Originally posted by: majoni03
Dhara was saying if they make Suman wear adult diapers then she will feel more helpless. I dont understand what is the problem in wearing adult diapers.
I think itis because she perfectly fine mentally, it would be a point of huniliation for her.
When I had a vertigo episode couple of months ago and was in ER. The nurse wouldn't take me to the bathroom because I couldn't stand on my feet and was falling. I insisted that I am fine mentally and can hold the rails and use the bathroom, but she didn't allow me to walk and said I'd have to use the bed pan. I was so humiliated/embarrassed just by the thought of it. I held it in until my brother came and medicine started to have some effect. He walked me to the bathroom and walked using reails, etc. to the bathroom and then was using help for someone to hold me while I washed my hands.
So diapers is difficult. Especially if she can use the bathroom on her own with little help in turns of moving and helping her sit in the toilet.
Edited by Mountains_Lakes - 3 years ago