Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #83|ShiVi ka Divorce (Red Alert) - Page 29

Gaumbi was onboard with rishitas idea of marriage councellor but mami made her entry lol gosh dhara it's not about you.

Raavi blaming dhara wasn't just about the marriage but forcing them together after and pushing them and her way being right while their way wasn't counted she is right to be frustrated by dhara's constant interference and need to be right.

Rishita now Dharas new security guard is getting annoying but I guess she is paying back for always being defended by dhara even when she was vile.

Suman saying how can a third person tell a married couple what to do lol wth are you guys doing to shivi everyday lol she just doesn't want to waste money on therapy lol

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Honestly that is my entire problem with Gautam and Dhara. They feel like Shiva has to somehow make it work- whether Shiva is happy or not. As long as Raavi is chirpy or happy for the world to see.

And now that he cannot make it work, they are raising a hue and cry- it's like he is not allowed to fail. He is not allowed to have insecurities. If he fails, he is no use to them or the family 🤷‍♀️

I honestly want to know Shiva's education story now. If they do so much nautanki now, they should have screamed, shouted and emotionally blackmailed Shiva into finishing college 😐 How come they were so cool with that?

Can't believe I have become anti-GauRa 😢 I used to advocate so much for them.

Saying with self experience, any person who suffers from self doubt or inferiority complex, constantly needs a reminder or push of his self worth from outside from the people he loves and admires.

Shiva needs that only, not exactly from Gautam and Dhara because he knows he's their bachcha and they will love him anyway. They both need to understand his insecurities and communicate the same to Raavi so that she can get him out of it. I know many of us don't want Gaura interference but such issues don't get resolved without mediators. Shiva needs that assurance of his worth only from Raavi.

Ok I liked the scene where Dhara asked Shiva if his heart does not beat for Raavi. He did not say anything and was sadly looking at Raavi❤️

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Two minutes of silence who were waiting for a romantic shivi dream sequence🤣

Lol I gave a close preview in EDT. I said we already got the intensity we're going to see and Krish will kick him for sleep talking and break Shiva's dream. This was more disturbing because Shiva could have almost killed her in his dream and Krish in reality. It makes one wonder if this is how treats Raavi at night especially when he was screaming Chipkali, Chipkali. I get it he's doing for her well being, but he's being too toxic atm. I'd tell any girl near me to stay away from being involved with him romantically until he figures out his issues. He needs help!

And precap is another smh.

Originally posted by: majoni03

I think we can😆

Ok just to clarify, when Avi and I suggested on the celebrations thread- it is when 4 of us agreed to a green episode. 🤣

Did I assume correctly Avi? 😆

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Two minutes of silence who were waiting for a romantic shivi dream sequence🤣

Not me, totally expected it to be a dream, even said it in the previous EDT. I also knew he will bother Krish but never thought he will suffocate him🤣

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Well technically Dev did not elope 😆

And I guess Dev had completed his studies but Kannan is still studing in the OG.

But he's doing masters. He did finish underhrad, no? It's common for people to be married and working while they do masters. That's why a lot of classes are in evening (at least mine were here).

@ funny_fubar

I agree with most of the things you’ve posted with regards to Shiva’s behavior and questioning him about all this drama he’s doing for Raavi’s good!

Assumptions are always bad, talk it out!

They are seriously making him more chauvinist just for TRPs, he was unnecessarily aggressive to Raavi to begin with and it’s just getting worse!
people who make a public spectacle of their relationship never actually get over it, I really don’t see a way out for them that’s actually healthy!

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Ok just to clarify, when Avi and I suggested on the celebrations thread- it is when 4 of us agreed to a green episode. 🤣

Did I assume correctly Avi? 😆

Lol, it was the most meh of meh episodes 🤣

I thoroughly enjoyed ShiRish's suffocating brotherly love, but everything apart from that was like, "Raavi... please sign the divorce notice so I can peace out!" 😎

Celebrations intact! 🥳

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Saying with self experience, any person who suffers from self doubt or inferiority complex, constantly needs a reminder or push of his self worth from outside from the people he loves and admires.

Shiva needs that only, not exactly from Gautam and Dhara because he knows he's their bachcha and they will love him anyway. They both need to understand his insecurities and communicate the same to Raavi so that she can get him out of it. I know many of us don't want Gaura interference but such issues don't get resolved without mediators. Shiva needs that assurance of his worth only from Raavi.

At this point if GauRa itself are understanding towards him, it is a big deal Saakshi

They first need to stop putting him on the defense, and then only they can go about telling Raavi to assure Shiva.

Instead, today, they basically said that Shiva is of no consequence- Raavi has more rights on the house than Shiva does. 😐

They probably would have gone a step further to say- let's just kick Shiva out of the house, Raavi, you please stay behind