Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #84|ShiVi's Dhol Face Off - Page 44

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Raavi should be happy that she’s free from the relationship that gave her so much pain so why does she care? It’s over get over it slowly. Why this dhol drama but whatever both can celebrate divorce together and I think shiva will also disclose dharas pregnancy.

I’m happy this divorce is finally done, dimaag ka dahi karliya tah makers ne.

Show depressed and self evolving shiva now who works on himself by himself. It’s better if he leaves the family but I don’t think he will so I rather him stay distanced from his bakwas family and work on himself to become a better and stronger person.

As of raavi I don’t really care what she does, let her do a job with her degree or get her remarried.

Originally posted by: ShivaandRaavi

Raavi should be happy that she’s free from the relationship that gave her so much pain so why does she care? It’s over get over it slowly. Why this dhol drama but whatever both can celebrate divorce together and I think shiva will also disclose dharas pregnancy.

I’m happy this divorce is finally done, dimaag ka dahi karliya tah makers ne.

Show depressed and self evolving shiva now who works on himself by himself. It’s better if he leaves the family but I don’t think he will so I rather him stay distanced from his bakwas family and work on himself to become a better and stronger person.

As of raavi I don’t really care what she does, let her do a job with her degree or get her remarried.

job karni hai to kare but shaadi zarur kare kisi se....I would bajao dhol if she really goes away

Originally posted by: Transference

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they don't have emoticon of eye roll or something similar 👎🏼

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

job karni hai to kare but shaadi zarur kare kisi se....I would bajao dhol if she really goes away

Me and you both dhol bajao if it happens

Exactly and frankly if it was me in raavi’s position I would have reacted a long time ago all she has done is respond in kind to him as did to her and even then it was only when he publicly humiliated her did she start insulting him too. She is no mind reader as you have said so how is she to no that he is being a complete **whole to her because he likes her. Like what kind of twisted logic is this. as she has said his behaviour suggests he genuinely hates the very site of her and to be honest the things he has said to her are beyond hurtful and in that position any girl would have broken a long time ago. She still tried to adjust for him. The fact is she never asked him to adjust for her and instead tried to adjust for him. She didn’t break the marriage shiva did. He ended it publicly. He got the divorce papers. He said he would not let her stay in the house even if she didn’t sign. What is she supposed to make of this. I genuinely believe that if he had given her any clue as to his genuine feeling she would not have signed the divorce papers and would not have left him but he didn’t give her choice just forced his decision on her. I can’t see how they can back from this and that is the most heartbreaking thing. This whole track has been Stupid and unnecessary. I would have been happy with a slower journey to love with a focus on the store, the growing business, gaura’s fertility issues and devta relationship development than this. Ruined the very essence of the show.

Originally posted by: Shazzy786786

Exactly and frankly if it was me in raavi’s position I would have reacted a long time ago all she has done is respond in kind to him as did to her and even then it was only when he publicly humiliated her did she start insulting him too. She is no mind reader as you have said so how is she to no that he is being a complete **whole to her because he likes her. Like what kind of twisted logic is this. as she has said his behaviour suggests he genuinely hates the very site of her and to be honest the things he has said to her are beyond hurtful and in that position any girl would have broken a long time ago. She still tried to adjust for him. The fact is she never asked him to adjust for her and instead tried to adjust for him. She didn’t break the marriage shiva did. He ended it publicly. He got the divorce papers. He said he would not let her stay in the house even if she didn’t sign. What is she supposed to make of this. I genuinely believe that if he had given her any clue as to his genuine feeling she would not have signed the divorce papers and would not have left him but he didn’t give her choice just forced his decision on her. I can’t see how they can back from this and that is the most heartbreaking thing. This whole track has been Stupid and unnecessary. I would have been happy with a slower journey to love with a focus on the store, the growing business, gaura’s fertility issues and devta relationship development than this. Ruined the very essence of the show.

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I want Shiva to learn some cloning techniques , bec he can only live with a person like dhara ..raavi may still find a nice guy and live happily ever after but he won't.. He is too demanding emotionally, that's ingrained in his upbringing .. a relationship works both ways..dhara is the giver and he is the receiver ..it never happened the other way round.. ..he could never grow in a true sense , to understand what husband and wife relation is..the essence of life is change..n marriage brings a lot of changes..but when the bar is set so high , it leads to this.

