Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #84|ShiVi's Dhol Face Off - Page 45

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

looking for this prems? 🤣

Yes this was what I was talking about🤣

This and Dhara’s hospital drama are on par being the stupidest thing I have ever seen on ITV.

A person who had flatlined heart rate goes on to walking and more so dancing within hours😕 Also never seen anything like this for pregnancy confirmation in my life, this is not even childbirth

Originally posted by: Transference

Every track!

Hat ja samne se, teri Bhabhi khadi hai 🤪🤣

This should be the new title track 🤣

Originally posted by: Shazzy786786

It’s funny because I always liked shiva not because he was confident or chattan pandya but because he was hard working and had a lot of integrity. He respected relationships and treated people accordingly. But this shiva has absolutely no respect for the marriage he entered into willingly. Even when raavi was being difficult he still fulfilled his responsibilities as her husband and that was when he didn’t even like her. But since the sneha kaand it’s like he’s had a personality transplant and has zero respect for himself, raavi, his family or his relationship. Raavi was still blackmailed into marrying him by her maasa pa but he willingly entered into the marriage and now because he’s developed feelings and it’s became hard he’s throwing his toys out of the Pram. This is not the shiva I loved and frankly his yoyo behaviour is giving me emotional whiplash. I feel very little sympathy for him because this whole mess is of his own making. What he can’t process his feelings so instead of talking it out he decides to end the whole thing instead and return to premarriage normal. The worst of it is, is the mohalla aunties will taunt raavi and not him despite witnessing he his god awful behaviour. The girl always gets the blame. His actions are completely shortsighted. What does he think is going to happen? That raavi will find a good guy and get married again just like that. Even today in India there is a lot of negativity around divorce and getting remarried after divorce is very difficult. Most families look down upon divorced women and even when there own sons are divorced with several children they still want an unmarried virgin for their precious sons so in what world does he think that raavi will find an amazing man who will overlook her divorce and even if he does will his family. There is stupidity and then there is this. He is supposed to be street smart he knows what the world is like and he has witnessed what his dhara has gone through for having no children so does he not realise what raavi will now go through because of him. I can’t believe he genuinely has no clue. Is he that dense?

Same with me. I loved him post the leap when he threatened mami, gave up his studies ,I loved the bond with his family . It was so selfless and pure.. somehow him.and raavi never struck a chord with me post marriage.. pre marriage I was looking forward to them ..its such a let down...I don't want conversations..I want anything relatable. Rage is the only issue they have highlighted between them. 🤢 I would be OK with it if it wasn't the only thing..show them Fallin in love ..

Mami might be evil but she is right ..dharas upbringing I'd the problem. N this has been proven time time again that bandars need to shoulder equal responsibilities at home and store , they need to look after their personal life without any interference , they need to be given freedom to choose their career , they also need to be financially independent..... here dhara or suman throws a fit the moment something untoward happens..is this the precedence they are setting for the young ? What if raavi didn't sign the papers? Shiva would jump in the well?

@bold 👏 exactly my question..is he that dense ? During kangan kaand also he displayed the same tendencies. Ye bas bhoot savar ho jaata hai and then he shuts the world out. My problem is raavi must not suffer ..if he has an issue , give himself space , try to figure things out .take time out.. Stop talking to her but is baat par koi divorce deta hai? Abhi mohalla aunties don't know what he accused her of..phir mil gaya raavi ko rishta.

It won't come to this , we all know. Itv.court might ask them to stay together for 6 months and we will go aaawww on them again 🥱 mujhe toh ye sab se family drama dekhna acha lagta hai. Rishita and suman r mostly funny..

Originally posted by: Transference

Bad bad bad. I am missing out on a lot of fun here.

How are you 🤗

I miss my early morning discussions with ML, Prema and Alu too

Piu🤗 miss you too❤️ Hope you get well soon and we can go back to like how it was before, I miss lot of our other old members too Nami, Sofia, Neha and few others. I am here during LU and couple of hours after that. As I am not familiar with lot of new members in the EDT, don’t post much. Also I want this track to get over soon, want to see something positive in everyone’s life, not just mature couple’s life.
I see that many here want relationship like GauRa, I used to relate to them until the Danda episode, since then don’t care for them at all.

I would say my relationship with my husband is much much better than the mature couple. Infact I can teach them how to raise kids as they have done a piss poor job and their parenting skills suck. They resort to beating at the drop of a hat without ever knowing the full story or even try to find it. Both are known to sweep things under the rug, pretend that everything is fine and there is no problem whatsoever😕

My parents and my in-laws are my role models in raising my children. Both the couples have done a commendable job❤️

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Once again in front of the whole mohalla

They seriously need to "get a room" 😐

Again and again I am irritated that the makers are making a mockery of the relationships and family by public display. How will anybody respect Pandya parivar or Mami’s family in Somnath. Either it is Shiva and tomorrow it will be Raavi. Do the makers even have any sense in writing such scenes?😕

I am a very private person when it comes to serious matters, won’t even share it with mom or my in-laws and we try to solve amongst ourselves. But here, everything shown is just the opposite of how it should be done, I am sure somebody from the writing team is going through a serious family problem and it is reflected in the poor writing😕

Originally posted by: mpks1

Yes this was what I was talking about🤣

This and Dhara’s hospital drama are on par being tje stupidest thing I have ever seen in ITV.

