Will Raghav ever treat Pallavi with respect?

Today, Raghav made Jaya and Farhad promise not to tell Pallavi how he plans to protect her. If he loves Pallavi so much, doesn't she have a right to know his plans for her future? A right to make major decisions with him?

Why not ask Pallavi? "I have a plan to spare you the pain of signing those divorce papers and symbolically rejecting me. The only downside is that you'll have to go on our honeymoon alone, and I won't be around to protect you the next time your life is threatened, and you'll have to make conjugal visits to prison to conceive our children. I just want you to be happy, so it's worth it for me. On board?"

This would be the second time he blindsides her by going to prison. Last time, he knew that she wanted justice and he gave her a scapegoat instead, telling her that he was doing it to satisfy her.

There were also comparatively minor incidents of teasing her in disguise while she was already stressed, faking memory loss after she saved his life, and trying to pack her off to Kolhapur all alone instead of escorting her to her brother's house like a gentleman.

More than the hugging and kissing and pet names and crying for each other, I would like to see Raghav treating Pallavi like an equal partner.

In this neither Pallavi treats him that way nor Raghav treats Pallavi the way you mentioned..Both are tyaag ki murthy for the other...

Originally posted by: BrhannadaArmour

Today, Raghav made Jaya and Farhad promise not to tell Pallavi how he plans to protect her. If he loves Pallavi so much, doesn't she have a right to know his plans for her future? A right to make major decisions with him?

Why not ask Pallavi? "I have a plan to spare you the pain of signing those divorce papers and symbolically rejecting me. The only downside is that you'll have to go on our honeymoon alone, and I won't be around to protect you the next time your life is threatened, and you'll have to make conjugal visits to prison to conceive our children. I just want you to be happy, so it's worth it for me. On board?"

This would be the second time he blindsides her by going to prison. Last time, he knew that she wanted justice and he gave her a scapegoat instead, telling her that he was doing it to satisfy her.

There were also comparatively minor incidents of teasing her in disguise while she was already stressed, faking memory loss after she saved his life, and trying to pack her off to Kolhapur all alone instead of escorting her to her brother's house like a gentleman.

More than the hugging and kissing and pet names and crying for each other, I would like to see Raghav treating Pallavi like an equal partner.

@ bold : This idea is given by Pallavi only. She was the person who was ready to die instead of hving to sign the divorce papers. She gave him dt idea dt she prefers dying over putting down signatures over a piece of paper ......dt somehow will end their love.

In sai's language..kuch bhi...

When has ever disrespected her....

Those teasing and pranks u have mentioned, Timming might have been wrong which he realised and apologized but how is that disrespecting her .

He has always respected her views and her opinion have always matter to him...infact he respected the boundary she set and never crossed them..

Sorry I disagree with u...

Wait a second ...Telling your partner about your mahan stuffs it's not at all comes under disrespect ..😆if that the case then to Pallavi madam should get gold medal in disrespecting not only Raghav as her husband by beating him ..And not listening or trusting raghav regarding deshmukh matter and pallu ka bachpan ka pyaar mandar 😆

In short both did not respect each other to why should Raghav has all the fun 😎..

Originally posted by: d.padmini

In sai's language..kuch bhi...

When has ever disrespected her....

Those teasing and pranks u have mentioned, Timming might have been wrong which he realised and apologized but how is that disrespecting her .

He has always respected her views and her opinion have always matter to him...infact he respected the boundary she set and never crossed them..

Sorry I disagree with u...

You are disagreeing wid me ?😲

Par maine kahan kuch kaha ?

I toh just said ki dt Idea dt signing divorce papers are more important than her own life is put in his mind by Pallavi only.

In my opinion, what he is planning to do today is not disrespectful. If you notice there was a gradual built-up to this scene and it didn't come out of the blue.

Ofcourse if the makers added a few flashbacks here and there, it would have been easier to connect the dots.

Pallavi very clearly told Raghav that she would rather die than sign the papers. Now that Raghav has unknowingly signed the papers himself, he puts Pallavi in a spot. If she doesn't sign it, Mandar will get a doubt on her and it risks blowing their cover. Her life will be at risk for sure in that event. On the other hand, Pallavi will never sign the papers because for her the sanctity of her marriage with Raghav is more important than her life.

If I were in her place, may be I would be more practical saying I can always refute it over the course of 6 months or be able to even marry Raghav in the future. But it's not me we are talking about, it is Pallavi. For her, Raghav is her world and even not being Pallavi Raghav Rao on paper is not acceptable to her. I understand where she comes from and so does Raghav.