He is used to dhara bhabhi understanding all his justified Nd unjustified needs and actions , but raavi is not dhara. She isn't a mind reader . She has been abused and thrown away , if she lashes out or does crazy stuff , I don't find it weird ..how else will she react ? Let's sit down and talk ? I think she suggested it in the course of events , but all in vain.....When Shiva says tu mere saath khush nai rahegi , it just shows his arrogance than anything else..Matlab woh badlega nai kuch bhi karlo, apne pyar ko bhi tyag diya. The best solution that he came up with, be Mahan , and sacrifice love..arre karna hai toh karo, he found an excuse to character assassinate her and throw her out 🤢 if I were raavi I would never come bk after kangan kaand but ye ladki paglon jaise dance karte wohi raat wapas aa gayi🤢

Anyways ..I would always pick raavi over Shiva, she may be flawed , dumb, jungli but she is still a better person. If this is gonna end with a sorry , like it happened in kangan kaand , well, I may detach sooner.

Originally posted by: deeps07

@bold...this was really one good dialogue..I was glad he said that to her..no one is understanding him..and hopefully it's not far when everyone understands why he is being like this..and dharas concern in between dance was also touching to be honest..even krish was looking at shiva in between dancing..but he was giving looks rather than sympathetic..🤪

I know right?

Shiva was complaining just like a baby does to his mother & it felt really raw.💔

Honestly,preleap & even for some times postleap YKB used to make me feel so fuzy,warm & emotional -main courtesy to this vabi devar bond.

But now they have almost ruined YKB moments.instead of feeling happy, i almost dread ykb sequence now a days😵

Originally posted by: _charu_

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I want Shiva to learn some cloning techniques , bec he can only live with a person like dhara ..raavi may still find a nice guy and live happily ever after but he won't.. He is too demanding emotionally, that's ingrained in his upbringing .. a relationship works both ways..dhara is the giver and he is the receiver ..it never happened the other way round.. ..he could never grow in a true sense , to understand what husband and wife relation is..the essence of life is change..n marriage brings a lot of changes..but when the bar is set so high , it leads to this.

He is used to dhara bhabhi understanding all his justified Nd unjustified needs and actions , but raavi is not dhara. She isn't a mind reader . She has been abused and thrown away , if she lashes out or does crazy stuff , I don't find it weird ..how else will she react ? Let's sit down and talk ? I think she suggested it in the course of events , but all in vain.....When Shiva says tu mere saath khush nai rahegi , it just shows his arrogance than anything else..Matlab woh badlega nai kuch bhi karlo, apne pyar ko bhi tyag diya. The best solution that he came up with, be Mahan , and sacrifice love..arre karna hai toh karo, he found an excuse to character assassinate her and throw her out 🤢 if I were raavi I would never come bk after kangan kaand but ye ladki paglon jaise dance karte wohi raat wapas aa gayi🤢

Anyways ..I would always pick raavi over Shiva, she may be flawed , dumb, jungli but she is still a better person. If this is gonna end with a sorry , like it happened in kangan kaand , well, I may detach sooner.

Totally agree with you well said 👏👏

It’s funny because I always liked shiva not because he was confident or chattan pandya but because he was hard working and had a lot of integrity. He respected relationships and treated people accordingly. But this shiva has absolutely no respect for the marriage he entered into willingly. Even when raavi was being difficult he still fulfilled his responsibilities as her husband and that was when he didn’t even like her. But since the sneha kaand it’s like he’s had a personality transplant and has zero respect for himself, raavi, his family or his relationship. Raavi was still blackmailed into marrying him by her maasa pa but he willingly entered into the marriage and now because he’s developed feelings and it’s became hard he’s throwing his toys out of the Pram. This is not the shiva I loved and frankly his yoyo behaviour is giving me emotional whiplash. I feel very little sympathy for him because this whole mess is of his own making. What he can’t process his feelings so instead of talking it out he decides to end the whole thing instead and return to premarriage normal. The worst of it is, is the mohalla aunties will taunt raavi and not him despite witnessing he his god awful behaviour. The girl always gets the blame. His actions are completely shortsighted. What does he think is going to happen? That raavi will find a good guy and get married again just like that. Even today in India there is a lot of negativity around divorce and getting remarried after divorce is very difficult. Most families look down upon divorced women and even when there own sons are divorced with several children they still want an unmarried virgin for their precious sons so in what world does he think that raavi will find an amazing man who will overlook her divorce and even if he does will his family. There is stupidity and then there is this. He is supposed to be street smart he knows what the world is like and he has witnessed what his dhara has gone through for having no children so does he not realise what raavi will now go through because of him. I can’t believe he genuinely has no clue. Is he that dense?