Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #83|ShiVi ka Divorce (Red Alert) - Page 34

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

How beautiful it would be if raavi becomes his support system and accompanies him to the sessions

And together they make it through

Now that's a love story I would love to watch

Not this madness , this is scary 🤪

@bold...seriously...I dnt knw why I am laughing..but to think that makers wanted to show dream romance and ended up horrifying us with abuse and murder attempt...who r these idiots making such stupid scenes. 🤪

How will they bring shiva and Raavi together even if they divorce?

As Suman's nurse or dhara's?

Magar raavi be tu b. Com Kiya hai

Krish tutor maybe? But I doubt raavi is any good at studies , usko Dev se fursat nahi Mili tu padti kab😆

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Does the court order couples to go for marriage councelling before the final divorce?

I am not sure but they do specially in the cases where there is no blaim on either of them for any wrong and specially if the marriage doesn't completes 1 yr.

If Shiva was Gaura's gurror then she should see how suddenly he changed, what went wrong.

Instead of being in her delusion world and making everything about herself she should talk with him and understand him, rather than accusing and crying like everything wrong is happening to her but not with Shiva and Raavi.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Raavi’s character has no clue what he is going through and writers will never give us that. So Raavi accompanying him to the therapy sessions is too far fetched.

I want Rishita to help him out😃

If rishitha had seen what happened with krish...I have no doubt that she would call asylum and turn shiva in. 😆

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

How will they bring shiva and Raavi together even if they divorce?

As Suman's nurse or dhara's?

Magar raavi be tu b. Com Kiya hai

Krish tutor maybe? But I doubt raavi is any good at studies , usko Dev se fursat nahi Mili tu padti kab😆

That's why they have made them neighbours..I dnt think ravi will be back to house unless everything sorts out..possibility of shivi remarrg. Makers and their need to make celebrations..

Originally posted by: wanderer102016

Agree!

Everyone should run from a guy who dreams about strangling them!
it’s too dangerous and not romantic at all!

Shiva needs therapy immediately to help him with his anger issues and childhood trauma!
then when he can stay close to Raavi without raising his voice and having violent thoughts then they should do counseling for their marriage!
else separating and living individual lives is the best option for them!
abuse is not something anyone should tolerate and any amount of trauma can’t justify hurting others!
shiva may be hurting himself but that doesn’t give him the right to abuse Raavi/ Krish physically / emotionally!
The makers are making all these relevant issues so trivial just for drama !

💯 agreed.

What childhood trauma does he have now It's so surprising ..yes they went through financial troubles once but gautams personal life and the bandars lives were set once dhara came . Before also dhara was taking care of them as an outsider. They had a cushioned life thereafter...what trauma are we talking about ? He acted so wild with mami that she started calling him jungli. So only mami's opinion matters to him ?

I don't get it . All his actions are being justified bec raavi doesn't understand him/ talk to him, his family doesn't understand him/talk to him, his mami talks low of him, raavis friends don't like him. Only when the whole world around him changes will he realize his mistake ? Is he a bottle fed baby?

Originally posted by: wanderer102016

That would be good!

But the sessions won’t help unless Shiva himself recognises he has a problem and He’s never felt bad tor the way he’s treated Raavi before and after marriage!

He’s always found a way to justify his behavior and now I’m convinced it’s better for Raavi to stay away from him till he gets help!

@Bold: Exactly

I may have loved Shiva and love KD's acting, and seeing Shiva being in conflict mode but can't support him.

He is wrong and continuosly doing wrong.

Raavi just got mad once and it became such a big issue. But Shiva just keep on repeating his wrong doings and never regrets it.

He went on her character twice and his tone is soo bad. I swear if someone talks with me like this I will slap that person.

Shiva is a great guy, mahaan thinking about Raavi. No way kya karo if he doesn't know how to atleast treat Raavi like a human with feelings and making her feel like shit.

Shiva ko bura laga toh Raavi per chadh jao, jese marzi treat karna hain karo kyu bcoz he is hurt and wants good for Raavi.

Itna he mahaan banna hain aaram se akele mein bolta ki u have problem with me, I don't want u to adjust, live your life with better people bcoz u don't think I am one. Then dekhta what would have been Raavi's decision.

But no Shiva is a great guy so treating Raavi like Shit and making her feel like one too bcoz he is hurt and wants good for Raavi.

Wahhh

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

At this point if GauRa itself are understanding towards him, it is a big deal Saakshi

They first need to stop putting him on the defense, and then only they can go about telling Raavi to assure Shiva.

Instead, today, they basically said that Shiva is of no consequence- Raavi has more rights on the house than Shiva does. 😐

They probably would have gone a step further to say- let's just kick Shiva out of the house, Raavi, you please stay behind

The problem with Gaura is they think everything will get fine with the Cooperative functioning of Gods 🤣🤣

Don't feel the need to go to the depth of the problem, analyze it and find a solution to it... sab kuch bas sahi dikhna chahiye, sahi ho na ho in real, doesn't make a difference 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: _charu_

💯 agreed.

What childhood trauma does he have now It's so surprising ..yes they went through financial troubles once but gautams personal life and the bandars lives were set once dhara came . Before also dhara was taking care of them as an outsider. They had a cushioned life thereafter...what trauma are we talking about ? He acted so wild with mami that she started calling him jungli. So only mami's opinion matters to him ?

I don't get it . All his actions are being justified bec raavi doesn't understand him/ talk to him, his family doesn't understand him/talk to him, his mami talks low of him, raavis friends don't like him. Only when the whole world around him changes will he realize his mistake ? Is he a bottle fed baby?

I assumed the trauma of losing his dad and the problems they faced from it. I imagined that was the starting point of his anger issues and his resentment towards Maami!

My problem with this characterization has always been his anger!

He used to manhandle and treat Raavi like crap all the time! There is no justification for it even if it stemmed from maami and her wrongdoing to his family!

Now he’s taken this manhandling several notches up with physical and emotional abuse on her! Him justifying that’s it’s for her good is not going to make her feel better!

In this scenario I am with Raavi, it’s always better to judge a person from their actions! He’s rude to her and she believes that’s how he is as a person!
he’s only been nice to his family, he’s been rude to Rishita as well, 2 wrongs don’t make a right!
He needs to mend his ways till then he’s not really partner material !