Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi 3 Written Updates 26 Aug 2021 - Page 5

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

Right?! Earlier, I thought she may have fallen for him without knowing he was already taken. But this is the very first detail she knows about him, that he has someone in his life. She doesn't even know his name! Only that he has a special girl! Still wanting to meet him? It's so twisted!

Let’s see in the next episode today they might reveal what made her yearn for Mr Obhodro so badly . Hope there is a valid reason otherwise I agree , this is so twisted 😒

Thanks for the update😀

The purpose of therapy is to let the patient talk their feelings without any prejudgment. A counsellor’s responsibility is to observe the patient and guide them to process their emotions and how to connect with it foremost. The treatment phase is a long road. This counsellor seemed way too enthusiastic in my opinion. A counsellor is supposed to be unbiased towards her patients irrespective of their gender or social background. The fact that she questioned sonakshi’s helplessness because she is a successful businesswoman or the fact that she had already predecided that sonakshi is the stronger of the 2 makes her a bad choice for me. There’s no rule that says strong personalities shouldn’t be vulnerable or feel insecurities.

Although I’m not in favor of it I wasn’t surprised with sonakshi apologizing. The sleeping pill drama really shook her up, at this stage she is ready to do anything to mend her relationship, she has always been the one more invested in the relationship. Now it remains to see if dev is ready to accept (if they would even show) his contribution in the failure of his marriage 7 years back and his lack of communication between the 2 now. If not in the counseling session, at least own up to his mistakes to sonakshi, she deserves to be liberated from this guilt trip of both ma-beta duo. I’m just more interested in seeing if this is going to be an ongoing therapy session or just a namesake 1-episode plot. That would determine if the makers are really biased towards their ml at the cost of their fl for me.

Just my opinion that Ayush calling sonakshi mom had all the right elements, be it the bg song or the acting, but it still felt flat to me. It felt more like to-be-done checklist tick. There hasn’t actually been a proper conversation or anything emotionally connecting between the 2 post the name change kaand compared to ayush-dev interaction. I felt ayush calling her mom had more to do because he felt bad seeing sonakshi crying than to do with the actual relationship bonding. I guess my cynical opinion has more to do with the lack of proper addressing of all the issues in the show now.

Never cared about third angles because they are just passing clouds, so won’t bother to comment on the flower shop lady.

Originally posted by: Sanleema

Thanks for the update😀

The purpose of therapy is to let the patient talk their feelings without any prejudgment. A counsellor’s responsibility is to observe the patient and guide them to process their emotions and how to connect with it foremost. The treatment phase is a long road. This counsellor seemed way too enthusiastic in my opinion. A counsellor is supposed to be unbiased towards her patients irrespective of their gender or social background. The fact that she questioned sonakshi’s helplessness because she is a successful businesswoman or the fact that she had already predecided that sonakshi is the stronger of the 2 makes her a bad choice for me. There’s no rule that says strong personalities shouldn’t be vulnerable or feel insecurities.

Although I’m not in favor of it I wasn’t surprised with sonakshi apologizing. The sleeping pill drama really shook her up, at this stage she is ready to do anything to mend her relationship, she has always been the one more invested in the relationship. Now it remains to see if dev is ready to accept (if they would even show) his contribution in the failure of his marriage 7 years back and his lack of communication between the 2 now. If not in the counseling session, at least own up to his mistakes to sonakshi, she deserves to be liberated from this guilt trip of both ma-beta duo. I’m just more interested in seeing if this is going to be an ongoing therapy session or just a namesake 1-episode plot. That would determine if the makers are really biased towards their ml at the cost of their fl for me.

Just my opinion that Ayush calling sonakshi mom had all the right elements, be it the bg song or the acting, but it still felt flat to me. It felt more like to-be-done checklist tick. There hasn’t actually been a proper conversation or anything emotionally connecting between the 2 post the name change kaand compared to ayush-dev interaction. I felt ayush calling her mom had more to do because he felt bad seeing sonakshi crying than to do with the actual relationship bonding. I guess my cynical opinion has more to do with the lack of proper addressing of all the issues in the show now.

Never cared about third angles because they are just passing clouds, so won’t bother to comment on the flower shop lady.

Bold 1: This was most unsettling to me.

