Disturbing behaviour - Page 6

Originally posted by: monsi08

Actually it's both ways ..

Love doesn't come alone... It has to come with trust and respect... Which unfortunately both of them do not have for each other... !!

Isn't trust earned?

Holding hands with an ex during a secret meeting and refusing to be open about the meeting with the wife. On top of that, being mum when the ex bad mouths the wife. I cannot imagine a spouse that would not be suspicious/apprehensive/insecure under the circumstances.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

@ bold: in the interim, she had stopped. Now she has got free pass again as she can use Samrat as a shield.

Whether Samrat is there as a shield or not, Virat himself will always act like a shield for her I guess. It looks like that. He will forever protect Pakhi however wrong she is.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

@ bold: in the interim, she had stopped. Now she has got free pass again as she can use Samrat as a shield.

duplicate post, please ignore

All i am going to say is that both need to separate from each so they BOTH realise whats missing in their lives when they are not in each others lives. I dont agree with that the separation shud happen so Virat realises her importance: the separation is needed for both I feel separation will bring each of them clarity which is needed.

They are both getting involved in bitter argument which is just bringing a level of toxicity which we dont want to see. Virat wants separation and space & he requested transfer so I hope this happens then we will what true feelings Sairat have for each other.

For once, a separation betweens Sairat could be a blessing in disguise.

Originally posted by: laksh

Whether Samrat is there as a shield or not, Virat himself will always act like a shield for her I guess. It looks like that. He will forever protect Pakhi however wrong she is.

That’s why I said it’s a disturbing behaviour… everybody has behaved badly …

A lot of things could be avoided .. it seems like Sai n virat like fighting in front of others .. they get a high …

there is so much toxicity in their lives right now .. they need to split and split fast … spend time away from each other to reflect what they actually want in life ..

and virat needs to get framed and badly implicated by paapi on the pregnancy case … he deserves it …. He deserves to have his whole family look at him and laugh … especially Sonali abd karishma … abd his parents squirming when samrat accuses him of sleeping with pakhi ..

I hope Sai is not there for some time …. Let him be on the hot seat for 3-4 days ..

Originally posted by: msin

That’s why I said it’s a disturbing behaviour… everybody has behaved badly …

A lot of things could be avoided .. it seems like Sai n virat like fighting in front of others .. they get a high …

there is so much toxicity in their lives right now .. they need to split and split fast … spend time away from each other to reflect what they actually want in life ..

and virat needs to get framed and badly implicated by paapi on the pregnancy case … he deserves it …. He deserves to have his whole family look at him and laugh … especially Sonali abd karishma … abd his parents squirming when samrat accuses him of sleeping with pakhi ..

I hope Sai is not there for some time …. Let him be on the hot seat for 3-4 days ..

Originally posted by: msin

That’s why I said it’s a disturbing behaviour… everybody has behaved badly …

A lot of things could be avoided .. it seems like Sai n virat like fighting in front of others .. they get a high …

there is so much toxicity in their lives right now .. they need to split and split fast … spend time away from each other to reflect what they actually want in life ..

and virat needs to get framed and badly implicated by paapi on the pregnancy case … he deserves it …. He deserves to have his whole family look at him and laugh … especially Sonali abd karishma … abd his parents squirming when samrat accuses him of sleeping with pakhi ..

I hope Sai is not there for some time …. Let him be on the hot seat for 3-4 days ..

Yeah, they need to split. This is going no where.

@bold This is very true. Why should they show Sai helping him? First let him face the consequences of his actions as you said for a couple of days 🤣.

How else will he realise what he has been doing. But I really really doubt if Virat will realise even then because Virat doesn’t look like a person who learns anything from the lessons he has got. He doesn’t think at all. Once the situation gets solved, he would move on. Looks like he is a lethargic person, takes things way too casually. If someone says that he believes people, it is his goodness, no it is not, it would be his stupidity. Yes, one should believe people, should give them benefit of doubt but that doesn’t mean they don’t learn anything from their experience.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Isn't trust earned?

Holding hands with an ex during a secret meeting and refusing to be open about the meeting with the wife. On top of that, being mum when the ex bad mouths the wife. I cannot imagine a spouse that would not be suspicious/apprehensive/insecure under the circumstances.

True.. Virat is wrong in many ways ... He is not behaving like a person who can be trusted at all...

My opinion I have written in my detailed post somewhere that Virat doesn't deserve any of the women actually. He is one selfish person !!

I think he is in love with Pakhi forever... That is All 🤦

That's why I say without trust and respect , love has no legs... It can't go far .. these 2 are missing that for eachother ... Hence I don't think SaiRat are in love 🙂

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold Yeah. Exactly. That was her issue. As long as people don’t poke their nose in her matters, she is fine. I blame Virat for this situation to have even got worse. He didn’t think how Sai must be feeling. Would he be okay if someone did it to him? He looked hurt when Sai said today that Samrat is a nice guy. That’s because she doesn’t understand him but thinks good of everyone else. Is that not true for Sai? He always thinks high of Pakhi but calls Sai immatured and badtameez.

I don’t even know if Virat would ever realise these.

I felt so too😆 His expression made it look like he was pissed that Sai considers Samrat a good man, whom she barely knew for a week, but doesn't see the goodness in him.

Its exactly like how he treats Sai and Pakhi. Whatever Pakhi does, he assumes her to be a decent person still and behaves nice as well. Whereas he doesn't behave the same way with Sai and always considers her immature and adamant person. Which isn't true. For her age, Sai has gone through so much in her life and have come across so many hurdles with maturity.

In this regard, Karma is biting his ass now, well deserved I must say 😆

Originally posted by: monsi08

Actually it's both ways ..

Love doesn't come alone... It has to come with trust and respect... Which unfortunately both of them do not have for each other... !!