Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #94 Baingan Kaand - Page 83

Originally posted by: hedwig_potter

I wanna take part in this andolan of yours😭

We should do something about it. It is just getting annoying to see what they are showing with pregnancy and mood swings. Do they think the moms who have experienced it are all some sort of psycho. I was not, didn’t have the privilege to do any of the things Dhara is doing now😕

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Dhara Raavi scene where she says napa tula khana banao taaki baasi na bane is relatable. I have heard it many times from MIL and Mom too. If wver the food is more, they say this- kyun banati itna saara? Jitna khaana ho utna banao. Khana waste nahi karna. Hum to nahin banate itna zyada.

So I found that on par with reality.

🖤

I also liked Raavi's response to this that men can also eat the left over food and both men and women are equal. She had good dialogues here

Originally posted by: deeps07

Can u guys believe I cried watching bhabhi ma cry when ravi made kheer before hand...I dnt even knw why I cried..was it for watching this nonsense ..I knw it was not for bhabhima anyways🤪🤪🤪..this pregnant dhara is making me cuckoo too..

Hare Dhara hypnotising you 🤣

Originally posted by: mpks1

Raavi’s love, care is all reserved for BhabiMa. Shiva has no place in her life at this time. That’s exactly what yje writers want to show. BhabiMa’s mood swings are more important than Raavi’s feeling at this time 😕

Ikr 🤔 Rest of the episode, Raavi made sense. Keeping aside Shiva, she understands Dhara and relationships. But its almost like since Raavi got the spotlight during janmashtmi, they need to compensate with Dhara

I still can't believe I enjoyed Dhara's face glow comedy more 🤪

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Dhara Raavi scene where she says napa tula khana banao taaki baasi na bane is relatable. I have heard it many times from MIL and Mom too. If wver the food is more, they say this- kyun banati itna saara? Jitna khaana ho utna banao. Khana waste nahi karna. Hum to nahin banate itna zyada.

So I found that on par with reality.

🖤

Maahi, I cook every single day, have allergy issues for each one of my kids, fresh food it is for them. But I cannot make exact quantity everyday, there is little bit left over which my husband and I share the next day. It is very difficult to make exactly what is needed for a family of 8 like Pandya parivar. So I won’t chide Raavi for that. All along Dhara was making the food, Raavi only helped her with cutting, cleaning and all the other sundry work. Raavi needs time to adjust now that she is doing all of it. She will learn eventually.

I also agree with what Raavi said about leftovers being shared amongst everyone not just the ladies.

Originally posted by: Shadow_kira

Ikr 🤔 Rest of the episode, Raavi made sense. Keeping aside Shiva, she understands Dhara and relationships. But its almost like since Raavi got the spotlight during janmashtmi, they need to compensate with Dhara

I still can't believe I enjoyed Dhara's face glow comedy more 🤪

Lol true more than annoying I found Dhara super funny today...I laughed so much😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

We should do something about it. It is just getting annoying to see what they are showing with pregnancy and mood swings. Do they think the moms who have experienced it are all some sort of psycho. I was not, didn’t have the privilege to do any of the things Dhara os doing now😕

And what's with showing this crap for the whole episode..ok..one scene of psycho mood swings I will adjust..but today the whole episode was dhara and her mood swings..it has been so prominent that I feel her moodswings has become a living character in the show..🤪🤪..shiney was in vacation..and a whole episode abt murjaaya face ,masala dabbas, happy slash sad slash happy slash sad feelings. 🤪🤪..why didnwe even get shivi scene today. I could have skipped the whole episode then.

Appreciation post for Gautam

Gautam saw Dhara in front of mirror and touching her face, in the morning. He researched on stuff that would ease her worry.

1) He is attentive to her in a very soft and gentle manner.

2) He tries to ease her worries in his own way.

Men like him r actually quite a treasure. Ignoring his stints with his brothers, Gaumbi has always been an exceptional husband. He supports her. He trusts her. Her forgives her mistakes and lunacy. He pays attention to her minute actions and he tries to help her out in his own way. Ten years of this should have eased all of Dhara’s worries. But instead we r shown insecurity and trust issues. Her worries doesn’t make any sense. Mood swings I would have given her a doubt chit but this is just too much.

Originally posted by: mpks1

We should do something about it. It is just getting annoying to see what they are showing with pregnancy and mood swings. Do they think the moms who have experienced it are all some sort of psycho. I was not, didn’t have the privilege to do any of the things Dhara os doing now😕

I have like... heard so many stories and read about cases about difficult pregnancies, and its all so disheartening. Even my grandmother told me that my mom had a hard time with me, but Dhara seems to have no care for her baby at all!

I can generally tolerate mahaan characters well, such is my tolerance. But this ain't mahanta anymore, this is self destruction at this point.

Nor do the CVs care about the characters, neither about the kind of messages they send out to the audience.

I understand that its a business at the end of the day, and they've got to get good trps, but I fail to see how even the trp audience will like this stuff.

I could understand that beating the brothers was a trp tactic, trp audience seems to lap up this stuff. But how is this going to bring trps??

Originally posted by: mpks1

We should do something about it. It is just getting annoying to see what they are showing with pregnancy and mood swings. Do they think the moms who have experienced it are all some sort of psycho. I was not, didn’t have the privilege to do any of the things Dhara is doing now😕

What do u suggest??

I say we all should start a trend