The reality of victim shaming - Page 43

Originally posted by: Apudip

I don't think it will go beyond October because dragging doesn't work for this show ever . I am sure dd ki pardaphaash hogi but I wonder if they will ever show her wrong doings to Aadi .In the original they didn't but yahaan to Dd is evil so they can show . Aadi is not totally wrong here and I didn't find anything negetive reaction till now from him . Can't we disagree with our spouse does it mean that we don't love them or trying to humiliate them !!🤷Which couple doesn't disagree?🤣 sorry to say but I disagree and never feel that I don't love my husband😆

Adilie are real and not like adini where disagreement means go back to mayka and guilt trip your husband 🤢 Anu and didi are sick !!😷

I think some people are asking why aadi didn't try to stop the case if he is sure that dd is not doing anything purposefully!! It is because he is not sure of the outcome ( some part of his mind is ready to accept that dd maybe did it but some part says she did not) but he is afraid to ask it or not in a state to enquire it as he is traumatized from his unintentional ditching his wife and doing sinful things to his friend .I can very understand his mind as GM is portraying extremely well Aaditya's mindset in this track .

I agree Apu ji.. but the problem here is he did it in front of dd.. vaise acha hi hua.. dd's overconfidence badhegi tabhi toh expose hogi.. she did this in janmashtami also.. adilie argument hua toh excite hoke sabke saamne confess kiya.. let's see what she does now.

Also he doesn't want to thopo his decisions on Imlie. If imlie doesn't want to withdraw this case, he'll keep arguing with her and keep asking her but will never force her.

Originally posted by: FlowerHater

Ye aps and seera ek din bol denge humare threads mein dikh mat jana galti se🤣

Dekh tu aur Anikal always help to keep our expectations in check🤣

Anytime hope aata hai that all this will get over properly, we then read your stuff and readjust our hopes accordingly.

While i know aapke bolne level tak ka extreme nahi jaayega, I also still feel that in sab ke baad Malini will be instrumental in getting Adi & Imlie together and accordingly get white washed, despite everything she has done - again that is my opinion.

But I reiterate - unless uske kaand bahar nahi aate, she does not need to be WW, so all her evil deeds will come out and Adi will realize what she has done - just uska outcome may not be what we expect.

Originally posted by: Chintapandu

I agree Apu ji.. but the problem here is he did it in front of dd.. vaise acha hi hua.. dd's overconfidence badhegi tabhi toh expose hogi.. she did this in janmashtami also.. adilie argument hua toh excite hoke sabke saamne confess kiya.. let's see what she does now.

Also he doesn't want to thopo his decisions on Imlie. If imlie doesn't want to withdraw this case, he'll keep arguing with her and keep asking her but will never force her.

For me dd doesn't matter because adilie always act like an unit unlike adini .Arre dd ki overconfidence bhi phuss hi hone wale hai aur ussi liye hi fake pregnancy aayega 😆Jitegi Imlie hi 😊

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Dekh tu aur Anikal always help to keep our expectations in check🤣

Anytime hope aata hai that all this will get over properly, we then read your stuff and readjust our hopes accordingly.

While i know aapke bolne level tak ka extreme nahi jaayega, I also still feel that in sab ke baad Malini will be instrumental in getting Adi & Imlie together and accordingly get white washed, despite everything she has done - again that is my opinion.

But I reiterate - unless uske kaand bahar nahi aate, she does not need to be WW, so all her evil deeds will come out and Adi will realize what she has done - just uska outcome may not be what we expect.

I agreeee…. I only worried that my expectation of Didi punishment will not be fulfilled enough by these writers! 😢

Originally posted by: Apudip

I don't think it will go beyond October because dragging doesn't work for this show ever . I am sure dd ki pardaphaash hogi but I wonder if they will ever show her wrong doings to Aadi .In the original they didn't but yahaan to Dd is evil so they can show . Aadi is not totally wrong here and I didn't find anything negetive reaction till now from him . Can't we disagree with our spouse does it mean that we don't love them or trying to humiliate them !!🤷Which couple doesn't disagree?🤣 sorry to say but I disagree and never feel that I don't love my husband😆

Adilie are real and not like adini where disagreement means go back to mayka and guilt trip your husband 🤢 Anu and didi are sick !!😷

I think some people are asking why aadi didn't try to stop the case if he is sure that dd is not doing anything purposefully!! It is because he is not sure of the outcome ( some part of his mind is ready to accept that dd maybe did it but some part says she did not) but he is afraid to ask it or not in a state to enquire it as he is traumatized from his unintentional ditching his wife and doing sinful things to his friend .I can very understand his mind as GM is portraying extremely well Aaditya's mindset in this track .

I completely agree with every word Apuji - I feel you have put down my thoughts in words.

