Originally posted by: Lodestar
Didi's complaint " Aap mere baare main sochte hi nahin hain" is the truth- raw & unvarnished. Adi literally doesn't think about Didi. You know the famous saying " Out of Sight, Out of Mind"? In Adi's case it is "Even in Sight, Out of Mind" for Didi🤣. Didi iske ghar main padi rahe lifetime phir bhi ise koi farak nahi padega 😂😂😂. As long as Imlie is with him, baaki log kya karte hain isse yeh bande ka koi lena dena nahi hain- khud jiyo aur dusro ko jeene do is his philosophy😆. Only Imlie has ever mattered enough for him to care about & give a farak about from the start.
Didi has always known that Adi has never been in love with her. That is why the umpteen phonecalls, teasing about koi aur mil jayegi while giving assurances of bharosa & trust😆. That is why her baat pe guilt trip & snitiching to others to force reactions out of Adi. She was always controlling Adi. She felt loss of control over Adi after PD3 trip when none of her tricks seemed to work on Adi & she quickly honed in on Imlie as the cause. She has not been able to control Adi since then but yeh shameless loser alongwith her mom never give up😛. Try karte hi rehte hain naye naye tareeke, get wildly happy about some delusional win & phir muh ki khaate hai when Adi still continues to do Imlie humari patni hai jaap🤣.
Didi & her mom can only enjoy their happiness over their so called delusional wins for a short moment while Adi brings them back to reality with his "Imlie humari patni hain & hum Imlie se bohat pyaar karte hain" jaap😎. I just love seeing their pachka hua thobda when they think abhi Adi Imlie ko jaane dega & next moment Adi is ready to get jailed but not let Imlie leave him🤣. T fam bhi abhi itna mann se try nahi karti to separate Adi-Imlie. Agar mauka mile toh phir behti Ganga main haath dhote hain Aparna, Radha & BK with the hope that Adi will listen to them for once & then they return back to the pavillion with wicket down🤣. Everybody knows that Adi really loves Imlie. Bas apne aap ko tasalli dene ke liye they try to hype Adi's courtesy & basic lihaaz of Didi as something great & testament of his "love" for her🤣🤣🤣. But pital ko sona bolne se woh sach main sona toh nahin ho jaata. Asli sone ki chamak aur sacchai dikh hi jaati hain.
Didi does not have guts to accept her own feelings for Adi or confront Adi about his relationship with Imlie because again she knows she will get rejection only from Adi. Adi has made it crystal clear to her that even if she does have feelings for him, he cannot do anything & he wil love Imlie only. All of these kaands that she is executing is just to assuage her own ego, to prove that Imlie is not the right partner for Adi, how she is the best fit for Adi & to exert control over Adi. But Adi ki lagaam is in Imlie's hand aur wohi use control kar sakti hai.