Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #83|ShiVi ka Divorce (Red Alert) - Page 36

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Does the court order couples to go for marriage councelling before the final divorce?

Do we still think that the writer will show anything logical that happens in the real world???I TV mein there are fictional rules made up for the sole convenience of the characters 🤔

If they dont go for marriage councelling , then why did they make rishita say all that?

Was it to actually prove that Dhara and Suman are right that therapist only mint money

No plzzzzz Noooo 😕

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Exactly! What a mess! Anyways, didn’t mami want Raavi to get a divorce soon after the marriage so why is she screaming now?

I dnt knw..I am hating literally everybody after watching today's episode...everything..stupid thelmasala murder scene..🤔..no counsellor when dhara is here scene.. gynec is a mood dependent option...mami screaming at dhara for marrying gombi🤪..suman with her adbhut no counsellor when I am better equipped gyan...rishitha talking reason is good.. but what is the point anyways..🤪she was so confident when she said she will convince dhara and suman.. I found her attemot very futile 🤔..dev was dev.. no butchering..as good as non existing..I didn't hate gombi today..but I feel he is useless right now..if not for the bg music when gombi talks. I would have hated him too .😆..ravi...Good that u r supporting mami...for standing up for u and asking these people out for shivas actions. ...but dear..its not abt u anymore..its about dhara anitha now. U better stay out of that mess...🤪..shiva...man..why were u suffocating her..ok u can't accept that she hated thel masala smell...so u will suffocate her ?..yaar..please calm down and get help..I knw psychologist is far from this pandya universe..but atleast tell ravi the truth now..I dnt have hope in ur family. They wouldn't understand if u rub ur truth to their face like u did with ur shirt on ravi ..tell ravi that u feel like killing her with his shirt..she will leave u without much fuss...trust me..😳..i am irritated with everyone right now... every characters..writers...as if everyone is hell bent on throwing bakwas at us .. 😵..I did like the acting and direction though..especially the hand on the heart scene..kanwar was excellent..and Shiny too was good..but right now the scenes are torture..

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I would've loved to see this!

It's quite frustrating that Raavi has taken a backseat in her major track. We were just introduced to Raavi angrily staring at Shiva... and I just assumed that Raavi is entirely angry that Shiva has not done anything to salvage this relationship.. he hasn't attempted to talk or listen. He hasn't had even a flicker of remorse. But again, that was my assumption since I'm left to assume many things with Raavi's character...

Seeing the natural progression of her getting the notice, to hearing her thoughts of confusion, asking herself "What did I do wrong?" to anger of "I can't believe Shiva would divorce me like this! T-this means he does believe I am a characterless woman!" to sadness "What did I do to deserve the allegations!?!" to anger again, "Why am I stuck in this cycle of unhappiness? Why didn't I stand my ground and say no when marriage was offered to me?"

I think all of those emotions would've caused the viewer to connect to Raavi

I agree! They need to make her the focus rather than being a reactionary figure.

But after watching the episode I felt really bad for her! Shiva has been unnecessarily rude to her in this episode and his tone gets unbearably horrible only when he addresses her!

He’s never once tried to empathize with her, talk to her rather than making assumptions abt what’s good for her, that’s what landed them both in this situation!
Raavi atleast made an effort and Shiva didn’t even acknowledge it and reciprocate!
I am pissed off at him today, especially his dream of strangling her shows how much he hates her or sees her as someone who doesn’t deserve to live, just coz she doesn’t get him. While he makes zero effort to Express his feelings!
Sorry for the rant, i am triggered 😕

I do feel that therapy will be explored in the future episodes else they would have never brought it up .

Maybe that is when Shiva will open up about this feelings for Raavi

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

If they dont go for marriage councelling , then why did they make rishita say all that?

Was it to actually prove that Dhara and Suman are right that therapist only mint money

No plzzzzz Noooo 😕

If anything I think it may be to show that Dhara needs to stop interferring at least.

Like they showed Dhara's shocked face when Rishita said that when Dhara got involved, Shiva sent Divorce papers.

It could also be her accusations and her reaction bro what she would have done in that situation.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I would've loved to see this!

It's quite frustrating that Raavi has taken a backseat in her major track. We were just introduced to Raavi angrily staring at Shiva... and I just assumed that Raavi is entirely angry that Shiva has not done anything to salvage this relationship.. he hasn't attempted to talk or listen. He hasn't had even a flicker of remorse. But again, that was my assumption since I'm left to assume many things with Raavi's character...

Seeing the natural progression of her getting the notice, to hearing her thoughts of confusion, asking herself "What did I do wrong?" to anger of "I can't believe Shiva would divorce me like this! T-this means he does believe I am a characterless woman!" to sadness "What did I do to deserve the allegations!?!" to anger again, "Why am I stuck in this cycle of unhappiness? Why didn't I stand my ground and say no when marriage was offered to me?"

I think all of those emotions would've caused the viewer to connect to Raavi

@bold- exactly this 💯

They could've even shown that she was in shock and didn't want to go to Shiva right away...that it was Mami dragging her out of her own misplaced ego...that Raavi still had a quiet hope that this was a misunderstanding 😒

Shock, disbelief, anger, sadness so much to show... But of course, we'll never get Raavi pov until after the sequence is done....I'm sure we'll get a sad song with flashbacks a few episodes later 🤔 But would it have been so hard to shave off a few minutes of the aangan drama and give some dialogues to Raavi?? It was her haq to be asking Shiva questions instead of Dhara being kya yeh sach hai 🤔

Originally posted by: wanderer102016

I agree! They need to make her the focus rather than being a reactionary figure.

But after watching the episode I felt really bad for her! Shiva has been unnecessarily rude to her in this episode and his tone gets unbearably horrible only when he addresses her!

He’s never once tried to empathize with her, talk to her rather than making assumptions abt what’s good for her, that’s what landed them both in this situation!
Raavi atleast made an effort and Shiva didn’t even acknowledge it and reciprocate!
I am pissed off at him today, especially his dream of strangling her shows how much he hates her or sees her as someone who doesn’t deserve to live, just coz she doesn’t get him. While he makes zero effort to Express his feelings!
Sorry for the rant, i am triggered 😕

I am pissed off at him today, especially his dream of strangling her shows how much he hates her or sees her as someone who doesn’t deserve to live, just coz she doesn’t get him.

Actually strangling someone is totally something else .. in college I use to study about dream and sleep cycle and trust me strangling someone that you love in dream does interpret something.. generally it means that you need to sort out problems with them