Today my issue with GM was not him taking his frustration out on Imlie, coz she is the only person he knows, who will be able to take that anger from him, yet understand his POV. Malini se woh aise kabhi expect hi nahi kar sakta, which is why his politeness towards her is misconstrued as him caring for Malini. Adi cannot be bothered, but he is too guilt ridden and scared that confronting her may push this weak willed person to do something drastic again, which will put the blame on him. My general issue was him not wanting to get his head out of the sand, but I can still sympathize for the guy, as he suffered a really big trauma and is not able to get himself out of that to face or even think about what everyone is trying to tell him about Malini.

Agree on the Oct timeline - this drama at max will go for another month before it gets out in the open. I still feel like you mentioned earlier that they seem to be drawing parallels to Ramayana a lot - Sita Maiyya this time will leave and Ram will fight with Surpanaka to prove that she was wrong all along, and finally the parda faash will be on Dussehra to prove that good always wins over evil. Then this Surpanaka will become remorseful and help to get Sita Maiyya her rightful place in the T family to effectively white wash her of all her sins by Diwali - tab tak we will finally get the remarriages we were asking for. Let's see how much the makers adhere to this timeline.

Originally posted by: Bakwas_BS

Ki haaal bhahaaans...

Chop kiya BS ne aapsabka positivity ka..

Monday also kuch hone nahi wala.. Imlie will be blamed for spicking AC nothing much.. Likh ke lelo 🤣

I'm going to side with u from today itself. I lost hope after watching epiosde. I'm having small brain and I can't understand why BS behaving like this. Harama positivity ki paapad bana diya makers ne

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Dekh tu aur Anikal always help to keep our expectations in check🤣

Anytime hope aata hai that all this will get over properly, we then read your stuff and readjust our hopes accordingly.

While i know aapke bolne level tak ka extreme nahi jaayega, I also still feel that in sab ke baad Malini will be instrumental in getting Adi & Imlie together and accordingly get white washed, despite everything she has done - again that is my opinion.

But I reiterate - unless uske kaand bahar nahi aate, she does not need to be WW, so all her evil deeds will come out and Adi will realize what she has done - just uska outcome may not be what we expect.

Imlie is a loose interpretation of IK ,not a scene to scene adaptation like our neighborhood show . This track is woven in such a way that Aadi must have to see who dd really is !! So pardaphaash to hoga chahe October ho ya November !!

My other theory is that this is not going to end so soon as GM is comfortable with the track 😆Show to chalega as last ki cringefest bhi dikhana hai . Show mein bahot kuchh baki hai ,Rajdhani express ki tarah chalega to bhi May se pehle khatam hona impossible😆

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

I completely agree with every word Apuji - I feel you have put down my thoughts in words.

Today my issue with GM was not him taking his frustration out on Imlie, coz she is the only person he knows, who will be able to take that anger from him, yet understand his POV. Malini se woh aise kabhi expect hi nahi kar sakta, which is why his politeness towards her is misconstrued as him caring for Malini. Adi cannot be bothered, but he is too guilt ridden and scared that confronting her may push this weak willed person to do something drastic again, which will put the blame on him. My general issue was him not wanting to get his head out of the sand, but I can still sympathize for the guy, as he suffered a really big trauma and is not able to get himself out of that to face or even think about what everyone is trying to tell him about Malini.

Agree on the Oct timeline - this drama at max will go for another month before it gets out in the open. I still feel like you mentioned earlier that they seem to be drawing parallels to Ramayana a lot - Sita Maiyya this time will leave and Ram will fight with Surpanaka to prove that she was wrong all along, and finally the parda faash will be on Dussehra to prove that good always wins over evil. Then this Surpanaka will become remorseful and help to get Sita Maiyya her rightful place in the T family to effectively white wash her of all her sins by Diwali - tab tak we will finally get the remarriages we were asking for. Let's see how much the makers adhere to this timeline.

Aree… October end thak? 😒

Originally posted by: Bakwas_BS

yes he will..

He will say "aajtak office me ham sabke nazar me ek bade reporter the, tumbari vajaha se mazak banke rehegaye hai,tum chahti kya ho, hamari zindagi barbad horaha hai "

Hame uss din pe gussa atha hai jab ham peheli br mile the.. Khash ham mile hi na hote tho ham aaj ye din dekhna nahi padta..

In EDT everyone talking about positivity and telling Editor Saab will help Adi. But u created another scene 🤣

This scene also possible. We can't trust makers.

I can actually take all of this. Just give me proper pardafash and punishment to DD. She should face some consequences of her deeds. Everybody does! They can paint her all white and strip her off the black after that, I don't give a damn. But I need her to face the consequences of her actions rightfully.

And I don't understand what she can understand when all the major blows have not worked their way. Pata nahi aisa kaunsa hathoda hoga jo iske sar pe maarne se isme realisation aajayega!!!!