Stop Comparing Love! [Ft. Raghav & Pallavi] - Page 2

Thank you for this post ♥️

Great post 👍🏼

Sorry for the late reply ...

You have made such an impactful and beautiful post...

Each person loves according to his capacity...

I read it somewhere..

" Yeh joh mohabbat k 356 rules banaye hain logo ne, sab bekar hain..

Mohabbat wahi hoti hai joh har koi apne zarf ( capacity) k hisab se karta hai.... Rules b uske, promises b uske, ..

So similarly, Raghav loves Pallavi madly , passionately for him it's always giving.. protecting her, loving her...

For Pallavi it's different she too is a giver, she loves deeply, her love language is care..

We cannot compare love as each individual is different from the other...

It varies from person to person..

It cannot be compared or measured ...

Loved your thoughts and wholeheartedly agree with them! Can't wait to see how RaghVi tackle this problem of theirs together 😆 thanks for the tag!! 🤗

Thank you for this much needed post!

I never understood why people deem Pallavi to be “unworthy” of Raghav’s love? If he loves her so much, there must be a reason for it right? Just because she expresses her love differently than him doesn’t mean that she doesn’t love him as much as he does. She has suffered as much as he did when they were separated. Just because she doesn’t drink away her sorrows and then act impulsively doesn’t mean she isn’t hurting. I do not mean to downplay Raghav’s hurt in any way. He has been extremely hurt in all of this but that doesn’t mean Pallavi had it any easier.

Neither of them need to prove their love for each other to anyone. They both walked into all of this completely aware of each other’s flaws and they still chose to stay. They chose to love each other. That is all that matters. Regardless of how many mistakes either of them makes, they will always be there for each other. It wouldn’t be love if they gave up on each other at the slightest inconvenience.

You are absolutely right in saying we should be happy she thought the cook was creepy. I think as audience, we sometimes forget that what is visible to us is not apparent to the characters. Of course we know that the cook is Raghav in disguise but Pallavi doesn’t. So if she finds the cook creepy, she is not at fault here. We should be happy that she loves Raghav with all her heart.

Thank you once again for presenting such a balanced opinion and I’m sure with more people recognising the toxicity that has infiltrated the forum, we will soon be able to get rid of it!