maybe it's because I can't help but watch this show thru my own perspective in life. I can't separate real world logic and real world experiences from this show as much others I guess. Idk.


Fria I want her to fight back too but how many times have you see her give him back the entire shit she was dished out. Their Keerti fight was solved without a single conversation. So im not banking on it. The Hyderabad track was beautiful because communicated.


Also while I talked about self-respect, I obviously didn't mean she should leave the marriage. May be a break or sometime away from him to make him realise the shit he put her through.


I know that this commitment will need compromise but I want her to also stand for herself so she won't be dished this shit out again.


Why should R tell her to leave the house when she is his wife and has the right over it. Again, I agree it's about our perspective which is shaped due to our experiences so I rather her fight him equally than take his shit.


Sorry I wanted to give a better reply but I'm out of time.. let's pick this in the Raghvi AT sometime later. I'll tag u

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Posted: 4 years ago

I’m sorry for not well constructed sentences and typos

You’ll get what I mean as always I know , so it’s fine I guess 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: fria319


🤣 Exactly right! Like call husbands out on their cowardice. They'll run back with their tail between their two legs.


But obviously, what you said is also true - not everyone can speak like that. Despite me giving an example of that from my own family, not all the women in my own family can speak like that either. A lot are trapped in marriages where they are completely dependent on their husbands and thats why they're always scared of their husbands leaving them or kicking them out. And unfortunately more so back home, it's harder to go back to your parents bc "log kya kahenge". smh.

IKR i saw it too alot of ladies fearing their husband like they're their boss

Luckily my husband is really good and even he says stuff i give it back to him in full force and he loves it If don't give it back to him then he asks what's wrong with you 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago

Can aayi stay away please 🤔! I can’t tolerate her giving gyaan after Mandaar track, better bring back krishna or someone else

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

😲🤣.


Well TMI but when things get rough , my mom just ask my dad to pack up and stay at his office or his family’s place as they’re more important to him than us , depending on who’s the cause of that fight 🤣.


Well it happens in fight but she’s been made to feel that RR mansion isn’t her home for some time now , it’s a new marriage ( not to mention how hard it was ) , such things stings .


Siku must understand which things to take from SM and which to ignore .

Fans can ask why she’s staying but RR asking her to leave makes him jerk husband because he’s the one who first lied and broke promise and yet still showing such OTT reaction 🤷‍♀️ Instead of sitting down and talking it out .


@ your parents 🤣 @ your mom👏 👏


@stings: oh I 100% agree - it's downright vile what he's saying to her, esp knowing her background and family history. Another TMI - one time my cousin told my uncle, who has no children and treats us like his children (thus lectures us a lot), "we're not your kids" bc she was so fed up. At the end of the day, no matter how angry you are, there are some things you don't/can't/shouldn't say to certain people. This is one of them.


In the case of R+P - this is not something R should have said. it's not right at all. Thats why I don't want P to let it go or brush it under "he's angry right now, I signed up for this".


The only thing she signed up for is to get through it with him bc they're in a committed relationship. But it doesn't mean she should "take" or let go of anything he says. She has every right to call him out on his BS.


I agree on your points about Siku. Tbh the first couple of days RR was angry - I was like sure, what she's asking isn't necessarily easy for him so all the pent up anger he was building from dealing with her D fam, I think he let it out now. But now? Being perpetually drunk, not even willing to entertain her thoughts, now saying he regrets loving her, its too overkill. How can in one episode he say I don't want to hurt you, but then turn around a few hours later and say all of that? Like how out of control are they going to show him?


I'd rather him just be silently angry, then lash out like this. At least then she wouldn't have to hear this.

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Posted: 4 years ago

I've never seen my parents leaving house after a fight. Actually they hardly fight. But it happens with my bhai. Sometime he becomes ott & like main ja raha hoon nehi rehna mujhe inn zahil o k sath. My parents coolly say ja beta ja jee le apni zindagi. I've seen this drama 363523 time in my life.😆

Edited by SexyPotato - 4 years ago

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