If she had asked, "Why do you have so many expectations from Dev?" I wouldn't have batted an eyelid.

But asking, "You are a strong and independent woman, why do you have so many expectations from Dev?" was very judgemental.

It implied that strong women should not expect anything from their spouse. That is not how it is.

Strong, independent women have just as much right to feel vulnerable, helpless in some situations and they would look to their partner for support. Strong, independent women are also human.

Bold 2: I didn't like that she was apologizing so much. But I am willing to cut some slack. It's only the first day. I think there will be more sessions. Hopefully they will broach more topics, go deeper and Dev will also realize his follies. Already, his letter with the bouquet showed that he thinks she takes a lot of effort for their relationship to work. That's a step in the right direction. So yay!

We all are old school of thought in this Suta 😊

if these are shown in a movie of 2 to 3 hours we just watch review and move on. That sanctity was maintained in Doordarshan days and little when multiple channels opened up; but, with the advent of Ekta like producers, the moral threshold has been pushed to the limits is what i firmly believe and there were other PHs which followed her with such unceremonious stuffs in the name of entertainment 🤔

It's unfortunate that such things sell on TV - a daily dose of such utter rubbish in our living / drawing rooms. It's so distasteful even for western TV standards as far as family dramas are concerned; there are Big Boss, or Game of thrones, etc which in my opinion caters to a niche audiences not families with younger children. In india all watch this together as a family mostly is what i have heard. 😔

Viji

Even i had the feeling that Ayush addressing both as momma and papa were rushed, fell flat for the build up they gave; Both Dev & Sona's reactions were not exhilarating enough for me 🤷🏻‍♀️ may be my expectation is very high from this show which i enjoyed previously.

Am aware there were fans who liked the subtle and quiet approach of Devakshi instead of being dramatic. I felt something amiss😐

Regarding counseling session, i think less said the better 😂 i don't even understand how Dev who bottles up all his thots from his own mother, his wife and all family members suddenly opened up like a bottle of champagne in the first session itself😆 I truly wish such a miracle worker for my issues too 😅😅

viji

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

Bold 1: This was most unsettling to me.

If she had asked, "Why do you have so many expectations from Dev?" I wouldn't have batted an eyelid.

But asking, "You are a strong and independent woman, why do you have so many expectations from Dev?" was very judgemental.

It implied that strong women should not expect anything from their spouse. That is not how it is.

Strong, independent women have just as much right to feel vulnerable, helpless in some situations and they would look to their partner for support. Strong, independent women are also human.

Bold 2: I didn't like that she was apologizing so much. But I am willing to cut some slack. It's only the first day. I think there will be more sessions. Hopefully they will broach more topics, go deeper and Dev will also realize his follies. Already, his letter with the bouquet showed that he thinks she takes a lot of effort for their relationship to work. That's a step in the right direction. So yay!

The question about expectations from a partner itself was so misplaced or outright wrong in my opinion. She never bothered to identify the root of the situation, instead it was more in the context of blaming. Why shouldn’t a wife have expectations from a husband? If all strong/independent people shouldn’t have expectations from their partners, why do they even need a partner in the first place? The logical questions would have been about why it happened or what led to it, and absolutely no questions about the past separation. This is supposed to be the first time, so I think she couldn’t cover everything. So let’s see if going forward all the past issues are addressed or she just turns out to be another version of mr. quick fix, Some yoga, some coffee and bam issues solved.

I have no expectations from the makers towards sonakshi. They will try their best to shift blame on her in the public and make dev repent in his mind. Frankly I wasn’t impressed with the letter because there’s no guarantee what he will say tomorrow if faced with another issue. If he accepts he was wrong to sonakshi in front of his mother, then that would be a real progress in their relationship. Hey small mercies right, so yay…

Originally posted by: Sanleema

The question about expectations from a partner itself was so misplaced or outright wrong in my opinion. She never bothered to identify the root of the situation, instead it was more in the context of blaming. Why shouldn’t a wife have expectations from a husband? If all strong/independent people shouldn’t have expectations from their partners, why do they even need a partner in the first place? The logical questions would have been about why it happened or what led to it, and absolutely no questions about the past separation. This is supposed to be the first time, so I think she couldn’t cover everything. So let’s see if going forward all the past issues are addressed or she just turns out to be another version of mr. quick fix, Some yoga, some coffee and bam issues solved.

