Virat is losing control - Page 3

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Ok the episode was sad for me to see virat do two things I never expected him to do.

1. Compare with pakhi when he himself once reprimanded pakhi not to compare herself with his wife!

2. During Harini birthday face off he said pakhi that he would not make sai feel obligated to love him.

For me that was the vision Of virat the character that I loved for his passion and truthfulness that comes out at the same time. never ever I felt he would do the same things above 😭.

coming to the fight, yes they are angry on each other because they don’t understand what each feels for the other.

Virats pain point: that sai doenst consider him as her husband. He gets hurt when she insinuates that he has wrong intentions for pakhi! Today’s shut up showed how much he doesn’t like her do this. But why can’t he clear it to save himself from this torture of being misunderstood.?!

Ok if he wants no one to force sai to love him, why is he taking out on sai for not loving him? That is confusing. Unless he thinks she loves him but not realize it so he wants to push her to realize it! In that case a monologue would help to understand him. Otherwise is he showing his ‘other’ side as he promised her that he would on their anniversary trip.? Then also a monologue is needed. If not these two, then it is a serious butchering of his character who once made the above 2 statements.!!

Sai’s pain point: the girl wants clear answers. I understand how much she took the handholding to her heart. It is her biggest worry. So she goes back to there and sees everything from there. It is pricking her … and virat not denying it and more over going to samrakhis room is causing her suspicions more gain weight.

I don’t call her denying to attend the Pooja her zidd or arrogance. She doesn’t want to attend it because she sees it as a lie! Virat fails to understand this because he wants samrat and pakhi to move on! He likes that idea and he thinks it will happen because samrat is also involved in this whole idea of giving a chance thingy. If samrat is into it, virat believes that it is true!!! If samrat had objected, May be virat would have thought on what sai said about pakhis intentions. I hope I am making sense here.

now that sai misunderstands him, he thinks sai is misunderstanding everything else also! That’s why Sai’s beliefs are coming across as zidd to him!

ps: we need separation soon!

I cant at this point analyse him... He is coming across extremely selfish and also inconsiderate and a jilted one sided lover...

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I think this is just her final test for virat. Her confirmation. See the deep rooted insecurities in her! I hope they show it well here.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

That was sarcasm Mam... From Patralekha's perspective it is unconditional...since she keeps coming back to him after continuous rejection..

However Virat's respect is unconditional for Patralekha...She can lead Sai to her death bed, but surely deserves the respect, especially when his equation with Sai is tumultuous..

Also Mam I am sure you have read my previous posts on how I always called her for being selfish in wanting Virat's love. So I was not expecting to be explained about unconditional love...

What Patralekha terms her love is immaterial. What her love is in nature that is the point and I said why her love is not unconditional.

My answer relates only to the term you used..unconditional.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Don’t make my valid points look sarcastic by terming them so. And I did not talk about Virat ‘s respect towards Patralekha.

What Patralekha terms her love is immaterial. What her love is in nature that is the point and I said why her love is not unconditional.

My answer relates only to the term you used..unconditional.

Mam I meant my use of unconditional for Patralekha's love , WAS sarcastic. Matlab Me calling Patralekha's love for Virat unconditional was sarcastic. Not your post. I have always spoken about Patralekha's "feelings" for Virat being obsessive, abuse and borderline mental.. But neither Virat, nor the actors or the PH see it that way... Its "their" way of seeing patralekha's love.. So again I repeat myself, Me calling Patralekha's love for Virat unconditional was sarcastic, not your post.

I am really sorry, Mam, but I did not term your post anything. I rest my case here 😊

Originally posted by: msin

He does not see patralekha as anything… selfish ..or not .. virat is a unidimensional man … he only sees what Sai is doing to him … what she’s telling others about him and what he wants her to be … he needs to step away and revaluate where he’s going wrong in a junoon to possess Sai

Patralekha at that moment .. was just a weapon to hurt Sai .. are you seeing virat even shedding at thought that patralekha might be coerced to sleep with samrat ..He was absolutely cool with it .. and samrat got that clearly .. that virat has moved away .. samrat is worried about pakhi front not virat interest ..

You compare it with the energy .. virat has behaved with aniket , ajinkye .. it was consuming him that his wife was talking with a man .. what if she finds him more suitable than him ..

virat is right now behaving more and more like a Neanderthal ( caveman) … Sai has to listen to me .. no matter what…

In any case he is being tu meri nahi hui toh kisi ki nahi..

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Awesome post. Agree with everything you said. The fight is not cute. I also felt.

Sai’s reason for not attending the Puja like you said could be better. Specially till now she didn’t desist from participating in any Puja or occassion. That also it involved Samrat who might sense something wrong if she won’t attend.

Virat just lost control like you said. His comparison of Sai with Pakhi is what hurt me the most. He did everything wrong..and entering Pakhi’s room tops the list.

What more to say? I am waiting to see him leave on transfer.

@bold: good sai called that out! Virat digs his own grave!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Mam I meant my use of unconditional for Patralekha's love , WAS sarcastic. Matlab Me calling Patralekha's love for Virat unconditional was sarcastic. Not your post. I have always spoken about Patralekha's "feelings" for Virat being obsessive, abuse and borderline mental.. But neither Virat, nor the actors or the PH see it that way... Its "their" way of seeing patralekha's love.. So again I repeat myself, Me calling Patralekha's love for Virat unconditional was sarcastic, not your post.

I am really sorry, Mam, but I did not term your post anything. I rest my case here 😊

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

In any case he is being tu meri nahi hui toh kisi ki nahi..

yeah that’s confusing me because of his previous proclamations that he would free her!!

Originally posted by: sadiltl

yeah that’s confusing me because of his previous proclamations that he would free her!!

That were talks...and he is good at it.... He talks about doing all his mistakes the last time w.r.t. Sai and then gets back to abusing her physically...

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Taking this opportunity to point out my dear Sai’s fault since your thread always is unbiased.

Sai promised DIG sir that she will keep atmosphere peaceful at home considering how disturbed Virat is mentally and physically. Why is she being the cause of his mental stress? Either she should have sit in Puja because she any way did umpteen times before or she should have given the reason that you mentioned in your post.

Instead she just did the opposite and let the things spoil to the maximum level. Did she stop his transfer to make him even more bitter and vengeful!

If she is so concerned for his parivar why didn’t she think about parivar before refusing to sit in Puja!

Because when she promised the DIG she did not know Pakhi's intentions were malicious...her intentions was to play with Samrat's feelings and now the Puja is also her game and is not something pious.. towards Samrat or his feelings for her....And she also did not know to keep Virat happy she would have to tolerate whatever Pakhi throws at her...

Sai does not want to be a part of the sham that is going on in the name of starting a new life...Sai has always been like that... Parivar does not see Pakhi's intentions or I would say are dumb to see it including IPS Chavan...She can see it,and she caring for Parivar does not mean she needs to attend a Pooja that has malicious intent behind it... By not attending she is caring for Samrat...respecting him...who also called her his sister.....She is not participating in the lie that is being given to him and also being offered to God...

About Pooja's if one does not have the right intent behind the Pooja, there is no point of any Pooja any worship... Sai wore the alta only when she got to know its for Virat well being..She denied to wear it as a tradition or the culture of Chavan Niwas...It was for someone's good , she did not care about herself her allergy. When something has no sense, no intent, she does not believe in that tradition... This Pooja going by Pakhi's intentions is certainly not for greh Shanti and Sai knows that...and Virat choses to not see it, that is his dumbness...

Having said all that, her way was wrong in how she decided to deny it.. She could have just left for college early morning if she really did not want to be a part of it...