Disturbing behaviour - Page 3

Originally posted by: laksh

I am agreeing to the first statement for the very first time. The second point, yes, absolutely no point. Can’t see this as love anymore.

If I can’t consider Pakhi’s love as love because she expected Virat to never move on in his life, I can’t consider Virat’s love as love anymore since he will keep insulting Sai or fighting with her or will side with ex whenever he will be upset with her. Whether or not he has an issue with her, he cannot at any cost side with anyone just because he is upset with her and definitely not with his ex.

Originally posted by: Clois_semperanc

Oh no my main question to you was how did Sai start the fight. In response to this statement by you : there was no need to start the fight calling Virat as double faced

And second part of my response is cuz of this statement: all the three of them were wrong today. Cuz I believe Sai was not wrong today, she's tired of Pakhi's bullshit and she doesn't need to pretend like Virat.

I feel the whole situation could have been handled in a better way . As audiences we know what made Sai jump her guns on Pakhi as she had observed something but does Virat know what made Sai refuse the gift suddenly ? For him the gift was from Samrat and Pakhi . We know Samrat matters to him a lot . If we keep our likes and dislikes for character aside then if someone starts the conversation rudely without giving any reasons as to why they are behaving so then we blame the person who is being rude for no reason . That’s how Virat saw . He saw Samrakhi were giving gift to Sai like they did for the entire family but Sai rudely refused without a proper reason . He felt Sai was unnecessarily creating drama . I can’t blame Virat for feeling so . Due to suppressed anger because of his transfer issue he indirectly taunted Sai . Sai could have responded to the taunt but she included Virat in Pakhi’s misdeed and called him double face . She blamed Virat for Pakhi’s fake move on drama. Virat had no role in that and double faced made no sense here . If she had called him out for taunting her then I wouldn’t have said she started the fight .

I would like to highlight that I also said Virat shouldn’t have shown his suppressed anger infront of Pakhi. His anger was justified IMO but not infront of Pakhi similarly Sai has rights to refuse but calling Virat as double faced could have been avoided . It diverted the whole fight into something else .

I don’t think I need to say why Pakhi was wrong here

Originally posted by: msin

Yeah when there’s no respect … no point in holding on to such a relationship… he should free Sai .. and let her fight her own battles … she will learn ..

It is Virat and Pakhi that are spewing toxicity...Sai was just showing their true colors. It is Virat that needs to learn. Even for people I don't get along with...I would not wish them to have spouse like Virat or Pakhi. Samrat and Sai deserve a good life partners.

Originally posted by: Clois_semperanc

Sai started the fight? She was telling Pakhi calmly to please take the sari back as she cannot take it. Virat started the taunting by telling his bestie why did she bring gifts for someone who doesn't have the courtesy to accept gifts!

Sai even got upset at that statement of his and remembered how Virat supported her once when Pakhi and her mom behaved so rudely with her. That statement of his indicated to Pakhi that she can start her bullshit in front of Virat cuz he's clearly on her side. Whatever Sai said after these two ganged up is correct and needed.

Why does Sai needs to be courteous and accept gifts according to Virat if Pakhi can be bi@ch and not attend Sai's birthday party? Pakhi's mom also refused to accept the sari that Sai so lovingly took for her cuz of her ill feelings towards Sai.

Why does Sai have to act according to Virat's social norms when he has given a free pass to every single member in that house to treat Sai as garbage in the past one year? If she doesn't want to take it she doesn't have to just like she had no right to pressure Pakhi to attend her birthday party! And it was between Sai and Pakhi, why did Virat have to jump in the middle to insult Sai's manners? As if he believes Pakhi to be the epitome of good manners and kindness.

Ofcourse its her mistake in all this as well... If she would have simply taken the gift, Virat would not have to lose his temper...I always maintain, its Sai who makes him lose his temper...Just like in coming episode, why cant she sit in Puja , if she sat she would not have been locked in the room..SO even there she was the reason for it all...Virat toh poor man he is sad and hurt since wife does not reciprocate his family, but in his sadness he remembers his Bhabh's respect and tells Sai to watch her tone, which in his hurt he forgets to tell his wife when he abuse the one he LURBs...

Originally posted by: msin

Yeah when there’s no respect … no point in holding on to such a relationship… he should free Sai .. and let her fight her own battles … she will learn ..

I think more than her, he needs to learn... to behave, to respect his position as an IPS at home and to "respect" all women and not just Bhabhi...

correct post @msin n i also agree with who say this is not love n virat hve no respect for Sai. i m so tired of watchign this show its not giving love feeling at all. ppl wait for lead to clear misunderstanding n unite but here it is so poison that u dont wnt both to be with EO i still dont knw why virt cnt open his mouth n talk n sai is just stubborn wid idea of virat giving commitment to paki n not ready to see or hear anything frm anyone. both r wrong n should separte n show should end god knw how long thins serial will go. nothing to add about paki cant tolerate her scene n voice . god know how this show is still no2. may be cos other show even more rubbis than this sorry if i spoil anyones mood m not writing nthing on this forum cos i dont wnt to make ppl who like show feel bad bt it is so bad now

Ye Angsty love story se forceful love story zyada lagti hai 🙄 is this even love that we are seeing here... Pakhi ka love obsession hai.. lekin SaiRat love is not even close to love... !!!

Everything is faulty here...

1) Virat after everything still sides with Pakhi... Is he really a TALENTED IPS officer as he claims to be ... Because I can only laugh at the way he cant tell bluff of Pakhi a bluff 😂😝

As an outsider, my judgement as of now is that he still loves Pakhi but just because she is his brother's wife, he is assuming that he loves Sai now .. Sai is his rebound and only a duty under social pressure!!

2) Sai is so much at fault here too .. I think she has fought enough with Pakhi. This open battle of words isn't helping is what she needs to understand. She should have given a silent treatment since the day Virat cleverly lied to the whole family about his meeting with Pakhi in the Cafe. If she really wants to show that it doesn't Fark her , she should just keep her mouth shut. Sometimes silence is the best weapon.

Virat is a happy man that 2 women are fighting over him ... His male ego is blowing up to no limits 🤣

3) as of now Samrat is thinking smartly but being a ITV male, uski ye smartness bahut jaldi makers chheen lenge 😂😂

Virat neither deserves Pakhi nor Sai... he is a selfish man who lives in his happy bubble.. at a given point in time whichever woman doesn't agree with him , he sides with the one to berate and insult the other one.😝😝😝

You don't know Lakshmi Virat Chavan is husband goal 🤣🤣

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NO VIRAT CHAVAN IS EPITOME OF HUMANITY..

HUSBAND COMES MUCH LATER 🤣

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Virat has zero respect for Sai.

What is even the point of such a relationship?

Actually it's both ways ..

Love doesn't come alone... It has to come with trust and respect... Which unfortunately both of them do not have for each other... !!

Originally posted by: Shaome

Separation is NOT the right word she should divorce Virat once for all..

It's very upsetting Sai would start melting for him after the accident.. I can't watch such crap in the name of SaiRat..

Is there an accident track ...😝

Why do we need such life threatening situation for the realisation to occur...🙄

Sai accident... Then Virat bullet incident and now this ..

Have the makers run out of ideas or any kind of creativity for a love confession 😝😝