I have no expectations from the makers towards sonakshi. They will try their best to shift blame on her in the public and make dev repent in his mind. Frankly I wasn’t impressed with the letter because there’s no guarantee what he will say tomorrow if faced with another issue. If he accepts he was wrong to sonakshi in front of his mother, then that would be a real progress in their relationship. Hey small mercies right, so yay…

I have been extremely skeptical about the whole counseling business, because I don't think ITV will show it the way it is supposed to be. Marriage counselors don't help to get the two people back with each other, they help them to identify their issues and recognize if they want to work on them, resolving conflict or go their separate ways. But I will not nitpick, because just showing that couples can go to counseling is a decent step for ITV show, considering I just found out on this thread from Viji that there are much crazier shows!

So for me, as much as the way the counseling is going is not the very correct, it's ok, as long as it's not outrightly judgemental and biased towards one person. Dev got to express more in this episode, I hope Sona gets to, in the next one. My expectations regarding this is fairly low.

Originally posted by: vijisridhar

Even i had the feeling that Ayush addressing both as momma and papa were rushed, fell flat for the build up they gave; Both Dev & Sona's reactions were not exhilarating enough for me 🤷🏻‍♀️ may be my expectation is very high from this show which i enjoyed previously.

Am aware there were fans who liked the subtle and quiet approach of Devakshi instead of being dramatic. I felt something amiss😐

Regarding counseling session, i think less said the better 😂 i don't even understand how Dev who bottles up all his thots from his own mother, his wife and all family members suddenly opened up like a bottle of champagne in the first session itself😆 I truly wish such a miracle worker for my issues too 😅😅

viji

Hi… Thank you for the tag😀

Bold - I have the same feeling towards the show. This show was really a breath of fresh air at a time when only high-voltage dramas ruled the ITV. The return of it set a high expectation for me. I guess not everything stays perfect forever.

Regarding the bottling up of emotions, oftentimes it’s easy to talk to a stranger whose opinion doesn’t matter to you and there’s no fear of being judged. I think the reason it comes across odd is because he was always shown as someone who didn’t express himself within his family and anyway who did he have in his crazy family. The only person he has shared anything with has been sonakshi, so I was actually surprised with the episode where dev said he wanted to have 2 minutes of peace from her. I mean is this the same guy who would go to meet her, even before they weren’t in a relationship, irrespective of the time to share his feelings with her? I get that the friendship they once shared is lost and his biggest support system is lost, but was it so unbearable that he would rather stay away from her. By this logic how’s sonakshi staying in her father’s house for a much needed break wrong? Doesn’t she deserve the same as him? The scale of judgment for a woman and a man, especially a mother and father has always been unbalanced. The hypocrisy of the society has always been this way. How can a mother take a break, what about her kids? doesn’t she care about the kids? The same doesn’t apply to a father because he is the breadwinner with so many responsibilities and he deserves the break.

As far as him sharing anything with his mother, dev only says what ishwari wants to hear and not what he actually feels. If they actually shared an understanding relationship, dev would have shared his love to ishwari first, but he ended up hiding it until he wasn’t told by mamaji that she already was aware of it.

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

I have been extremely skeptical about the whole counseling business, because I don't think ITV will show it the way it is supposed to be. Marriage counselors don't help to get the two people back with each other, they help them to identify their issues and recognize if they want to work on them, resolving conflict or go their separate ways. But I will not nitpick, because just showing that couples can go to counseling is a decent step for ITV show, considering I just found out on this thread from Viji that there are much crazier shows!

So for me, as much as the way the counseling is going is not the very correct, it's ok, as long as it's not outrightly judgemental and biased towards one person. Dev got to express more in this episode, I hope Sona gets to, in the next one. My expectations regarding this is fairly low.

I agree. The thought process of even showing counseling as a solution to a marital problem is a big step for ITV, Otherwise it’s either do or die in the form of separations and leaps.

See this is what raises the bar for me in this show, they actually try to find a realistic approach, but then ends up in disappointment when they don’t fully finish it through.

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Natasha was the luckiest totally agreed

😍😍😍

Sana 🤣🤣🤣...second most

There was one blue gown wearing girl , after leap that girl also was lucky

😂😂

She is Nisha😆