Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #95|Bhabhi Maa's Adbhut Pregnancy - Page 50

Originally posted by: mpks1

Who said 3 cannot go in a bike?😆

That bike is coming for Gaumbi😆 If Raavi felt anything she would have brought it for Shiva, but today she is very clear in her thoughts, finally though that she doesn't want to mend the relationship and she doesn't want him to leave her yet again in the future. So you can keep dreaming the bike belongs to Shiva but it's not happening😆

I am totally put out with ravis thoughts now..ok..I understand she has given up hope regarding their marrg..maybe she is scared Shiva will never get out of his insecurity and no matter how much she says it doesn't matter he will push her away.. asking her to leave him anytime..

but why isn't she trying to talk to him now. I won't say she never tried..she tried a lot before mandir kaandh..but after that both of them didn't.. and she was like she couldn't understand him..she wished she understood. She felt she was a failure for not understanding shiva.

Then if she was having this much guilt abt not understanding him,why is she not making efforts to understand him Now..😕..

Shiva is calm and soft now .she could give a little try ..maybe some good might come out of it..befr mandir kaandh Shiva was burning with hurt and inferiority complex. That time he was not in a mood to converse and hence her talks regarding adjustments and compromises backfired...she meant it for both of them..but he took it considering she will be compromising her life for him..

But now he will understand her..he has changed now..he understands ravi much more than anyone in that house...but how can she leave it like that..

And I am totally clueless abt her feelings..why can't makers give her one dialogue abt what she feels for shiva..and it's not her feelings forher marrg with shiva that we wants right now.. her feelings for him..does she like him?..what does she like abt him..why and when she started liking him if she likes hi .or if she doesn't have any feelings for him..give her one dialogue that says she can't love shiva as of now..she has faced enough hurt due dev that she is scared of such feelings...

Thank you for the LU

So the episode clears that Raavi isn't being dobi she clearly doesn't have any romantic feelings for shiva . I am not yet sure if there will be a change if Shiva breaks the ice and apologies ? Is it possible that she is angry and hurt and doesn't want to feel anything ?

While Shiva is way ahead in what he feels for Raavi . It would be humiliating again if he changes his wardrobe because clearly NO One around him understands the way his heat and heart feels right now - none from family , not Raavi . So it's quite possible that he will be made fun of by Raavi and Krish and be laughed away by Dev and Gombi . Dhara maa can only cry so I am not counting her. If Rishita is not upset at dev or dhara ( chances of which are minimal given the job kaand and choodi kaand ) , she might be nice .- no guarantee there too . All these reactions will only and only reinforce his insecurity .

Loved loved what raavi said

I just this version of raavi ❤️

Rest of the episode🤣

Rishita got a new job of a stylist I guess🤣

Kinshuk you cutie

Shiny was good too today (ab lag Rahi hoon Apsara ) 🤣

Originally posted by: frnd_ship

Raavi baar baar kehti h ki usko thi napasand problem thi uski smell se dressing style se

Toh Shiva galat kahan ye manne main. Ki abhi bhi woh yahi sochti h feelings toh uski badli h Raavi ki thodi

But didn't Raavi has cleared several times that she doesn't have problem with smell ?

As Raavi said Shiva is weak and he cannot fight for her and their relationship i think Shiva will end up fighting for their relationship and Raavi in court .. may be lawyer will question her character in court and he will not tolerate it..

About Raavi and her feelings i think at this point she is deeply hurt .. we cannot expect her to devolop feelings for Shiva or try to work on her marriage at this moment as Shiva in the one who ended this relationship.. she does not know about his feelings and his actions have made her believe that he does not want her in his life..

Originally posted by: deeps07

I am totally put out with ravis thoughts now..ok..I understand she has given up hope regarding their marrg..maybe she is scared Shiva will never get out of his insecurity and no matter how much she says it doesn't matter he will push her away.. asking her to leave him anytime..

but why isn't she trying to talk to him now. I won't say she never tried..she tried a lot before mandir kaandh..but after that both of them didn't.. and she was like she couldn't understand him..she wished she understood. She felt she was a failure for not understanding shiva.

Then if she was having this much guilt abt not understanding him,why is she not making efforts to understand him Now..😕..

Shiva is calm and soft now .she could give a little try ..maybe some good might come out of it..befr mandir kaandh Shiva was burning with hurt and inferiority complex. That time he was not in a mood to converse and hence her talks regarding adjustments and compromises backfired...she meant it for both of them..but he took it considering she will be compromising her life for him..

But now he will understand her..he has changed now..he understands ravi much more than anyone in that house...but how can she leave it like that..

