Originally posted by: mpks1
Now that Raavi is coming back to Pabdya niwas, I want full justification from her for her decision. This is the same girl who said self respect is more important, hope she keeps that in mind. I am sure after she is back, Dhara and Rishita will warm up to her. Their anger is only temporary. If Raavi apologizes to both of them, I donât see a problem at all. As for Suman, she is a patriarch and a tough nut to crack. She may agree for Raavi to stay for Dharaâs sake but it will take time for her to accept Raavi again. This is only possible if Shiva and Raavi accept each other wholeheartedly, then Suman will have no choice.
We all know the 3 brothers have been always Raaviâs supporters than Shivaâs. So the 3 will welcome her with open arms. She shouldnât have any problems there,
Now that leaves us with Shiva. If you all notice. ever since he talked about Raaviâs remarriage in the microphone (he went overboard because of his anger) on Tuesday, he has been given only a line or 2 in the past 3 episodes. I beg the writers to keep it this way and donât let him open his mouth. Let him be a recluse and silent. Anyway none of his own family members talk to him except Suman, Dhara and Rishita supported Shiva in dahi handi only because Raavi humiliated both of them and not because they loved him.
Once he opens his mouth, doesnât realize what he says in his anger. So the writers please make him go on maun vratđ Also let him spend as much time as possible in the store, like say 12-14 hrs to stay away from everything, that way he can atleast get lot of work done and we also get to see Kaka and the stoređ
If none of this works, can the makers pack him off far far away for few days, so he can introspect to see why his own family members donât support him or like him, what went wrong and how he can rectify it and also go through some anger management. This will also help his brothers and Bhabis realize how they have always treated him like a piece of crap. As for Raaviâs realization of him being far far away, havenât thought much about it as it is difficult to read her mind. At this time her goal seems like is to pacify Dhara followed by Rishita. Only when we get a substantial monologue from her, I will be sure about what she wants. Her confused state of mind is not helping at all.
My sincere request to the makers please donât make Shiva do things that we all regret watching and donât you ever follow it up with a lolloipop sceneđ I donât need any of that nonsense and try to slowly start some sensible/normal conversation between them, even if its a line or two. And please stop with this one upmanship between the 2.
Those were my thoughts as well as a rant combined in one postđ
what I gauged⊠suman is just acting to be pissed with Raavi⊠yeah she says that Raavi has no relationship with themâŠ
she is the one who said during Divorce paper drama that if Raavi doesnât like Shiva then just sign and leave but at the same time ⊠she kept on eagerly waiting for Raavi to come for Janmashtami celebrationâŠ
she even told Dhara not to indulge in Raavi-Shiva matter .. they will handle themselves (ideally that should be the case) so I donât think she is miffed with Raavi much⊠she will accept her back but just to keep appearances, keep on taunting herâŠ
as far as Shiva goes⊠I donât know why have they converted him into this reckless bull⊠he was hot headed since beginning but his energy is totally focused on shop and against Maami⊠even in Janmashtami function.. he was angry but the way he pushed chair to reach Maami⊠it was way too violentâŠ
I donât know why everyone keep on chanting that he is illiterate⊠he is also working in the store just like other brothers⊠he handles accounts, deliveries, customers very efficientlyâŠ.only he doesnât like to dress up⊠which is okâŠ
Raavi is on another tangent⊠I neither support her nor against her⊠actually I am confused⊠from whatever monologues and dialogues I have seen so far⊠it looks she is adjusting and compromising to accept the marriage which is shoved down her throatâŠ
yes she is no longer suffocating in this relationship but she is not in love with Shiva either⊠(I am sorry but she is not⊠she just wants to give her marriage a chance)
and if I look in this way I think Shiva did the right thing in freeing her from this marriageâŠbecause Raavi till this point blames Dhara for destroying her life by getting her married to her enemyâŠShiva on the other hand is getting emotionally involved⊠he is not blaming dhara for this.. infact he is pushing her away by not bending to her illogical emotional blackmailing⊠seriously marriages donât work that wayâŠ
I have written it before and I will say it againâŠ
its good that these guys got divorced ⊠their relationship has become too much toxicâŠ
I really hope even if Raavi comes back ⊠she will keep her attention limited to Dhara and donât try mending things with Shiva ..
Shiva too should maintain his distance⊠though its an ITV show but a couple should patch up only when they are ready to patch up or when they are ready to address the issues between them⊠not because their family wanted toâŠ