Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #91|The Return of Raavi - Page 88

Originally posted by: blissfulcanyon

I love this shot

A very aesthetically done shot! I loved it too❤️

Originally posted by: Palak2812

Raavi has went wrong at that time. I agree but the same way I forgive Shiva of pre marriage.

Bcoz it was not venomous to hear. It was not insulting for me to hear and watch it. But it is soo insulting to hear now the way Shiva talks when it isn't even directed towards me.

Shiva never told Raavi why he left her. Definitely Raavi shouldn't have taunted him for soo long but he never told her. Bcoz he thought he don't want to clear up the things.

When Raavi faught with Rishita bcoz she was insulting him, it was Shiva who said he doesn't give a damn about what others think and asked her to do the same. Then now why should Raavi defend him when he himself asked her not to do so ? (I definitely wanted her to shut those people but ya)

Now Shiva thinks that he isn't enough so let's character assinate her, insult her and give her divorce papers bcoz he thinks it is correct.

It has always been Shiva deciding things for Raavi. She was never in this relationship to put her point. & When she tried she was only Insulted in return.

Shiva trades her in exchange of kangan and instead it was Raavi who thought good in it even if there was nothing good in it. She was ready to jump for those kangan which didn't mattered to his family and he says ki he knew his brothers won't ever let him fall. Amazing. & That girl could have died but he would anyways would be saved and he made her feel like the biggest stupid person to feel his pain bcoz at the end agar kuch hota toh Ravi ke saath he hota bcoz his brothers would have anyway saved him.

Still that stupid girl got ok with it.

In Sawan Pooja he again insults but never even thought he did anything wrong.

His mother was putting fake allegations on Raavi defending is a very big thing he didn't asked her to shut up atleast Raavi asks her Massi to shut several times and she did too many times and when Mami is soo called villan.

Both have gone wrong but I never saw Raavi doing that wrong ki uska itna strong reaction will come from Shiva's side.

Misunderstanding

Thing is only Shiva decides of that piece of information is important or not to be known by Raavi.

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Not trying to sound bad but Raavi has given more reasons to be liked then Shiva did to Raavi in this relationship.

Shiva only saved her from physical harm and now even doesn't even give a damn if she gets hurt or not.

Shiva who used to be my favourite just keeps on doing wrong and then say he loves Raavi. Aur uska pyaar aisa hain jaha if Raavi even tries to be happy he will say stuffs like that her smile falls and she breaks further and I can be blind but I never saw Raavi doing the same.

Agree 100%... Now that she is going as a maid to Dhara before the main reason why she actually left Pandya house is not resolved. It's getting even difficult to even understand her now. Even if she is doing this out of her great respect and love for Dhara it seems like they don't even want to appreciate it. It would have been good if she had gone to college and the Pandyas had arranged a maid. Then when Shiva came to his senses he could have gone and properly apologized for his behaviour and then she could have gotten back with him

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

What is this? 🤪

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Sasta nasha is the truth!

This is beyond deranged way to add ‘humor’to the show! Or I don’t know meaning of humor!

Matlab, kuchch bhi kar ke they want to keep serving crap. Bhabhi on honeymoon toh instead of focusing on public demand of ShiVi they bring this !!!!

Of all the people we have to endure oily ke Dreams!!!

is it wrong of me that I don’t want him to apologize… I want both of them to get an understanding….moving forward in their respective life… she completing her masters… him handling new branch of pandya stores all alone and become financially strong… and slowly slowly deal with each other’s issues.. I know its a show but Raavi’s childhood dream to be a Pandya Bahu is too childish…she should have few aspirations for herself…

Shiva’s inferiority complex is too wrong.. why everyone keep on bad mouthing him… he is wrong agreed… but Raavi is wrong too…

Raavi needs to come down from her high horse… and Shiva needs to be appreciated more..

I want a role reversal where Raavi sees girls swooning over his physical appearance….he is paying no attention but he is not rude to them just ignorant… and Raavi fuming over it… she goes into verbal argument with Shiva (it should happen when he and she are on speaking terms and ceasefire mode) … Shiva is confused that what happened to her now… and that fight will have some of the old spark…

Originally posted by: Transference

I have realised Shiny often tries to mimic the style of fellow actors and ends up looking comical and unoriginal. I miss the dainty, balanced Dhara! She looks fabulous and poised when she is in her own element.

Even when she was eating the raw mangoes, there was a sense of poise. That's how her character was always!

Today, she tried to mimic Suman’s chulbula style and made faces. It was unfunny and so not Dhara like!!!

This is soo trueee piu ❤️

Dhara is not childish or chulbuli.

She is poised, sarcastic when needed and spontaneous.

That scene was soo unnecessary.i wonder how the makers gave it a green signal after shooting it.

Even I felt shiny is mimicking the style of her fellow actors like the bubbliness

IAM sorry to say but it just further proves the allegations on her of being insecure about other actors and their growing popularity which is sad

My reason to start this show was she and her chemistry with the kids . It was so heartwarming

Her scenes were beautiful with them and then the grownups too

Her quality of performance has gone down drastically

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Even I felt shiny is mimicking the style of her fellow actors like the bubbliness

IAM sorry to say but it just further proves the allegations on her of being insecure about other actors and their growing popularity which is sad

My reason to start this show was she and her chemistry with the kids . It was so heartwarming

Her scenes were beautiful with them and then the grownups too

Her quality of performance has gone down drastically

I also feel the same.its like she is simply reading out the lines given to her. I can't get her expressions.is she angry? Is she sad? Is she lost?