And I am totally clueless abt her feelings..why can't makers give her one dialogue abt what she feels for shiva..and it's not her feelings forher marrg with shiva that we wants right now.. her feelings for him..does she like him?..what does she like abt him..why and when she started liking him if she likes hi .or if she doesn't have any feelings for him..give her one dialogue that says she can't love shiva as of now..she has faced enough hurt due dev that she is scared of such feelings...

@bold: Raavi does not have any romantic feelings for Shiva as a person. She just treated him as someone she knew from childhood to whom she got married. She tried to adjust and compromise with him to make her marriage work, but it failed. So now she just wants out.

This is what I gathered from today's episode 😆

Originally posted by: deeps07

I am totally put out with ravis thoughts now..ok..I understand she has given up hope regarding their marrg..maybe she is scared Shiva will never get out of his insecurity and no matter how much she says it doesn't matter he will push her away.. asking her to leave him anytime..

but why isn't she trying to talk to him now. I won't say she never tried..she tried a lot before mandir kaandh..but after that both of them didn't.. and she was like she couldn't understand him..she wished she understood. She felt she was a failure for not understanding shiva.

Then if she was having this much guilt abt not understanding him,why is she not making efforts to understand him Now..😕..

Shiva is calm and soft now .she could give a little try ..maybe some good might come out of it..befr mandir kaandh Shiva was burning with hurt and inferiority complex. That time he was not in a mood to converse and hence her talks regarding adjustments and compromises backfired...she meant it for both of them..but he took it considering she will be compromising her life for him..

But now he will understand her..he has changed now..he understands ravi much more than anyone in that house...but how can she leave it like that..

And I am totally clueless abt her feelings..why can't makers give her one dialogue abt what she feels for shiva..and it's not her feelings forher marrg with shiva that we wants right now.. her feelings for him..does she like him?..what does she like abt him..why and when she started liking him if she likes hi .or if she doesn't have any feelings for him..give her one dialogue that says she can't love shiva as of now..she has faced enough hurt due dev that she is scared of such feelings...

Deeps, like you I really want her to talk to him, now that he is calm and follows Gautam's advice that if you don't have nice things to say then don't talk but I am sure he will listen to what Raavi has to say this time, if she said the exact same thing she said to Dhara today. She doesn't understand him at all. She is holding on to adjustments and compromise , 2 things that you should not start a relationship with.

So just like how she thinks that his insecurities and inferiority complex, him being weak is ruining everything between them, Shiva has every right to think that she need not adjust or compromise for him and hence did what we all saw. I am sure adjustments and compromise turned him off😕

As we never get any clear monologue from Raavi, one thing I could conclude today is that she is definitely not in love with him and I am not sure about the like part also. I got a feeling that she is indifferent now.

Originally posted by: deeps07

And I am totally clueless abt her feelings..why can't makers give her one dialogue abt what she feels for shiva..and it's not her feelings forher marrg with shiva that we wants right now.. her feelings for him..does she like him?..what does she like abt him..why and when she started liking him if she likes hi .or if she doesn't have any feelings for him..give her one dialogue that says she can't love shiva as of now..she has faced enough hurt due dev that she is scared of such feelings...

Writers have never taken Raavi as a character seriously.

Except for very few times she has talked about what she thinks and wants.

Now when they should tell us what she thinks writers ko interest he nahi hain in telling us.

Idk when the heck they will make us hear her POV.

I too think shiva will breakdown again..

And maybe this time ravi will begin to understand him..that his insecurity was becz he liked her .not becz he hated her..

So harbingers of doom are only harbingers of doom ..they r not coming to show reality to ravi.😡

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

@bold: Raavi does not have any romantic feelings for Shiva as a person. She just treated him as someone she knew from childhood to whom she got married. She tried to adjust and compromise with him to make her marriage work, but it failed. So now she just wants out.

This is what I gathered from today's episode 😆

I honestly think Raavi needs Shiva himself to express his thoughts to her. No Rishita, no Bhaabhi maa.

There is a parallel

Even when she misunderstood him during the kidnap fiasco and everyone still sang his praises, she did not trust him until he cleared it out for her explicitly saying that he will never leave her. She also witnessed his actions to support his claim when he protected her.

I think for this divorce MU to end. She needs to confront him, He clearly needs to tell her that likes her and thats why he's insecure. She knows his issues but she doesnt know that he thinks he's not worthy of her.

I think once that "Main tumhare layak nahi hoon." "Tu mere aukaat se bahar hai" "Faraq padtha hai" dialouges come, we will see some progression. With a sprinkle of standing up for her character will seal the deal.

Knowing the pandya family- assuming that this type of confrontation will happen in the court.