He is impulsive and does the thing that comes naturally to him. For him right now the best option to keep Pallavi safe (from Mandar and self harm) is to kill the source itself. While doing so, he doesn't realise that the option selected by him is also a death warrant for Pallavi. She will not be able to live without Raghav - remember Raghav jahan Pallavi wahan.

He has always given her the choice - be it to stay in the marriage, to decide how to take the relationship ahead, he respects her personal space at all times. This instance is a different one - it impacts both and them and the ideal solution is what both decide together. But even if he did decide the course of action, he does have her best interest at heart (however misplaced it is).

According to you not telling is disrespecting then pallu also not respect raghav

She has also not told him before giving promise to her baba that she will be in dhouse till mandaar recovers

Before hatching the play along with mandar plan

Raghav understood her code language otherwise he would have left heartbroken

She didnt taken him in confidance before doing this drama ok raghu dont have any problem but not all husbands should have been like raghav may be he dont like paraya mard claiming his wife as mandars wife she should have first let him know then should have moved forward with her plan

Ok that time she escaped from mandaar with this spontanious idea but later she would have told him using amrutas phone

Rghav has supported her many times

Today i didnt liked raghav actions one bit

still terming it as disrespect is not correct

I disagree with you

Originally posted by: joliefemme

In my opinion, what he is planning to do today is not disrespectful. If you notice there was a gradual built-up to this scene and it didn't come out of the blue.

Ofcourse if the makers added a few flashbacks here and there, it would have been easier to connect the dots.

Pallavi very clearly told Raghav that she would rather die than sign the papers. Now that Raghav has unknowingly signed the papers himself, he puts Pallavi in a spot. If she doesn't sign it, Mandar will get a doubt on her and it risks blowing their cover. Her life will be at risk for sure in that event. On the other hand, Pallavi will never sign the papers because for her the sanctity of her marriage with Raghav is more important than her life.

If I were in her place, may be I would be more practical saying I can always refute it over the course of 6 months or be able to even marry Raghav in the future. But it's not me we are talking about, it is Pallavi. For her, Raghav is her world and even not being Pallavi Raghav Rao on paper is not acceptable to her. I understand where she comes from and so does Raghav.

He is impulsive and does the thing that comes naturally to him. For him right now the best option to keep Pallavi safe (from Mandar and self harm) is to kill the source itself. While doing so, he doesn't realise that the option selected by him is also a death warrant for Pallavi. She will not be able to live without Raghav - remember Raghav jahan Pallavi wahan.

He has always given her the choice - be it to stay in the marriage, to decide how to take the relationship ahead, he respects her personal space at all times. This instance is a different one - it impacts both and them and the ideal solution is what both decide together. But even if he did decide the course of action, he does have her best interest at heart (however misplaced it is).

Agree with everything u said ....I don't support Raghav's self destruction plan, because for me raghav is still the born smart don who has the police and law in his pocket ,so it's hard to fathom he has no better idea than killing mandar, I believe they are many other ways to tackle this situation but having said that...

In a situation where raghvi is, if I step into his shoe, I feel it's difficult for him to think straight and logically..we are all discussing about how emotionally broke pallavi is, this man to is suffering, his world too has been turned upside down, he had to deal with his insecurities and fears, there was constant worry about his wife safety, no husband how ever understanding and modern he may be, can see his wife staying in her ex house ,with ex claiming her to be his wife, trying to be intimate with Her and all that...

His sister broke his trust in the worst possible way and since he is the one who signed the papers without reading them, he would be feeling guilty of the act and what pallavi told him, she would rather die than sign papers will be in the back of his mind..she is his wife, he loves her and he has promised her to take care of her and that he will find a way out.. all this would have left him emotionally drained out ..any person would have broken completely

But then since he is the raghav rao.. our expectations are more from him so we feel disappointed

Yes, Pallavi spoke an ultimatum out of despair about the divorce papers, but no matter how emotional or irrational his wife is under stress, Raghav's duty is to discuss their options with her, not to wreck her life and say she asked for it. If she's a bad wife for choosing to obey her father without consulting her husband, Raghav can either break up with her or forgive her, but her failings can't be his excuses.

Plot contrivances like this make it difficult to take Raghav seriously. He's supposedly this visionary businessman, but he can't see how he'll make Pallavi feel two steps into the future? The other time was when Jaya told him to marry Pallavi. Raghav acted as if the wedding was the finish line and Jaya wouldn't disown him again. He told Kirti that he would win this war; he even took out his chessboard to say that the king doesn't play by the rules ... but he never had a long-term strategy.