The writers are not helping matters either.

She was really good in the initial Post leap scenes.the scenes at kanta kakis function,the wedding sequence.

I wonder what has happened now, maybe she doesn't connect with the character anymore and just saying the lines mechanically.

Originally posted by: ...Tiana...

Agree 100%... Now that she is going as a maid to Dhara before the main reason why she actually left Pandya house is not resolved. It's getting even difficult to even understand her now. Even if she is doing this out of her great respect and love for Dhara it seems like they don't even want to appreciate it. It would have been good if she had gone to college and the Pandyas had arranged a maid. Then when Shiva came to his senses he could have gone and properly apologized for his behaviour and then she could have gotten back with him

It's a choice she made..good bad or stupid..that's her..she was told by dhara to come back inspite of the fight with shiva , coz she shares a relation with them before her marriage..she did just that..she was feeling guilty for hurting dhara , probably , wanted to make up for it..she knows ,no matter how much pandyas boast abt themselves, all r useless without dhara ..n this was the time when dhara needed max rest ..I appreciate what raavi did , hope the family also understands.

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

is it wrong of me that I don’t want him to apologize… I want both of them to get an understanding….moving forward in their respective life… she completing her masters… him handling new branch of pandya stores all alone and become financially strong… and slowly slowly deal with each other’s issues.. I know its a show but Raavi’s childhood dream to be a Pandya Bahu is too childish…she should have few aspirations for herself…

Shiva’s inferiority complex is too wrong.. why everyone keep on bad mouthing him… he is wrong agreed… but Raavi is wrong too…

Raavi needs to come down from her high horse… and Shiva needs to be appreciated more..

I want a role reversal where Raavi sees girls swooning over his physical appearance….he is paying no attention but he is not rude to them just ignorant… and Raavi fuming over it… she goes into verbal argument with Shiva (it should happen when he and she are on speaking terms and ceasefire mode) … Shiva is confused that what happened to her now… and that fight will have some of the old spark…

Yaar..both have done wrong to each other..ravi has made many mistakes true..but shiva made no less..I believe everyone here agrees that both are at fault..some feels ravis wrongs are comparatively less than shiva..

Shivas inferiority complex stems from himself. Its pointless to blaim anyone else for not appreciating him enough. Shiva is a man who never cared about others opinion abt him..thats what was so special about him..he never gave a second thought abt what world would think of him before leaving his education..or what his life would be of after marrying ravi who was in love with his brother and whom he despised in every sense...he always knew ravi hated him as much as he hated her at the time of wedding..but he never felt complex or hurt by that..the wedding night when he packs ravis bags on devs room and saw the gifts she had packed for dev all saying I love u to dev..his ego never got hurt there..he was genuinely sad for her that moment.

Right now shivas insecurity is caused by his bottled up feelings for her...his experience with her friends and her diary scared him to the core to take the risk of being heartbroken if ravi doesn't feel the same for him..he has assumed she would never feel the same for him..he has assumed for himself that she is disgusted by him..he has assumed for himself that ravi will be happy with this divorce and being free from her relation with him. ..thats where he went wrong... He should have talked with her..asked her about her feelings.. told her his feelings..even if she didn't feel the same for him ,she deserved to know the truth about his feelings..and one thing led to other ...he started taunting her..she started compromising with him.

And when the friends came in the picture..he lost his cool...he character assassinated her...she retaliated with equal force...both threw mud at each other in general....

Personally I will never blame ravi for slapping him when he character assassinated her...I would never want her to apologise for slapping in that case .

consider if it was not shiva but a road side guy who said the same thing abt her...tell her she should be coming with him since he is more a gentleman compared to her husband..she would have slapped him for sure..would any of us want her to apologize to that guy?..character shaming even if it was a slip of tongue cannot be ignored....

my problem with her was for three things. One thing she blamed him for making her slap him...she should own up to her actions..blaming him for her actions. .thats very immature.. but ravi did that two times..that was very low of her.

Second thing,in her anger she name called him agaun and again ,taunted him with his worst thoughts when she clearly knew he had such thoughts in his mind..

And the third mistake I feel is..she never bothered asking shiva why he fought with the so called friends..he told her those people were so bad that she should be miles away from them...when he said that, there was no hint of taunt or hatred in his words to her..that was purely her husband who genuinely cared for her,telling her to be away from such creeps. She as a wife, should have minimum asked him or kept on asking him until he spoke up the whole thing about how it all started..the way those people were talking behind her back abt eloping with her. But she didn't ask further..she assumed that his ego was hurt when he saw she had other friends..and she assumed his hatred for her was so much that he hated her friends and started beating them up..

That's why I want her to apologise too..

Both had done many wrongs in their immaturity.. so unless they realise their mistake and acknowledge it they can't progress ..both have feelings for each other. So it's more important for them to understand this sooner than later...

Originally posted by: _charu_

It's a choice she made..good bad or stupid..that's her..she was told by dhara to come back inspite of the fight with shiva , coz she shares a relation with them before her marriage..she did just that..she was feeling guilty for hurting dhara , probably , wanted to make up for it..she knows ,no matter how much pandyas boast abt themselves, all r useless without dhara ..n this was the time when dhara needed max rest ..I appreciate what raavi did , hope the family also understands.

This is what irks me the most because they simply don't understand nor do they try to.

When the show started the family bond was so beautiful. Whatever their flaws they really did try to understand each others pov. But now it's all about Dhara and everyone understands her and her pov, rest of the character's feelings don't matter at all.