Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #72 ✨|Fighting For Us|✨ - Page 25

Originally posted by: fria319

This is why I want her to give it back to him. At least let her have that satisfaction.

I've seen married couples in my own family and friends circles go through so much worse. The ones I've seen - both the husband and the wife spewing a lot of downright vile things to each other. And still they don't give up on each other. It's part of the commitment of marriage. Not all days are good and not all days are you speaking with respect, even in a fight. We may look on the outside (as I have done as a friend to the people in my life) and say "She should leave" but it's easy to walk away, much harder to hold on and make things work. People who are married and actually love each other can't untangle themselves from each other that easily no matter how much they insult one another.

So I guess that's why I'm not giving up on them as a couple. I guess I have a high tolerance for drama. I'd rather see her dish it out and give him a reality check than just leave him in the dust. idk. I'm prob in the minority here LOL. as always 🤣

fria, i get it what you say.. like i said i felt very weird when i saw many who cant even stand each other still living together and i got that answer once i got married.. once we crossed the line, its no turning back so yeah walking away is so easy but remain is so difficult.. she could have gone to kholapur but she stayed then he itself freed her but she chosed to stay, even now she is staying with him so that she can get him back on the track.. Without fight can we get everything peacefully?? No.. its going to be hell ride but needs to be done so lets see how he is coming from his ozone layer😔 and next week i am going to sit with handkercheif because they both going to make us cry😭😭

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Fria, I get everything you're saying. If you remember when she was thrown out of D house, she never forgot it. I hope him saying this to her, she doesn't forget either. It's easy to point out that she was thrown by D house when the very next day he makes the same shitty comment.

Fria, I'm a very practical person and that's why I feel for P today. She was questioned about conditions and acceptance in marriage where I see that she's the one who has to make more adjustments. Love and all is ek jagah but when he keeps treating you like this, it's not worth putting your self-respect at stake.

I was talking to Sonia yesterday that I understand his insanity because she's going to be hurt but I dont understand why she's going to be emotionally shut to him. Now I know. She won't forget he asked her to leave him. After all tall claims of marriage, it all had to boil down to this. Sigh.

I don't want her to forget. I want her to fight back. I don't want her to take any of this lightly and just accept it bc she knows he's angry and lashing out.

@bold : No I get that and I agree - but I just don't think these statements is enough to call it quits. Maybe I have a different opinion with how many times he's treated her like this bc I'm not counting pre marriage bc she already forgave him for that. Like I said in my other comments, marriage is not for the faint of heart. I don't want to get into it too much here bc this is Shivi's AT and I know everyone (including me) are hurting right now for her.

I'll just say this: People will disappoint you in life, people will hurt you deeply with their words. People will wound your self-respect. I just don't think that means the relationship is not salvageable. It means you fight back, you make that person see what they're doing to you - you make that person realize and atone for their actions. If they don't, and if you no longer love them like that - then that's a different story. I hope I'm making sense here. IMO its so rare to find love like that - why give up when things get tough?

I know I prob have the unpopular opinion here LOL (like always LOLOL). I hear all of what you guys are saying. I truly do. Maybe it's because I can't help but watch this show thru my own perspective in life. I can't separate real world logic and real world experiences from this show as much others I guess. Idk.

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

Saddest part of this show is - pallavi really doesn't have a 'ghar'. Kabhi sanki toh kabhi raghav or amma easily bahar nikal deti hai.

TBH Adu this is the thing bothering me the most 😭😭

I am really mad and sad today 😡😡

Sidhesh ka bhi kya bharosa woh bhi bol dega ba ab shaadi ho gayi hai toh apne pati ke ghar jao 😭😭😭

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

I know Gayu 😭😭It happens every where and it happens due to fake male ego 😡😡

I won't take that shit you know here in US we own 50% of the property. We work hard too so yeah give me my 50% i will leave happily😈😈

But in India it's very hard without financial stability 😒

completely agree neelu, here its totally different.. In india not only financial and society taunt is there😡 now its getting little better but still not like here.. so yeah go out - is favorite word of most men.. they are dwelled and glorified with pride and ego for centuries now 😔..

Originally posted by: PSharada

Please tell me I don't have to see Sunkee romancing on Ishq wala love. Today for the first time I did not forward the episode because there was no Sunkee.

still they made entry with 4000 watts smile, taunted and smiled at raghvi for their condition😡 on breakfast table🤬

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

No wonder she said it’s RR’s house in yesterday’s episode. Isn’t hers anyways.

