Barrister Babau Episode Discussion Thread - Page 68

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

Jealousy is NOT Insecurity. Ani will never feel insecure but jealousy he can feel 😆

Jealousy is not insecurity, jealousy stems from insecurity and a feeling of being replaced. Bon's jealousy about VJ and Mano stemmed from the same insecurity.

Ani knows that he is irreplaceable in Bon's life so jealousy nahi hogi...

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

I am Ashley... And mera opinion is that jealousy comes from insecurity rather than vice versa... So Bon ki insecurity during Mano track and with VJ lead to jealousy tab...

Ani on the other hand will be pretty binary emotions wise... Either he will be so secure about the relationship that usko kisi aur se koi farq nahi padega ya toh he will be 100 convinced that he is replaced in which case seedha heartbreak hoga...

Hi Ashley...🤗

While I understand your opinion... I have a slightly different view... Jealousy doesn't always (while most of the time it does) stem from insecurity... What I feel is that jealousy is very basic and primary emotion... And in my opinion one could be jealous without being insecure... These two emotions most of the time are driven by each other.... But on some rare occasions, one could be jealous without being insecure... And Ani, if he ever gets jealous, it would be one of such rare instances... He is possessive about her...and that might fuel his jealousy... But this doesn't mean that I am saying that he would go blind with jealousy... It will be one of the cute Ani moments...

Originally posted by: Smiley.6

Hi Ashley...🤗

While I understand your opinion... I have a slightly different view... Jealousy doesn't always (most of the time does) stem from insecurity... What I feel is that jealousy is very basic and primary emotion... And im my opinion one could be jealous without being insecure... These two emotions most of the time are driven by each other.... But on some rare occasions, one could be jealous without being insecure... And Ani, if he ever gets jealous, it would be one of such rare instances... He is possessive about her...and that might fuel his jealousy... But this doesn't mean that I am saying that he would go blind with jealousy... It will be one of the cute Ani moments...

So correct me if I am wrong, it won't be jealousy for another person who is around Bon, rather it would be about being upset that HE isn't getting attention?

If that is the case then Possessive Babu will definitely be a thing... Though you were right, it would not be for another man, rather something like Bon not spending time with him because she is busy goofing off with the kiddos...

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Jealousy is not insecurity, jealousy stems from insecurity and a feeling of being replaced. Bon's jealousy about VJ and Mano stemmed from the same insecurity.

Ani knows that he is irreplaceable in Bon's life so jealousy nahi hogi...

Wait I can explain 😆 This is my perspective hope you wouldn't mind. I am getting what you are trying to say, just saying what I personally believe. 😳

Insecurity arises when you get LESS importance or you feel low about your position. Jealousy arises when someone else gets MORE importance. Insecurity is about you but jealousy is about someone else. Ani is secured in his position but if someone be it Bondita's Chomu friend or anyone else be it Sumati or Junior Anirudh gets MORE attention from Bondita Awni may not always express but he will FEEL it. Jealousy is sometimes healthy but insecurity is never healthy that's the difference.

Maine explain Kiya Ki aur confused kar dia? 🤔

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Originally posted by: Ashley_m

So correct me if I am wrong, it won't be jealousy for another person who is around Bon, rather it would be about being upset that HE isn't getting attention?

If that is the case then Possessive Babu will definitely be a thing... Though you were right, it would not be for another man, rather something like Bon not spending time with him because she is busy goofing off with the kiddos...

Yes... That's what I am trying to say that Ani would not feel insecure that would lead upto him being jealous... It would be more about him not getting enough attention from her... He might get jealous of Roshogullas or due to a case that's been taking up Bon's attention...or because she is spending so much time with the family... Or he may even get jealous if some other man is paying a little extra attention to bon... And this would not be because he is insecure about Bon...it would most probably be due to his possessiveness...

Jealousy isn't always a result of a man(or a person) getting insecure about loosing his woman(person) to another man(person)...

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

Wait I can explain 😆 This is my perspective hope you wouldn't mind. I am getting what you are trying to say, just saying what I personally believe. 😳

Insecurity arises when you get LESS importance or you feel low about your position. Jealousy arises when someone else gets MORE importance. Insecurity is about you but jealousy is about someone else. Ani is secured in his position but if someone be it Bondita's Chomu friend or anyone else be it Sumati or Junior Anirudh gets MORE attention from Bondita Awni may not always express but he will FEEL it. Jealousy is sometimes healthy but insecurity is never healthy that's the difference.

Maine explain Kiya Ki aur confused kar dia? 🤔

Perfectly explain kiya... Thanks Arpita... So jise tum jealousy bolti ho usko mai possessiveness samajhti hu... Apne hisse ka attention kahin aur jaana...

Ani is possessive about Bon, there was a scene pre-leap where he did a possessive stamping of authority thing when Sampoo fed Bon roshogulla, declaring that while anyone can feed Bon Roshogulla, ek badam roshogulle khilana is his right.

Aise situation won't arise due to any stranger man, rather by an apna like Shash and the kiddos.

Originally posted by: A_for_Arpita

Wait I can explain 😆 This is my perspective hope you wouldn't mind. I am getting what you are trying to say, just saying what I personally believe. 😳

Insecurity arises when you get LESS importance or you feel low about your position. Jealousy arises when someone else gets MORE importance. Insecurity is about you but jealousy is about someone else. Ani is secured in his position but if someone be it Bondita's Chomu friend or anyone else be it Sumati or Junior Anirudh gets MORE attention from Bondita Awni may not always express but he will FEEL it. Jealousy is sometimes healthy but insecurity is never healthy that's the difference.

Maine explain Kiya Ki aur confused kar dia? 🤔

You put what I was trying to say in words... Couldn't have said it any better...❤️

Originally posted by: Smiley.6

Yes... That's what I am trying to say that Ani would not feel insecure that would lead upto him being jealous... It would be more about him not getting enough attention from her... He might get jealous of Roshogullas or due to a case that's been taking up Bon's attention...or because she is spending so much time with the family... Or he may even get jealous if some other man is paying a little extra attention to bon... And this would not be because he is insecure about Bon...it would most probably be due to his possessiveness...

Jealousy isn't always a result of a man(or a person) getting insecure about loosing his woman(person) to another man(person)...

Okay great, thanks for confirming Jini...

Waise, Roshogulle se Ani nahi jalega because Sahab ne bade cleverly wahan apna haq jama liya hai (ek badam waale roshogulle sirf mai khila sakta hu).🤣🤣

Also, his being jealous because another man is paying attention to Bon won't happen because that would be insecurity... Jealousy hogi if Bon gives more attention to someone else so someone apna is more likely.

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

Perfectly explain kiya... Thanks Arpita... So jise tum jealousy bolti ho usko mai possessiveness samajhti hu... Apne hisse ka attention kahin aur jaana...

Ani is possessive about Bon, there was a scene pre-leap where he did a possessive stamping of authority thing when Sampoo fed Bon roshogulla, declaring that while anyone can feed Bon Roshogulla, ek badam roshogulle khilana is his right.

Aise situation won't arise due to any stranger man, rather by an apna like Shash and the kiddos.

Sampoo ne Bondu ko Rashogolla khilaya? 😲 Which episode? 🤔

Ayyo appa 😭 Jishe main jealousy samajhti hnu ush ko tum possessiveness samajhti ho tho main jishe possessiveness samajhti hnu tum ush ko Kya samajhti ho? 😲 🤣