That track was where I was most annoyed with Amma. I mean if she had learnt the lesson and realised forcing people to get married is wrong and told Raghav not to do that and just to try to prevent SunKee wedding I could let go of that decision. But she clearly didn't🤔 and she told her beta to let go of Pallavi only after he had 'improved' in her opinion.
I totally agree to all your points and in no way I can refute these points. Only in retrospect her decision seems to be correct. However, her current actions are super wrong. They should have discussed it with Keerti way back before she went to a point of no return. Ab kuch nai ho sakta. She will learn things the hard way.
I still can let amma pass because despite all she pulled on raghvi, she does care about them a lot and guides them always. Her love is genuine.