Would you want Virat as a partner? - Page 3

You know my answer .. Aap Pakhi Didi se pucho please ..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

You know my answer ..

No explanation needed from you 🤣

Originally posted by: Rdigest

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Out of topic but why are people forcing pakhi on samrat yaar.?! Today he looked more like Bali ka bakra 😢

Originally posted by: sadiltl

The current virat disturbed me a bit! But knowing his love for sai I still give him a chance. Usually any Couple would take some time to build trust and comfort in a marriage so I think they are in that phase now so I would not rule out virat as a partner now.

coming to future plots, if there was a shruthi track planned then I agree there will be discomfort as a wife that your husband does Samaj seva putting behind your necessities. I would not agree and would have fighted out! If he doesn’t clarify and expects me to understand that would not be okay for me! I definetely would have problems with that! Love has nothing to do with peace in the relationship. So yes if it had continued I would have asked him for separation. Because having a child and going through the mental trauma of possible affair scares me.

What is the solution? Just talk it out. Involve your wife in your decisions to support other women. I am sure sai would be equal partner and supporter if he does that.

So in short, yeh current virat is still ok for me. And will continue to be okay if he is open with his decisions to help other women. But not otherwise. I will stand by sai to end the marriage if it is effecting her mental peace. 👍🏼

Hope I am clear

Hmm... sorry to ask you yet another question. Just trying to understand your POV. Leaving Shruthi aside, what about the constant presence of Pakhi in their relationship? What is most alarming to me is that he seems to understand Pakhi's pain so deeply, but he is unable to do the same for Sai. Even if he is acting soft towards Pakhi due to his own guilt in putting her in this position, where is that guilt when it comes to Sai? Where is that understanding?

Sure, he is acting harsh towards Sai right now because he is hurt and feels misunderstood. I can accept that and feel for him even. But, every time he is feeling this way, he is going to start supporting Pakhi against Sai? At least that is the pattern we have seen up until now, and I am almost positive it will continue. Pakhi can insult Sai all she wants, and he is generally mute leaving aside a few instances. But, he feels the need to protect Pakhi's self respect despite knowing her intentions...

Originally posted by: tptwi

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No no I won't take your WC job away 😆. Just helping you out to get more people to join WC and get folks to cheer for the right couple

Originally posted by: Rdigest

No no I won't take your WC job away 😆. Just helping you out to get more people to join WC and get folks to cheer for the right couple

Cannot wait until this entire forum is on our side 🤣

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Out of topic but why are people forcing pakhi on samrat yaar.?! Today he looked more like Bali ka bakra 😢

Not just people, his mom to be more the most to be more precise🤣. She is a total gone case 😆

Originally posted by: scarlett22

I really, honestly don't know what to say.

The pre cap seemed like a sudden departure from his behaviour of the last 2 weeks. Almost like they were trying to pacify Sairat fans that Virat loves Sai. But that one line once again, blurred the boundaries about his relationship with Pakhi, though we don't know what it actually means.

At this point, Sai seems like his possession. I for one have never felt like this before. Because all the other times, he did have his lines drawn very clearly with Pakhi. This time, it seems like he is steadfastly on Pakhi's side. Even his concern about Samrat's marriage is not coming through..

Are these all just drama high points or they are trying to show us Sai was a rebound ..who has not really become his true love.

I'm very confused.

@bolded: I completely agree with this. His monologue in the precap seemed very forced to me....as if they are trying hard to make viewers sympathize with his POV...my question is...is he ever going to realize that locking Sai up was wrong? Are they ever going to show that moment?

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

First of all, we use the word 'love' to describe Virat's feelings for Sai, for want of a better word. But IMO, love is a huge word....it's an emotion which encompasses DEEP trust, respect and care. It often comes after years of living and understanding each other.

Virat is hardly there (I guess even Sai isn't there). He is emotionally attached to Sai, has feelings for her....may find it difficult to move on should his relationship with Sai were to end......yet love is still a long way ....

Coming to Virat's current relationship - I will repeat what I had written in laksh's post yesterday. Virat's anger issues and his equation with Pakhi are the two most problematic patterns in his relationship with Sai. Both strike at the very heart of spousal relationship - trust.

I have often given Virat the benefit of doubt in his relationship with Pakhi - even as it has made me extremely uncomfortable. Pakhi has the liberty to interfere in SaiRat relationship, badmouth Sai whenever Virat is hurt, and enjoys the certainty of Virat's protection of her honour - over and above the trust and respect of his own wife. What kind of disturbing relationship is this?

Lately, I've been wanting to re-think my stand over Virat's equation with Pakhi. Why may not be it called emotional infidelity - even if it is unintentional? Whatever be your intentions, the moment you put your ex above your relationship with your wife, it can only mean you don't respect your marriage(or your spouse). That's not commitment. Period.

You already know about my opinion on his anger issues, so I will not elaborate on that.

In short, I will NEVER EVER want a husband like that either for myself or for people I know. He is complicated (low EQ), uncontrollable in his rage and basically a person with little common sense.

@bolded: Nethra, we have had many discussions on this, and as you know, I have always disagreed with you about this. But, the more I think about it, the more I am now leaning towards your POV.... will have to spend some time writing out a fuller response, but don't know if I will have the time & energy for it...maybe tomorrow 🤣