A person who had flatlined heart rate goes on to walking and more so dancing within hours😕 Also never seen anything like this for pregnancy confirmation in my life, this is not even childbirth

Originally posted by: mpks1

Piu🤗 miss you too❤️ Hope you get well soon and we can go back to like how it was before, I miss lot of our other old members too Nami, Sofia, Neha and few others. I am here during LU and couple of hours after that. As I am not familiar with lot of new members in the EDT, don’t post much. Also I want this track to get over soon, want to see something positive in everyone’s life, not just mature couple’s life.
I see that many here want relationship like GauRa, I used to relate to them until the Danda episode, since then don’t care for them at all.

I would say my relationship with my husband is much much better than the mature couple. Infact I can teach them how to raise kids as they have done a piss poor job and their parenting skills suck. They resort to beating at the drop of a hat without ever knowing the full story or even try to find it. Both are known to sweep things under the rug, pretend that everything is fine and there is no problem whatsoever😕

My parents and my in-laws are my role models in raising my children. Both the couples have done a commendable job❤️

Originally posted by: _charu_

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I want Shiva to learn some cloning techniques , bec he can only live with a person like dhara ..raavi may still find a nice guy and live happily ever after but he won't.. He is too demanding emotionally, that's ingrained in his upbringing .. a relationship works both ways..dhara is the giver and he is the receiver ..it never happened the other way round.. ..he could never grow in a true sense , to understand what husband and wife relation is..the essence of life is change..n marriage brings a lot of changes..but when the bar is set so high , it leads to this.

He is used to dhara bhabhi understanding all his justified Nd unjustified needs and actions , but raavi is not dhara. She isn't a mind reader . She has been abused and thrown away , if she lashes out or does crazy stuff , I don't find it weird ..how else will she react ? Let's sit down and talk ? I think she suggested it in the course of events , but all in vain.....When Shiva says tu mere saath khush nai rahegi , it just shows his arrogance than anything else..Matlab woh badlega nai kuch bhi karlo, apne pyar ko bhi tyag diya. The best solution that he came up with, be Mahan , and sacrifice love..arre karna hai toh karo, he found an excuse to character assassinate her and throw her out 🤢 if I were raavi I would never come bk after kangan kaand but ye ladki paglon jaise dance karte wohi raat wapas aa gayi🤢

Anyways ..I would always pick raavi over Shiva, she may thebe flawed , dumb, jungli but she is still a better person. If this is gonna end with a sorry , like it happened in kangan kaand , well, I may detach sooner.

I think that's one side ofthe coin.. I do agree that this would be the reaction most of us would support if it was happening to someone in real...

The other side of the coin is, we watch fiction to see how a very imperfect relation can make it together over their imperfections.. shiva is not perfect...neither is ravi.. both are very much flawed...infact childishly flawed ..and personally I want to see things work out for them even if they r so much flawed..

I do agree I wasn't happy when ravi came back to house after kangan kaand..I never got their justification for him doing all those kaands..First putting up the condition to leave ravi if mami doesn't give kangan.. and the other suicide drama..ravi got back becz shiva brought another bangle..but how does that dignify the fact that he put her on the table for a kangan..but i decided to let go for the previous reason..I accepted that shiva was a bit childish ... And a bit desperate..to be honest...thats what I got from ravi.. she is desperate to be in the pandya family..and for that she ignored every red flag when she should have reacted for her self-respect...anyways..again I let it go..becz I accepted her for who she is..it is the writers character..they can make her the way they want..so I kept following to see how these foolish people will start getting serious about themselves..now at this stage.. I am actually seeing progress in both of them...this time shiva is not throwing her from his life for any selfish reason. His reason can be stupid to some. but I sort of understand him..it is not everybody's cup of tea to change from being someone they have been their whole life even if they r not happy with themselves. .. ..its just human...personally I believe love shouldn't be conditional..so it is not necessary for him to change.

And him wishing that ravi would understand him, I dnt see what's the problem in that.. dhara has brought him up..so he knws she understands him just like any mother..(though I am not satisfied with dharas understanding of shiva 😆)..but ravi has been living with him under the same roof same room..they have known eachother since childhood. She knows his worst side..after marriage they have been through many thick and thins and somewhat they have always been for each other when the other needed it...so shiva expecting her to understand and like him for who he is, is understandable to me..and sneha and diary twisted him thoughts in such a way, he can't come out of his insecurity..he did mention about him being worthless..but he can't be open about his feelings for ravi. He felt himself to be too worthless to let that out..and be heartbroken again....but i can't blame ravi if she doesn't understand what shiva wants to convey..she is human too. With all the imperfections of her own like shiva.....

Originally posted by: frnd_ship

Kuch na milwo kucho nhi after the shocking heartattack I want on Monday mujhe koi umeed hi nhi h ache shivi scenes ki 😑😑😑😑😑😑

Pta chle Raavi to spite shiva shadi announce krde apni aur humara majhnu apni hi laila k dil ka murder krde with his talks

I want him to bajao dhol in her wedding ekdum shiddat se and bida bhi kare🤣

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

I want him to bajao dhol in her wedding ekdum shiddat se and bida bhi kare🤣

I want him to take part in all the rasams and dance too 🥳