Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #85|Farq Nahi Padta - Page 68

Originally posted by: mpks1

I am actually dreading this. Raavi and her friends, bad omen I tell you😆 Did you see my post about Raavi's friends, not one of them is worth talking about😆 All of them have the same complex, that is superiority complex😆

it's highly unlikely, this one might have ✨inferiority complex✨ to even things out 🤡

Originally posted by: wanderer102016

I agree with her being unkind, but I have a slightly different view!

I also think Shiva didn’t ponder much about what Raavi was actually feeling!
while he may have silently taken her taunts, he believed them to be 100 true!
but In reality she was lashing out, which is what people who go through trauma like she did do, she may have meant a portion of it, but I’m sure she didn’t mean any of it, or would have regretted it later!
also he could have been more verbal in his support, coz he very much verbalized his dislike for her!
Talking abt early marriage days when Raavi was very affected by the trauma and Shiva didn’t really express his turmoil if he was going through any from the wedding day!
I really wished he’d communicated to her abt empathizing with her situation, that may have helped her realize she’s unfairly lashing out on him!

I get ua pov completely!

But Shiva is never the kind to verbalise something. He has been shown a thinker, not a speaker.

And as far as Raavi is concerned. When a persons says things it effects the other person because it doesn't cone with a disclaimer ki-

Just lashing out. Take no heed.

No it affects the one who hears it. Raavi was in trauma and she lashed out everyday. I agree. But was Shiva in happy mode? He had to marry a woman he disliked a lot! And yet he was respectful of her during wedding and even afterwards he had been watchful and supportive. Raavi’s bitter words to him and silent acceptance to Dev triggered this.

I do not like Shiva now but he has been through a lot before

He had to marry someone he din like

He had to hear her taunts

He had to hear her dislike

Do u think a person who is already someone who doesn’t vocalise his pain open up to such a woman who was so happily walking all over him?

He tried before that kitchen scene. After that it went to hell.

U will see he has been actually trying then...

Subtle and low key.

Again like I said... I understand ua pov but I do not like CCC from before and AIM I dislike since his rage runner ways exceeded limits...

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

uh oh.. wrong thing to say honey 🤣

🤣 I know, but I was suppressing this thought for sooo long 🤣 But Dev has made me strangely happy... he's letting his wife work (even though he has no job of his own)... he seems lost and silly and I think of him as a comedy piece compared to the other characters who I'm starting to hate... so Dev has somehow climbed the leader board 🤣

Originally posted by: mpks1

I am actually dreading this. Raavi and her friends, bad omen I tell you😆 Did you see my post about Raavi's friends, not one of them is worth talking about😆 All of them have the same complex, that is superiority complex😆

But they were like cameos to cause drama lol this one might be a more regular friend lol I wonder of its an old friend or a new one she makes when she goes to apply for her masters

Originally posted by: Krishnapanchali

ofcourse had it been real life shivi would have done dusted long ago but its it so they wil magicall fall in lub and live happily ever after

the makers have done a very bad ground work for them among all the three pairs

I am sooo irritated with the deep trench being dug

I wish someone records him when he acts like that and then shows it to him when hes less angry. Because then you can be like "now do you see why people call you a gunda?" Or "why so and so had this reaction."

I wish someone had recorded the divorce signing drama. Then he would understand why Raavi signed it. Lord I not only would have signed but I would ask for compensation for my poor ear drums.

Legit all shivas crazy scary antics would end if he saw himself on video.

Also lock the man in a room with nothing. Cause the people need to know what he wants.

What does he want?

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Exactly and I wanted Dhara to question him about it. But I don't see any of them realizing their mistakes any time soon.

That's why we talked about sending both far far away to different locations from the family for sometime😕 They need the time off from each other. Being in the same location is not helping.

Originally posted by: wanderer102016

I agree with her being unkind, but I have a slightly different view!

I also think Shiva didn’t ponder much about what Raavi was actually feeling!
while he may have silently taken her taunts, he believed them to be 100 true!
but In reality she was lashing out, which is what people who go through trauma like she did do, she may have meant a portion of it, but I’m sure she didn’t mean any of it, or would have regretted it later!
also he could have been more verbal in his support, coz he very much verbalized his dislike for her!
Talking abt early marriage days when Raavi was very affected by the trauma and Shiva didn’t really express his turmoil if he was going through any from the wedding day!
I really wished he’d communicated to her abt empathizing with her situation, that may have helped her realize she’s unfairly lashing out on him!

P.S I agree he’s losing it now though 🤬

Originally posted by: mpks1

I am actually dreading this. Raavi and her friends, bad omen I tell you😆 Did you see my post about Raavi's friends, not one of them is worth talking about😆 All of them have the same complex, that is superiority complex😆

Lol, maybe you are right and 8th time's the charm 🤣

The girl's audition makes it seem like she will be another Raavi 2.0, so I'm really curious with what Raavi^2 solves 🤣

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Ohh ya I know Raavi is probably justified- my mind understands the logic

My heart still hates her... is dil ka kya karoon 🤣

I want another pair for Shiva 😆

Do as your heart says!

I also feel without communication they’ll never be good for each other and after hating and name calling each other, there’s no hope!
there should be respect for the other person, which both don’t have!
Their scorching chemistry will work out for a causal summer fling not a life long relationship and partnership which requires communication and understanding!
Finding other people after working on themselves is the best!

I am aboard the AShivi ship