Originally posted by: Ashley_m
Because Voot ne epi nahi diya hai I saw yesterday's episode again... Tab I noticed that BB snuck in another message in the whole Kali Dadi ke lessons + consent scene... The necessity of there being clarity between a couple on the topic of physical intimacy.
So for every couple who is planning to include physical intimacy in their relationship, as Rudhita clearly are two things have to be established prior to intimacy in my opinion.
1. Where each of them stands wrt to intimacy in terms of willingness, knowledge or experience.
2. Ground rules to be followed.
So yesterday's scene, I was thinking that Ani ka plan kya tha when he followed Bon after Kali Dadi's lesson. 5th watch pe I realised, that he wanted to actually established the two points I wrote above... By offering to explain kissing to her, he was telling her where he stood with regards to intimacy - both knowledge and willingness wise, and then he sort of teased out of Bon a ground rule between them - the rule of consent.
Love BB for its practical hidden messages, and love how Rudhi are portrayed as couple whose relationship is made divine because of how they deal with the most realistic problems...❤️
exactly ani exoessed his wish to be willing to intimate with her like he saiud u will be my wife tomorro and i will be ur husband and this aspoect has to be addressed between them as iske aklaav sab tha and it is realistic aspect of a realtion we cant deny for any marriage.but here there is love,mutual belongingness and everyhting
and he went to comfort bondita and whe bon expressed her consent he felt proud as bon understands these are some aspects which are close and needs a girl permisson again showing how a elder girl educated one thinks
and also -as he has knowledge about it
and bon who was new to all this if u see when kali dadi gave her actual lessons she realsied whatver she thouhgt to be rasme karo bas like bashi biye or any other rasam of shaadi-she thought in that way.kali dadi amde her understand this aspect too as she is a girl and then bon who was inexerienced,new felt shy and flsuetred correctly depcitng girl of that era
she is a gold medallist barrister but still a very innocent gil and such lessons were neevr taught to girls
they were tauhgt in this way 👍🏼
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