Siku doesn’t love her to show her independent , she’s just there to push tracks and do romance. When ppl ask him to show struggles she faced as widow he says I don’t wanna show sad FL , but he can show such things 🤪 and won’t even make her independent.

RR ko dikhaye then they'll like why always raghav na dikhaye toh they'll cry over screen space. When it's about pallavi as per people's own convenience they brought majority minority, itv female lead, glorification argument. This doesn't applicable for the lord.

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

completely agree neelu, here its totally different.. In india not only financial and society taunt is there😡 now its getting little better but still not like here.. so yeah go out - is favorite word of most men.. they are dwelled and glorified with pride and ego for centuries now 😔..

If it makes you guys feel any better, this is probably TMI, but I come a family where the husbands say "I'll leave, stay with your kids" and the wives are like "ok, sure go ahead and leave, who's stopping you".

And then the husbands go mute. 😉

So you can see where I get this natural instinct to fight back 🤣

I'm not Indian but desi nonetheless. The issue is really the ego and patriarchal culture we all come from. It enables men to think they have the final say in who stays in "their" house. Like how dare you kick me out of my own home (I hope Pallavi says this).

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Sakshi, pls don't compare them with that couple. I really wish she loses her patience and lashes out at Raghav.

My mom has always told me to make relationships work (not just marriage any relationship), it is important that one person is more accommodating (not all the times but most times one person accommodates more). It's nothing wrong, just that this person is strong enough to value the relationship more. In reality I'm a non confrontational person so I'm the one who generally accommodates more so I don't mind Pallavi doing that here BUT the more I see him being a jerk to Pallavi, the more I don't want her to let this slide. It's not worth it at all. Itna shit nai lene ka...

She needs to walk out of Raghav's house.

I’m not comparing them , Pallavi is courageous than Sharda to actually have guts and walk out if she wants to , and Raghav does love her , Vijay toh ...never did it.

They’re not VD and Sharda but right now they look like that 🤪. Pathetic writing I tell ya.

But He has been behaving in this manner for a long time; in Hyderabad, he asked Pallavi not to speak about his family affairs when it came to Kween; he was inconsiderate in the accident track , made decision to turn himself in and went ahead with it without telling Pallavi , he simply wants things to go his way in Rao family matters, rarely listening to Pallavi's point of view or having discussions with her .

I know sometimes one accommodates more than other but RR always making decisions himself on matters that affect both of them and remaining adamant on it until something crucial happens isn’t cool at all.

@b - she does ! But will she I doubt , because makers don’t want to do that , they make Pallavi doormat as per their convenience

Originally posted by: Radiant_Eyes_

I’m not comparing them , Pallavi is courageous than Sharda to actually have guts and walk out if she wants to , and Raghav does love her , Vijay toh ...never did it.

They’re not VD and Sharda but right now they look like that 🤪. Pathetic writing I tell ya.

But He has been behaving in this manner for a long time; in Hyderabad, he asked Pallavi not to speak about his family affairs when it came to Kween; he was inconsiderate in the accident track , made decision to turn himself in and went ahead with it without telling Pallavi , he simply wants things to go his way in Rao family matters, rarely listening to Pallavi's point of view or having discussions with her .

I know sometimes one accommodates more than other but RR always making decisions himself on matters that affect both of them and remaining adamant on it until something crucial happens isn’t cool at all.

Totally agree sakshi.

He can't treat her as a third party when it comes to matters of his family. He's been doing that about tbe keerti matter since the start. Never treat her as a partner. She was so hesitant to tlak to him about K before ber wedding. This was during the rishta episode.

Yes he makes decisions for them and expects her to blindly follow. Writing aaj meko laga they aren't trying to get to the root cause. Kafi superficial tareke se handle kar rahe hai. Dialogues are pretty weak too. Pallavi should call him out on it. I think I'm waiting for her lava to burst on Raghav coz ab bahut ho raha hai.

Originally posted by: PSharada

Definitely once Pallavi wakes up, I really want her to take Raghav's class. He can't be talking like this and telling a sorry and hoping things to come back to normal. He has hurt Pallavi a lot - first by hiding the truth, then by being defensive, by fighting with her, by emotionally hurting her. I want to see how they redeem Raghav and they better give a bigger redemption than the Hyderabad track.

Yes I want a bigger redemption.